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Alfreda, 39

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Updated: I don’t feel like re-writing my profile, I am just going to add to it and you can read what you would like to read on here. I have been back on here since the beginning of the summer. I have chatted with many the first time, less this time around, very very few have I met in person and only one have I allowed in my home to meet my children whom pissed me off because I am a good mother,that is important to me and he was misleading me. I seriously wanted to delete this because of him. If you have my phone number then you are luckier than the other men that wanted it and didn’t get it. I don’t normally make first contact, did that, done that the first time on here, if I have contacted you first then you have written something on your profile that interested me. I do keep in touch with some that I chat with that I have found that are good decent men, straight up honest and some who are faithful to their woman that they finally found. I do respect that and am happy for them. I don’t feel I need to blow myself up to bullsh*t you in using fancy adjectives in my writing, I am not in classes to be graded at this time. I like to keep things real. I have hopes in meeting that one man that is worth my wild and when I meet that one special man I will delete this profile.I hope to meet someone that can make me an importance in their life. Now, that doesn't mean drop everything and make me center, it just means that I like having little actions shown of making an effort, such as, a phone call or some texts throughout the day. No matter how busy or whatever may be going on, to me, a little effort of calling tells me your thinking of me...I am attracted to men that has a heart in showing they care. yet, keeps the flirty,charming, funny and excitement going no matter what comes across or dealing with in life situations, good or bad. If you happen to be a load heated angry man, that doesn't care who is around while venting your anger, then please move on.. My point of view in my life is that am not willing to deal with B S, game playing or waste my time for weeks in finding out later that there are three other women your smoothing up in having an interest for. I feel am too old for crap like that in which I have experiences on this site a few times. If your recently divorced, or going through a divorce/married, please move on. I spend most of my time working, taking care of my day to day responsibilities,. I think of myself as a strong willed, independent woman. I like to live an okay stable life. The best joy to me in my life is being a mother to my kids. I been raising my kids on my own for well over 12 years alone by choice. I am shy at first until I get to know a person. I am not too crazy about stress, drama or conflicts, those three are things I do run from. I am a firm believer of respect and on the same hand, I am not afraid to speak my mind when I feel I need to.. How I am treated is how I will treat a person back. Once in a while I do like to stop and have a drink at the bar. I like to do a mixture of different activities.Try not to make plans because they seem to not work out as planed.Doing the same thing over and over I get bored of after a while.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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