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Arlene, 40

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About Me

I'm easygoing and look for the best in people, but I'm nobody's fool. I am writing young adult novels (teens) and my background is in journalism, politics and running youth programs as a social worker. A do-gooder with a practical side, I don't take myself too seriously. I enjoy running on the beach or hiking every day (if possible).Change is my friend, and I love shaking up the routine when it gets stale.-to-5 job to consult and write. Oh yeah, I’m a stickler for grammar and punctuation (unless I really like you?) and am liberal with my use of commas:)I used to plan my vacations so I could see everything but now I like to go with the flow. Last year I visited a writing retreat in a tiny village in the south of France with only 50 people. I can small talk with the best of them, but I'm turned on by deeper conversation. I love eating exotic foods: Indian, Japanese, Thai, French, even vegetarian:), but I'll always have a soft spot for my Mom's Chicken Florentine. I love dessert and will gladly skip dinner for it. Ice cream, cake and brownies are faves.My taste in music runs from classic rock to pop to movie soundtracks to new age. Like goofy movies, guy comedies,dramas and independent films mostly (anything except horror).I consider myself spiritual and gave up Catholicism long ago. (Though does one ever really escape?!)I'd love to hike, run, chow down on good eats, go to a movie, concert, basketball or baseball game with you – or just veg out and eat Ben and Jerry’s. I'm game to try anything once as long it doesn't land me in jail. Although that would be a good thing to write about…! I'd love to meet for coffee/tea and get to know each other a bit. I'm not a big phone or *** -prefer to meet face-to-face for a brief chat. Then a hike or a walk or some other activity. A movie or concert. A few hours at the beach. Farmer's markets. With the right person, anything is fun:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sheila

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-52

    Hi! My name is Sheila. I am never married spiritual but not religious caucasian woman with kids from Binghamton, New York, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Minerva

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Shakespeare once said.. Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind. Sometimes however I think we might need to clean our glasses and take a second look! LOL!Update ***tired of all the crazies, freaks and posers... I truly want to find "that guy" Sick of games.... Like you guys I have a specific man that I'm looking for and when I meet him and am sure that things are going to work out I will be deleting this profile. I really don't want to be on here. I'm looking for the man that compliments me completely. The one I can't live without. ..no pics no response ...come on quit hiding behind your profile! Also, I only date men of my own ethnic background. I'm just not into anything other than that, sorry guys! One last thing, I hate being smothered. By that I mean when im working I can't take calls text are okay but don't get upset if I don't respond right away because I'm probably in a meeting. I will respond when I'm out. I understand communication is the key but I don't think it's necessary to call me 10 times a day for hour long talks. I can't do that. Talking on lunch time, after work and in the evening is cool. *** great as well during my work day. I can do that no worries. The song that best describes how to catch me would be by 38 special. "Hold On Loosely" I'm a down to Earth person that works in the city and lives in the country. I am a single mom and my daughter is my world!Working my tail off and running after a 9 yr old! I think I'm officially a chauffeur! She has more of a social life than I do! Goodness!Seriously, I'm a Web Business Analyst full-time and a Make-up Artist part-time. My daughter and I were blessed to buy our first home so I've really just been focusing on the lawn, backyard...where to put flowerbeds..what color of lawn furniture...dreams of a pergola....you know....girly stuff!I am the "soccer mom" so to speak and I love it. I work hard and come home to my little one. I love it but I'm missing companionship. It would really be nice just to have someone that I could share my day with and them share with me and the story not consist of what happened at recess! Don't get me wrong...I heart everyone of those stories and I'm grateful that my daughter opens up to me. I pray that never changes. :)Movies-- Thrillers, Drama, Action, Romantic Comedies and Comedies. I will watch a scary movie but only in the day time...yes I'm a chicken hawk!Music--I love a little bit of everything but I really can't stand country (the old stuff) the newer stuff is okay I like it...If you listened to my play list you would hear:BEP'sPinkSlither-- She is that which I myself am not. In the act of love, I am pure male, and she is pure female. She is she, and I am I, and clasped together with her, I know how perfectly she is not me, how perfectly I am not her, how utterly we are two, the light and the darkness, and how infinetly and eternally, not-to-be-comprehended by either of us is the surpassing ONE we make.--D. H.!! I honestly feel some place like this would offer both of us a more comfortable environment.What I find sexy about a man....I love a tall man (5'9" minimum) To me the lips, eyes, hair, scent and butt are all great but there's just something about the back of a mans thigh. It's so sexy to me. The front of a man's neck is also another thing I find very sexy. The outline of the SCM muscle on the front of the neck is very sensual.

  • Marjorie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    About me: I am open, honest, happy and fun loving with lots of energy and need someone that can keep up with me. I am extremely motivated and optimistic with a zest for living life to its fullest. I am comfortable with who I am in my own skin. Family and friends are very important to me and I welcome the addition of the special people in your life. I can fit in at any occassion or place from casual to ultra classy. I enjoy planning vacations or surprises, theater, movies, dinner, picnics,concerts, amusement parks,sporting events, animals/dogs, BBQ's at home by the pool/lake, holidays,making a house a home, romantic fires/candlelight, the beach or the mountains,snow skiing, boating/paddleboarding/snorkeling working on NAUI scuba cert.,biking/spinning for healthy lifestyle,riding on a Harley but classy not trashy, dancing and simply spending time with someone whom we compliment each others lives.I like to try new things and sometimes doing the same old thing. I like an organized and clean home/surroundings. I own a real estate brokerage therefore, have a flexible schedule however, very busy at times. I am most grateful to have a happy, successful and fulfilled life with no drama!About Him: Time is precious and goes by so quickly...it is not the breaths we take, rather what takes our breath away! What is important to me is a loyal, genuine, transparent man who shows respect and is kind & fun loving! I would like to be with someone who can take time off to play and enjoy life when we are not working. I am open to new hobbies to share with you. It would be ideal to be able to travel at least once a season. I find it sexy to have a man that can cook and is handy around the house. I look at life as what is meant to be will be... without any pressure.

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