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Velma, 30
United States, Alabama, Bessemer

Offline, last seen Tue, 13 Jan 2026 10:05:59

About Me

WAIT! Before you read this,here is a list of necessary requirements to date me: no exceptions....1. Must have job.2. Must have car. 3. You have a driver's license.4. No criminal record for drugs/assault.5. Must NOT live with your parentsOkay carry on.....Hello boys, well I am on here pretty much in search of the one. I know exactly what I want out of life and I know exactly what I want out of a relationship.I am a smart, caring, compassionate and a giving person that would love to find someone who knows how to appreciate those qualities in a woman and not take it for granted. I am looking for someone who is ready for a serious relationship and is at the point in their life that they would like to meet their significant other. I would like to meet my best friend really. I want to meet someone who wants to get out and go on crazy adventures and also someone who values the time spent at home while eating an amazing dinner cooked by me because I love to cook. I would like to meet someone who enjoys nature and would love to go hiking with me, or camping, or ocean trips and all such adventures. I would like to meet someone who can dedicate their time to do things and not be too busy with their bros to spend time with their girl.The qualities I am looking for in a partner are as follows: smart, intellectual, open minded about religion and politics (agnostic/liberal), sweet,caring, understanding, has a plan for the future,outgoing, sarcastic, communicates well, honest, likes to cuddle, romantic, and preferably handsome...lol....oh and last but not least knows how to be a man and makes decisions with confidence.- embarrassing- but goodwill, and vintage stores, I love cooking, and I am a clean freak-my apartment is spotless-, I enjoy an occasional drink but never get drunk, I don't do drugs, I smoke the Ecig cuz im trying to quit smoking real cigarettes, I love discussing philosophy and love having deep intellectual conversations, I love the ocean, I have no pets and no kids but one day would like to have a child and a dog, I have a good job and I am proud of my career, I love watching the history channel but all other television shows are pointless to me besides walking dead, love that series, I paint and do all sorts of crafts, love to be creative, i have a passion for life and love to be out doing things, i love hiking and camping.I am very honest, and have never cheated on a partner, i am loyal, dedicated, and give 100% to a relationship and I expect the same from whomever I'm with, That's about it...xoxo First date should always be coffee or a drink ***drink then out the door - then process date- decide yes or no -...you can always tell if there is potential within the first five minutes of meeting someone. Nothing more awkward then going out on a long date and feeling like there is no sparks and you are stuck in an activity that should be fun but you both cant find anything to say to each other cuz you just want to go home ....lol.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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