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Pamela, 42

United States, New York, Binghamton

Offline, last seen Fri, 09 Oct 2026 06:32:28

About Me

Empty nester, and loving it..child is happy and in college, and now have time for my own passions. I have been widowed 8 years, have mourned in my earlier years...but now I embrace myself for realizing the true beauty and importance of life. I dont sweat the small stuff, no drama, that is way to exhausting...don't lie or play games...hell I can't remember what I lied about, and can't remember where I left off playing the game...lol. I do not sit around trying to figure out how to mess with someones life....do people really do that? When I am home I love to be outside.I have horses, and am an accomplished horsewoman there are other sports I like to do. I am a country girl at heart. I was raised city but I chose country 17 years ago. I am country but, not redneck but, it has shown itself once in awhile I have a wonderful light hearted sense of humor and love to tell jokes and when you're not looking I will think of a prank to pull on you so you must have a good sense of humor. I am a very affectionate person and will hug you every time I see you with a big smile on my face and will probably tell you how much you mean to me when I'm getting off the phone. I'll probably be cuddled up against you watching a movie and curled up against you sound asleep at night.I love a man who has a great sense of self confidence I think that is sexy. I really love a man who has a soft heart for animals and children I hope to have a great time with my grandchildren later in life for now my daughter says I'm going to have grand puppies. I enjoyed being around a man who is active and loving. I love a man who is rational and reasonable but will stand his ground and fight for what he believes in.What the hell is the deal with the question..Do you have a car? No I have a lear jet, so your driveway must be a runway...so I can land my plane..chuckle. I am always a good sport and I think someplace relaxed and casual is always good where you can sit and talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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