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Tonya, 43

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Hi! I’m a single mother of twin boys and feeling better than I have in years. I’m looking for friends and perhaps more if I can meet the right person. I’m not ready to rush headlong into anything serious but if it happens I'm certainly open to it. I’m independent, enjoy my job, own my own home and I’m certainly not looking for anyone to take care of me or be a stepdad to my children. I’m looking to get to know some new friends, have some fun together, and possibly develop a relationship if things head in that direction.That being said I’m happy being single and just enjoying life! I have time to try new things and spend time with friends, both old and new. I'm a good listener, a good friend, and my friends tell me that I am one of the most patient girls you’re likely to meet. I’m fairly laid back and low key. I relish the simple things in life and you’re unlikely to find a lot of drama surrounding me! I do enjoy movies, some, but not a lot of TV, trying new restaurants, and revisiting some old favorites. I’m always up for a weekend away, a trip to the beach or wherever I think might be fun or interesting. But I can be perfectly content with chillin at home with a few drinks or playing some games.While I grew up in the South, I'm not really all that much of a country girl. I’m not too big on camping or fishing but it’s all good if you are. And who knows, perhaps you can try to change my mind. :-) I’m fairly liberal on politics, but I’m fine if you’re not. Religiously I’d label myself as spiritual but not really religious.I eat most anything but I’m not a huge fan of sushi. I was vegetarian but gave that up a few years ago. I enjoy different kinds of music, but I’m a child of the 80s so anything from that time period holds a special place in my heart, even the old hair bands! I grew up listening to old country and like some of the new as well. I like other stuff as well and I’d love to explore some new music. Anything you want to know, just ask. I’m open and I’d really love to hear from you!UPDATE: I think it takes more than one date or even two to get a real sense of someone. We're all nervous on the first date right? I don't think the best of a person can be summed up in a profile or revealed in a few messages or texts. Getting to know someone requires giving them a chance to be themselves and put down their mask. We all have one. “We are all a little weird and life’s a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.” – Dr. SuessI consider myself a positive, intelligent, confident, strong, good person who's able to laugh at myself, enjoy simple things, and handle whatever life throws my way. I think there's a lot more to me than would be revealed in one date or two. I've never been one to fit into a particular category. I may seem quiet at first but you can trust I'll be the one observing who knows exactly what's going on. I can be serious, practical, silly and adventurous indoors and out :) I believe in treating others as I want to be treated. I'm very happy and content in my own life and my own skin. I'd love to have someone to share that with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tamika

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Describing myself...hard working, business minded, independent, has 2 dogs, likes cheeseburgers, takes spin class, wears heels, loves the beach, enjoys wine, travels well, needs to laugh everyday, appreciates the little things, looks at the positive side of life, always having fun :)Qualities that I find attractive in a man....Has to be funny, communication skills is a must, comfortable in his career choice, not afraid to fall in love, affectionate, has respect for himself, knows how to respect others, has a soft spot for handicapped, likes dogs, eats burgers, travels well, looks good in a suit, knows how to make a reservation, romantic, likes drinks on the beach with me ;)Chemistry is what it is....I apologize now if I don't reply, but physical attraction has to be mutual.Happy fishing!***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.*** Let's chat and figure it out together ;)

  • Beth

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi, Looking for an adventurous man who likes to have fun. If I said let's get dive certified and head to Cozumel he would say "Yea Baby". Do you want to hike mountains with me and share a bottle of wine at the top? If you have kids the more the merrier. My babies are grown but we still love to have fun. Heads up I am very spiritual I attend church every weekend.So if your not in to something bigger then you move along. I am a busy woman working and going to school. I love participating in organized runs. I did a few ***marathons since I want to run until I am ***I have cut my runs down to trail runs and 5 & 10K's.I don't watch much TV much, sometimes I will catch Mike & Molly. I love music...I sing all the time when I am happy.Please if you have not been divorced for at least 3 years don't waste my time. Your not ready for a relationship. I don't want to be played and it takes at least 5 months to know someone before they start to show their true colors. Blessings in your search for love!

  • Patricia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    >Hobbies include traveling and anything that involves water sports. Enjoy night life and listening to good music and relaxing with good friends and great eats! Love to be casual, but creative.

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