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Martha, 31

United States, New York, Utica

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About Me

Between work and school, I stay pretty busy but it would be nice to enjoy the company of someone. I love the outdoors so I like to take every opportunity to be outside. :) Me: Goofy, opinionated, caring, open-minded, spontaneous, and honest. Some people may mistake my bluntness for abrasiveness at times, but I just tell it like I see it. I am very self-aware, too, so I am capable of recognizing when I am wrong and I will be the first to admit it. My ideal date has an awesome sense of humor, depth, similar values, and a big heart. Im not interested in the person you were in the past, but who you are as a result of your past. Personal growth is important to me, and I would love to meet someone that is capable of reflecting on the lessons they have learned from life's experiences. Mistakes are not meant to define us, but to guide us, and I believe it speaks to the integrity of a person's character when they can turn each experience into a positive one. Turn offs: Negative people (People who play the victims of the world just drain my energy--I have zero tolerance for it)Guys who take pics of themselves in the mirror showing off their muscles Insecurity (When I can tell people are fishing for compliments, I will purposely NOT give one--But when I give one, you know Im being genuine! :))Arrogance (Confidence=Awesome! ****ness=vom in my mouf! )Turn Ons:A nice smileKindness GoofinessSpontaneaity (I know I murdered that spelling) Whatever strikes our fancy...I love to eat, play, dance, drink, and be merry! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro Salsa Adult Horror
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