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Mattie, 51
United States, Michigan, Bay City

Offline, last seen Tue, 30 Sep 2025 01:51:35

About Me

I am always looking for the best in people. Smiles say more than words can convey often. I always like to look for the best in everybody. People are great and fun to get to know. I enjoy the simple things in life and try to appreciate everything I see and do. I like to be there for whoever needs me and my time. I love to listen to everybody. There is always hope for not so good times. I hope that I have guided my children well. I have had people tell me that they are very polite and respectful towards them and others. I believe that this has come from me being their best cheerleader when they are down, and listening when they have their finet achievements yet. I have learned alot from my parents who have been married 51 years. They are the greatest teachers. I hope this will be past down to them also. I have worked in the medical field at the same lab for 23 years and I have a terrific job. I am a very lucky and fortunate person. I am extremely blessed to have excellent health. This is something that I am very grateful for and I definitely appreciate it every day. I believe that it is time for me to find someone special who would like to spend some great quality time together. I am always respectful of differences and likenesses. Lets see if we can add to these. Our first date would be superb if you and I could sit across from each other and talk the night away. A glass of wine would spark the conversation and let us be more at ease. Dinner would be both calm and exciting. After our meal, we would definitely have to take a walk to continue talking. We would then go out dancing to get to know each other better. We would lose track of time and never want the night to end. But as they say in the movies "All good things must come to an end". Thank goodness this is NOT the movies! Can't wait till our next date!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Hi! My name is Cassie. I am never married atheist caucasian woman with kids from Bay City, Michigan, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Where else do you get to pick who you talk to simply based on how one person sees themselves? Good old POF!! Oh and if you’re lucky they posted a picture, guess you’re not one of the lucky ones because I’ve opted not to post a picture for the simple fact my looks seem to attract those looking for sex. I’m not conceded but I am confidently attractive. My nose is only slightly inverted, way different from conceded... ? Well you’ve got this far you might as well get yourself a drink you may be here awhile... ? I’m not going to say I’m not crazy because let’s get real ALL chicks are crazy to a degree. Luckily I’ve not been admitted, medicated or restrained so I believe this puts me in the less crazy chick category!! Now that’s gotta be worth an ATTA girl! In all reality, the only crazy part of me isn’t seen in public... ? My 3 year old son is the most important man in my life and will always come first. If you can’t understand or accept that then unfortunately we will not get along. My boy is my heart and he keeps me grounded and oh the sense of humor on that kid. I only wonder where get got it from.; might need to teach his mother a few things. I have no “baby daddy drama” or jealous ex’s hanging around. Unfortunate, fortunately my son’s dad opted to take the not involved road. I believe everything happens for a reason, today it may seem unjust but tomorrow it will make sense. This makes me that “The Glass Is Half Empty” kinda girl. Nope not wrong its half EMPTY. If the glass was half full I wouldn’t have much room for Vodka! ? I’m honest to a fault and I anticipate people to be just as honest. I dislike games and bullshit; be upfront saying it how it is... There is nothing more admirable than a man that is truthful. Being honest includes determining what’s there mentally and/or physically or not at all. Like you, my time is precious and I don’t have time to pretend to save someone’s feels and I’d expect the same back. When the connection is there mentally, sexually, physically, intellectually everything will line up naturally. My career is very important to me and I’m lucky that I have a job I absolutely love. I’m great with people and planning so I’m a great fit for the role I have. My Flaws... well surprisingly I’m not perfect!! I know how hard is that to believe eh.. I’m directionally challenged.. Me, directions and parking lots don’t get on well.. Thank goodness for GPS!! I see the good and positive in all people which usually gets me walked on but I’ve been practicing my karate moves in the elevator at work. My flying high kick is getting pretty good.. I even got a high five from security after they watched my moves on camera! ? I’m faithful to a fault and I trust to easy. Once that trust is broken chances are it won’t be the same. I’m a confident person but I think it’s important to remind the person you are with how much you are attracted to them. – I put this in flows because I don’t think men realize the importance of this.. I hate cooking... I can cook but I think it is a waste of time unless you’re having a big party. Working full time, being a single full time mother, going to school part-time and the gym, spare time is limited but I do fit in spending time with my family, friends, playing pool or a night on the town. I love dancing, anytime there is music playing I’ll be “shaken my ass”, I’ll be the first one on the dance floor even if no one else is around. People will always find time for the things they are interested in. One of my biggest pet peeves is the excuse of “I’m busy, or don’t have time”... I think its drink refill time..... What do I want? I want to find a man that is perfect for me and I’m perfect for him. I want to have that first spark feeling that never goes away and in 20 years still want to have our hands all over each other. Someone that can handle my smartass humour and dish it back. That intense sexual and physical attraction and be compatible in the bedroom. A man that will keep me mentally interested and even teach and challenge me. Being a very passionate person, he’s has to love touching including cuddling. (Just not when its sleep time.) I’m not a jealous person (unless the trust is broken); and I think it’s healthy to have girls/guys time with your friends. MY BIGGEST TURN OFF... requests for or sending pictures of your “junk”... no matter how hard you plead I will not send you naked pictures.. Men this is called class many women are missing it! I have no problem sending pictures to someone I’m in a relationship with but common do you really want to see a picture that has been sent around to 10 people before you and all those people showed their friends. Girls are worse than guys we show our friends those pictures... Lastly, I do try to be courteous and respond to people but time does not always allow for me to respond to everyone so if I have not responded I’m sorry but I just didn’t feel you were a “fit”.

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  • Lavonne from Bay City | Woman | 31 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I am a very family orientated person. I spend a lot of time with them. My daughter comes first in everything I do. I’m really cautious of who I expose my daughter to. I really enjoy traveling. Going to different states is one of my favorite things to do. I’m kind of a private person that likes some space. Laughter is really important to me. If I can't make you laugh and vise-verse then in reality its not gonna work lol! I thinking on going back to school to become an accountant. Love to crunch numbers. I’m relatively laid back, don’t like to be the jealous type, and normally I’m not. I can’t stand to be controlled and segregated from people. I’m not a cheater. I have been single for over 2 years and I'm thinking that I'm ready to find a relationship, finally. lol. But I'm not going to settle for anything less then fire works. I'm very picky and I can't help it I'm a sucker for a pretty face! I also would like someone that takes care of his body and works out. I have to have an attraction to you. sorry if its brutal but its a fact of life. I love all kinds of music as long as it’s good music. I am a scary movie freak. I want a strong pair of arms to cuddle up with and watch them. I also like other movies but I will pick a horror flick over most any day. And just recently discovered I have a huge love for rock concerts!on a side note I'm pretty awesome and try to be drama free. Which in its oddity sometimes has been known to scare guys off. lol Idk maybe they crave drama, just like many women. I for one opt not to have it! I love romance, the more romantic a guy the better a chance of him getting another date, I like someone to take their time and let me know that I am worth a well planned out evening. I know that it sounds so cheesy but a walk in the park is very romantic to me dinner a movie. If there is chemistry then some cuddling and sweet kisses. I believe in taking things slow and enjoying the moments. But I also like a wild and spontaneous date, one that is moment to moment and just unexpected, kind of the bad boy factor. I guess I liked to be surprised!

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