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Brandie, 31

United States, New York, Utica

Offline, last seen Sat, 29 Aug 2026 00:10:45

About Me

Hi, overall I would say I am pretty happy with my life. I have a great family, great friends, two beautiful cats, a decent job and a roof over my head. I am very blessed. I do however feel a tad bit lonely when it comes to my love life. It's been 6 yrs since my last relationship. That's a long time! Though I have missed having a man in my life I have also seen the silver lining. Within the past 6 yrs I feel as though I have really found myself. I know who I am and what I need. I'm not one of these girls that has gone from one guy to the next trying to find happiness. Happiness starts with yourself, if you can't be happy alone you won't be happy with anyone else either. Don't get me wrong, I have my moments when I get down, but I am also human and I do have other emotions. I'm fine without a special someone in my life, but I sure would like to have one.I like to think of myself as a fun person. I can talk to about anyone. I can laugh at myself (Lord knows I do & say enough silly things that I better have a sense of humor when it comes to myself). I love God. I love my family. I love my friends. I love children. I enjoy cooking and baking and having a glass of wine while I do so. I enjoy movies, board games, card games, going to the theatre, riding bikes, going on walks, shopping, restaurants, martini's (shaken not stirred), wine... I think that's enough for now. if you want to know anything else just ask.I will be honest with you, I just ask that you be the same with me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Swimming Sci-Fi Sport
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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

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