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Harriet, 48

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About Me

I'm not as innocent as I look, LOL but I am as sweet.I have been banging my head against a wall at this dating stuff. I'm a nice person looking for the same. I'm looking for my best friend in life. I'm VERY different from any woman you've ever met. I'm definitely a girly girl. I love shopping BUT, slap a 22 in my hands and we have a day at the shooting range. I'm looking for a man that treats women with respect and has NEVER hit a woman. I'm looking for a man that wants a long term relationship with a soul mate and is not always looking for an upgrade. I'm looking for a man that's looking for "ME". So, let's cut the Crap! I'm a sincerely honest, loyal person that's looking for the same. I don't like mean people, they tend to hurt my feelings. So if you've made a woman cry in the last month, please don't contact me. Ok, these are my bare minimum rules... 1. NO married men. 2. If you're looking for a one night stand.....STOP READING HERE! 3. Your income is not an issue here but if you don't have enough money to pay your next car payment, I'm not your girl. 4. If you have to take out a loan to go on vacation, we're not meant for each other. 5. If you still live with your ex, hmmm....see a therapist. 6. If you don't have a car or place to live......WOW, do I really have to say anything? 7. You must secure and be mentally and financially stable. Life isn't all about money but lack of money shouldn't be an issue either. I'm an honest, sweet, loyal, somewhat shy woman that's looking for an honest man that wants a friend for life. I'm looking for a man that's looking for his best friend by day and a wild woman by night. I'm looking for a man that has class, wants to travel and loves life. I love the outdoors so much that I own a tent that rivals my home so, you should like camping. Ok, just to see if you actually care what I wrote in my profile....mention champagne and strawberries in your reply.I could go on and on with who I am and who I want, blah blah blah, but who really wants to read a novel about that crap? Bottom line......looking for a guy that will treat me good and expect the same, not cheat on me and really wants to be in a relationship. I believe a woman should be there for her partner 100% and treat him with respect and should expect the same in return. After all these years of trial and tribulation, I've learned you only get out of a relationship what you put into it. I'm looking forward to a mature, exciting life with the man I hope to spend the rest of my life with. I hope you like amusement parks because this is going to be a wonderful ride. **BTW, this was a great *** First date? Wow, yes. The most awkward time in a relationship but what a wonderful time as well. The first time you feel butterflies and the anticipation of the first kiss. LOL. On the flip side, the thought of........"how do I get out of this one" and "why in the *** am I doing this?" But, you and I already have one thing in common, we both are looking for a better way of life.Just a hint, if this is the first day of the rest of our life together, make it good, even if it doesn't work out. If it does work, this could be the first date with your future partner........make it good. I know I want my first date to be one that I will forever remember.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kara

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    Woman. 79 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 61-81

    Hi! My name is Kara. I am never married spiritual but not religious caucasian woman without kids from Johnstown, Pennsylvania, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Opal

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    ME: I am a smart, strong, independent, generous, passionate and competitive woman. I love a good adventure. I tend to look for the good in everything. I am cognizant that life is about living, and for me that means taking the time to slow down and be present in the moment. Love live music; it's the melody that first attracts me but it is the lyrics that make me fall in love with a song. I enjoy most genres of music; alternative, indie, singer-songwriter, folk, classic rock, jazz, blues and I have even been listening to a bit of new Country which is out of character for me. I’ I describe myself as having an hourglass figure, just a tad too much sand in the bottle for my liking, so I am a work in progress. Other interests include travel, hiking, art and cultural events, unfettered conversation, playing drums, cooking, and quality time spent with my friends and family.YOU: Obviously, chemistry seems to trump all, and quality trumps quantity in my book. I'm not about juggling multiple men I'm tepid toward (which is a disservice to all involved). I realize that mutual "rock your world" chemistry is quite the elusive thing, but I know it is possible. The following are characteristics/qualities I would desire to find in the man I would ultimately want to share my time with – not all are requirements. There could be some magical combination. Witty and educated, can talk on a myriad of subjects Great sense of humor is a mustSees things from a variety of perspectives and is open minded Listens to me and values my opinionsKnows how and when to take risksGenerally sees the glass as half fullThoughtful, passionate, spontaneous, curious, comfortable and quietly confident Young at heart and understands the importance of playShares similar interests and has some cross over with my musical tastesTells me I’m beautiful even when I might not be having the best dayUses terms of endearment liberally, yet genuinelyNot afraid of PDA, will hold my hand, hug and kiss me, in private will throw me down on the sofa, in the kitchen or in the bedroom in the heat of the moment and make love to me with wild abandonKnows my family and friends are important and supports those other relationships in my lifeCooks, knows something about wine and good food, strives to eat healthy Balances self needs with the needs of othersLikes to travelTries new things just becauseAsks and sometimes tells me what he wants, can be directive at timesCan relax and hang out at home having an uncomplicated “us day”– willing to express self in a variety of mediumsDesires happiness for self and othersDoes his own thing from time to time and not totally reliant upon me for existenceLets me dress and wear my hair as I like though he won’t shy away from telling me when I look like crapWill stare into my eyes for hours, loves to kiss and does so, wellWill indulge my whimsy and find it amusingCan guide me to different ways of thinking and decisions, without conking me over the head Not afraid of difficult conversations, willing to let me know if I have done wrong, been hurtful or insensitive, so I can learn to make better choicesMakes time for intimacy and cuddling, preferably upon waking and when we go to bed at night, as our schedules allowCan be strong for me when I just need to rest my head on his shoulder Looking for a guy whose crazy fits with my crazySomeone who just wants to be with me in all my glory, accepts me as is, who sees all my potentialMy intent on my profile indicates that I would like to have a relationship, however, I don't believe in jumping into anything too quickly. I'd like to meet people, see if we click, perhaps make some friends along the way, and should I stumble across the man for me I think we will both know when that happens. I consider myself a Hopeful Romantic - loving the idea of love, yet firmly living in reality. I still see the world full of possibilities. And for the man that might be my match; I can no longer offer you all of my firsts, but I can offer you all of my lasts.Bottom line, if you are relatively attractive or even if you are drop dead gorgeous, have an infectious personality, can flash a wickedly captivating smile, are for the most part happy, have never been incarcerated, aren't on meds for any new-age psychological ailment, and can take all this with a grain of salt, give me a shout - because I'd truly love to hear from you. I believe a first meeting should allow us the opportunity to talk, listen, and learn about each other so we can see if there is some sort of spark. I really don't know how I feel about online dating as it feels a bit unnatural. Not all senses are present and you really cannot get a good idea about the each other till you meet in person. In this day and age I understand the importance of being cautious for safety sake but I don't want a long term online dating experience (only chatting and sending messages online, or having a lengthy phone relationship). At some point we need to meet face to face. If the conversation is great or even good, if our time together seems to flow and not feel pressured, if we leave not wanting the conversation to end we should arrange a 2nd meeting - the real first date. If the opposite is true and you don't think I am a good fit for you, I'd prefer for you just to be upfront with me, and I'll do the same. My feelings won't be hurt - online dating sites are nothing more than an introduction service. The way I see it is we are all here at a cyber space party mingling, and maybe we happen to bump into someone that catches our eye and we begin a dialogue. So the first meeting is really the live version of continuing that dialogue to see if we mesh. It's all good.If you think we might be a good fit or you would like to get to know me, please reach out and let's start with a chat and take it from there. Best luck in your search!

  • Miranda

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I was off the site for an extended time, but I'd like to give it another try. I like classic rock; movies; and TV comedies. I replaced going to the gym daily with a long walk. I'm still in decent shape. I like quiet evenings at home. I love cooking and I'm very good at it. I have 2 grown, well-adjusted kids that I'm very proud of. I have 2 dogs that I love. I have a great job that you wait years to get. I've been told I'm very good-looking and take good care of myself. I'm a natural green-eyed redhead. I live south of the City and would like to meet men in my area. I work Monday through Friday ***and I think someone with a similar schedule would be ideal. I am looking for a man in his late 40's to mid 50's that is smart, funny, confident and successful to share quality time with.One final thought: I make a very good living; I am not a gold digger or looking to be kept; however I do want a man that can pamper me. I'm waiting for you. You know who you are. Nice dinner in a quiet restaurant so that we can talk and get to know each other.

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