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Violet, 45

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About Me

Hi ... I am ready for a (NEW BEGINNING). I want people with real personalities who are not afraid of the truth and enjoy the simple things in life! Life is 2 Short & People work 2 hard 2 NOT enjoy LIFE!I live day by day and never plan anything.. I am trying to enjoy life as much as possible. I have goals and dreams that I am trying to reach. So for now I work and do whatever in between.... When you least expect it I know you will find him. I have 4 children that I enjoy very much and yes they are all 18 and older so no babies.,,, (did my job) so now it is time start over... I hate starting over!!! but who knows what the future holds for me... Just ready to travel in the next 3 to five years and hopefully its with you.I don't read like I should and do not watch a lot of television. 1. I work a lot!!! 2. TV is Shit!!!!! I hate people who get caught up in crap and do not live because they might miss 12 hours of tv. Don't get me wrong.. I will watch tv and watch it with you just not all day and night!!!! I love all types of music.. depends on who I am with and the mood I'm in and where I am. Not picky about food... good food anyway, I do NOT eat a lot of fast food and I love to cook good food and I will definately cook good for you. I know how to treat a man as long as you know how to treat a woman!!!Email me if..... 1. If you are real NOT a player 2. If you treat your mom with respect! (unless she didn't want you like my mom) ;o( 3. NO NO NO 1 NIGHT STANDS!!!! 4. You know how to (treat a lady) 5. If your not a liar/cheater/scum/loser 6. If you like the simple things in life 7. If you love your kids and will except that I have 4 grown kids (only 1 lives with me going to college) 8. If you buy flowers/cards/and do things just because (I love surprises) & (surprising you) 9. If you are a great listener/work/stable/clean 10. If you are Drama Free!!!/Not Married!!!!/Drug Free!!!! 11. Make sure your photos are recent and you are who you say you are!So what I am trying to say is you don't have to be perfect.. but we are all adults and people take advantages of certain situations and waste time... I don't want my time wasted on some fake ass guy who is not sincere, not real, lies, and not respectful.... Been through all of that I am 45 not 18... So please NO GAMES!!.... Not trying to sound perfect but tired of games...... Thank you and good luck!!!!! xo ;o) On a first date..... 1. No you are not picking me up from my house... lol 2. Please decent clothes ok ;o) 3. No one night stands 4. Lets talk over a drink/appetizer 5. Save the lines for someone else 6. When I am talking to you hopefully you will be into me and not the girl behind me 7. Just go with the flow and if it is meant to meet for a second date then that is great!!! ;0)I am really a nice down to earth person... I am a lady in the street and a freak in the bed!!!! Nothing can be forced and you have to do what comes naturally. If 2 people are into each other then that means there is some kind of chemistry and time will tell when the time is right to take it to the next level. Just be respectful and you will get it back.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Raquel

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Why do people limit themselves to just dating or getting to know people just close by? Anythings possible if there is a will and if you are the type who would venture out and try then youre not going to try too hard at a relationship bc its convenient..i know couples who have amazing relationships and they met long distance..relocation is a possibility for some..as with my career i can go anywhere..just so you know when you limit yourself we cant message you at all and you could be missing out on the one. Think about that...call me a romantic but i dont necessarily believe your match will be in your immefiate ares..n why would you want them to be where you run into all their exes or hookups..lol. Im a veteran ..and military and veterans mean a lot to me..if you have liberal beliefs we probabably wont click..sorry just know from experiece im a conservative.....i Love the beach..n boating so if you do its a bonus..if you have a boat..Harley..job..a big plus..simple things make me happy..grilling..tiki bar..drink live music..cruises..carribeans....looking to find a meaningful relationship but realize we must be compatible in our interest and have chemistry. My friends would say i have a outgoing fun personality and im very loyal. Im not interested in anyone married or not completely single i would like someone who is free and willing to explore a relationship if we were to click. :) I am tall so I prefer taller men..I'm curvy..not fat..but I'm not bony..lol I take care of myself..and I don't sweat being fat BC I'm not I'm healthy enjoy life..I am not interested in men several years younger..most only want to play..not looking a play date..if you have kids that's fine as long as you have time for someone else in your life and your ex drama is over..my kids are over 18..there are so many men on here want a relationship but work a lot then have their kids other time and I think that's great but I believe in balance if you don't have it I'm not interested I want someone who has time for adult time too.not just a hook up..distance is OK too as long as both parties willing to make effort..I'm in a job that if I were to meet the right guy I could relocate one day if it went to the next level..I want to have a good dating relationship first..enjoy each others company and see where it can go...I'm ready for a real relationship if you are not great just don't pretend you are..let's all just be honest from the beginning its best for everyone involved. Happy fishing To be decided once we talk..i prefer taller men 6' and above as i am tall..thanksIf i were to meet the right person after some time getting yo know each other i would be willing to relocate especially if its near water..my job can go anywhere..n no im not looking for a free ride ive always taken care of myself and can always continue to do so im looking a real connection :)i thanks for your time

  • Angel

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I love to go fishing and hangout with friends, I love country music and love being active, don’t like arguing. I’m looking for someone to love me I\'m very easy to get along with, not egoistic.

  • Adeline

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a young and vibrant acting 44 year old cool white chick that has a zest for life and you should too.I am looking for someone fun and compatible with my likes and dislikes. Overall, my friendship with you should flow pretty easily. I can only hope we can maneuver into a LTR, but realize that takes time. Ultimately, that is what I am looking for. I am educated, I have a wonderful family and employed at an exceptionally great company - with these, I have very little to complain about. I am a pretty easy going and fun loving individual. I can morph myself into enjoying any situation. Life is what you make of it right?I have my interests listed: Currently I am doing a lot of reading, photography and hanging with my friends/family. I do not like to fish! I'll go with you, but no need to bring an extra pole. I do not watch the races on TV (in person is fun) and not much of a sports fan; unless it's my sons team. I will attend games, but watching on TV tends to bore me. I do watch the Superbowl each year though for whatever that's worth. You should be comfortable with who you are, have an active lifestyle, good job and a pleasant outlook on life. Have time in your life to actually get to know someone. Confidence is very sexy whereas arrogance is not. If you like who you are it will show in genuinely nice ways. Be healthy and enjoy some of what I have listed above for interests – If you think we could be a match drop me a message and let’s get out and start doing things. A first date should be comfortable. My preference is a glass of wine with appetizers; something simple and casual.I am confident enough to be myself. I have a “just chill and let the chemistry do its thing” approach. If we like each other we’ll move forward, if we don’t, it was still great meeting you.

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