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Susanne, 30
United States, Alabama, Bessemer

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First and foremost, if you ask for sex, I'm going to block you. If you say creepy sh*tabout my appearance, also blocking you. I'm not some trashy whore, and I will not talk to anyone who regards me as such.I'm beginning to think that most people are incapable of seeking anything with substance due to their own negativity. The amount of negative messages I receive and people quick to think they're being rejected if I don't respond, is quite astounding. I don't really know why one would be that sensitive to a lack of response from a complete stranger, especially when a lack of response can mean many things, most of which aren't even personal.. Going to work on this but in the meantime here's some cautionary tales.I'm sort of a "creative" type in the sense that my imagination leads to some outlandish thoughts and yes, I do have a rather offbeat sense of humor complete with the occasional sarcasm.I just find it incredibly difficult to meet people, let alone anyone I can connect with. So, friends. I seek them. Maybe dating. Maybe. Depends who you are. If you're just going based on looks, we won't work. I place a higher value on personality and intelligence and all of those other things. If you get all creepy on me, VANISH. If you're focused on sex, also, go away.Also if all you say is "hi" or "sup" or a terrible pickup line, it's a guarantee I won't respond. Because I have messages with under 50 characters blocked because when you have over ***messages of just "HI" and nothing at all to really set them apart, its a bit overwhelming even thinking about responding to all of them. Therefore, I figure if someone is actually interested in getting to know ME *** just throwing out dozens of 'hi' messages and just praying that ANY FEMALE AT ALL will reply, I'd rather make it a bit easier on myself. I also block people looking for "intimate encounters." If I can also discern you sent me a copy and pasted message, I also won't either because IDK from my point of view that sort of reeks of desperation thrown at just anyone at all and that's a waste of my time. FIRING LASERS AT THE ENEMYAlso, you should be okay with the fact that I'm vegetarian AND gluten free!Also please be relatively intelligent and be capable of conversation. BLANK STARES ARE SORT OF OFF-PUTTING.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz Biography Horror Music American Football
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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

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