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Erma, 39

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About Me

I'm a pretty laid back girl that likes to have fun. In the summer, I enjoy hanging out, boating, cooking out, being outside. I've lived in the DC area my whole life and there's still plenty of it to see.). I'm just as comfortable putting a movie on the DVD and kicking back at home as I am dressing up for a night on the town. I love heading out to the Eastern Shore, or up in to the mountains for a weekend trip. There are so many things to do around here as well.I'm done with drama and want someone who is old enough to know what it takes to make a relationship work. In a relationship, there is "us" time, "me" time, and "you" time. If you are someone who has to be with their other half ***, I'm not your girl. I like to hang out with my girls sometimes (and seriously, what guy REALLY wants to go shopping?) and I'm totally cool with you having your "guy" time. I love to watch football, baseball and hockey (GO CAPS!!!***but if you want to head over to your friends house to watch it, have a great time. I have an adorable 8 year old boy (hey, I'm his mom :)) who keeps me on my toes, but I know when it's mommy time and when it's me time! (and, no - I'm not a soccer mom, I'm a hockey mom ;***we're much cooler!) If you have kids, great - if not, no biggie.I'm looking for someone who knows what's going on in the world and can have an articulate conversation about it. We may not agree on everything (how boring would that be?***but be able to discuss your opinions (who knows, you may sway me ;)Finally, if you add me to your favorites and don't message me - don't expect to hear from me. I consider myself a modern girl, but there are some things I still leave to you guys ;) Surprise me...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Candycabebe

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-34

    Hi! My name is Candycabebe. I am separated other caucasian woman with kids from Nampa, Idaho, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Imogene

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    You must not make yourself wrong if you have a pattern you are creating over and over, for the clearing of that pattern is one of the ways you evolve. It is time now to bring this self into consciousness, talk to it, and give it a new image of what kind of love you want." ---Sanaya Roman, Living with JoyAbout who I am looking for: I am personally looking for someone that is well grounded in their relationship values and who is ready for a long-term relationship. That being revealed I would like to meet someone who is somewhat educated and can carry a conversation about anything that night arises; someone of at least slightly above average intellect with maturity, wit, intellect, generosity and good manners.I am looking for a calm and self assured man between the ages ***who is kind and good hearted. I think my type is the intelligent, well spoken, creative, nature and art loving, man's man type. Idealy 6ft or over, educated,and easy going. I am looking for a man whom I can get lost in conversation with, just as easily as we can share one of those moments of comfortable silence in each others arms. My ideal match would have a strong personality and a good outlook on life - love to go out as much as to stay in. A night reading a book can be better than a fine dinner. I prefer classy and sophisticated gentlemen who enjoy foreign travel, jazz, exotic dining, fine wine and contemporary art. Charm and manners seem to hold little value for many but I hold them dearly. You must have a sense of direction in your life and be successful in whatever you do.Yes, IM single, and you have to be amazing to change that :)Thanks for reading, if you came this far... ********************************** ****I do hope that everyone finds their soul mate...lover...companion....or friend on here.. Will be something like a quiet ambience with a glass of wine where we can talk and get to know eachother. I am not into bars and clubs!Also, bike ride sounds great: I love outdoor activities :-)

  • Stacey

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I hope this moment sees you well, Welcome! This is I…on a page. I will try to convey with words some of my essence. It cannot compare to coming face to face and feeling, yet it can make a meeting palpable. No smoke or mirrors here to attract you, I seek something real and deep and that is done as I am and not by misrepresentation. I hope you, dear reader, are of the same mind. Now drink in my words and allow them to color your mind. English is my second language, first cuss word (unbeknown to me) I learned was motherfu….I gleefully told my new found word to my stepfather. That didn’t go over well. Imagine me now at the age of 10 in my older brother’s bedroom where several of us have convened to tell jokes. My turn, oh yes, I think I have a good one; the mere image of it in my head has me snickering before I utter a single word. In the deepest voice I can muster, I say “A big fat man walking down the street” I immediately lose it and laugh so hard that I can no longer speak, everyone is looking at me and can’t help themselves from laughing. Repeatedly I say the phrase, each time laughing harder than before. For once, I got more laughs with the lamest joke EVER in the history of jokes, merely from my own reaction, than my brother. Not much has changed since I was ten; I still sometimes hear a certain phrase or picture in my head and bust out laughing uncontrollably. Laughing is surely one of life’s greatest pleasures. I have loved unconditionally, no matter how much it hurt and tore I loved regardless. This is not description of bitterness, but rather of my capability of loyalty and loving beyond measure. I believe in love. I have experienced betrayal of the worst kinds, I’ve endured and come out the other side with no plots of revenge and a heart free of hate. Some have told me I am too nice, but it is what I value most in myself. My character is dear to me in only the way I see clear not what anyone thinks it should be. . My eulogy will rival that of Gandhi’s…kidding. My outside probably doesn’t measure to what is ideally attractive in society’s eyes, but hell it’s just a vessel to hold my awesomeness in ;0) I have one last story to tell you reader before you go. After I had my first child and moved ten hours from everyone and everything I knew, something in me changed that I did not immediately recognize as something that would ultimately make my world small. The anxiety beast with panic attacks that turned into agoraphobia. What is this you wonder, my best explanation I can give you is when I am not on medication fear is ever present, of what I haven’t a clue. With the medication, I now only feel this way when I venture into public, so someone I trust must be with me, my fight or flight response is unpredictable and can kick in with no apparent cause. Struggling with this, after divorce, my only option was to live with my mom. Now perhaps you wonder what a relationship would be like with someone like me, and are worried at how I would need you. Well I think you just might need me too, it is human nature to need others in one way or another. Will I lose myself in you, well no, I will always remain who I am. Can we venture out? Yes please, let us visit beautiful places with lots of nature for me to photograph. Let’s find a dive bar with only a few patrons to sit and giggle. Let us visit a museum during a day that isn’t overpopulated. Let’s find a place on the beach, be serenaded into peace by the waves. How about camping, fishing, or laying on a blanket in a place where every star is visible. It is my hope that getting out enough will help me venture farther; I am a great person if you dare to look beyond my anxiety, for I am so much more than it. Whatever we can imagine

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