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I am a single mother of two teenagers, one of which moved out this year. I have been seperated for 3 yrs and soon to be divorced. Long story I will explain if the need arises. I am a nurse and have done private duty nursing for the past 6 yrs, which I love. I enjoy all outdoor activities and am very active. I would love to learn how to ride a motor cycle and travel after my youngest is grown. I try to work out at least ***times a week and do NOT do ANY drugs nor do I wish to be around anyone who does!! I'm not a super model but I'm secure in who I am inside and out. I love all types of music and would rather have the radio on as opposed to the tv when I am home. I enjoy working outside in my flowers and miss having a garden tremendously. I am not high maintence and do not need someone or their paycheck to take care of me, but it would be very nice to have an EQUAL counterpart and companion to enjoy things such as bowling, playing pool, dancing, fishing, camping, boating, amusement parks and just about anything exciting....that isn't a lying pill head! I am new to the online dating scene and want to make it clear I AM NOT HERE TO HOOK UP, so if thats your goal please don't waste either of our time by contacting me. Did I mention I am pretty direct also. :-) I am pretty easy to get along with and enjoy doing a lot of different things. I think a first date should be what ever both people enjoy and should be kept very light. If I can see an effort has been made then you will have made a good first impression. Isn't that all that really matters?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Isabella

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hi!CAVEAT: Before you message me.....I am not interested in random, casual encounters w/ complete strangers so please don't waste my time. I will not come to your house to 'cuddle', which fyi, guys, every girl with a brain in her head knows what you really intend for that to lead to. I will not go to anybody's home who I do not know or trust, nor are you welcome to come to my home if i don't know you, so don't ask. If you wear a baseball hat crooked, your underwear shows above your pants, or any of your profile pics depict you making the 'peace' sign w/ your hand...don't message me. The minute you ask me for naked pics, I will drop you like a hot rock. If you feel you qualify to continue, here's a few clues: I get bored with the endless back and forth messaging about nothing in particular (a little bit is fine, to test the waters...after that, ask me out already and lets get right to the business of seeing if there is chemistry...in person) Also, 'Hello' does not qualify as a conversation starter, and will not get a response from me. Sorry to all the decent guys out there who have common sense in their head and know how to proceed graciously and respectfully with getting to know someone......this dating thing can be exhausting w/ so many putzes out there. Okay, carry on to the good stuff....My nature: I am a laidback, mellow person. I've been told I'm the most mellow redhead people have ever encountered. I have the patience of a saint, and stay pretty even tempered. I don't like conflict, I am more of a peacemaker. I love life, and am very happy 99% of the time. If I had to choose one word to describe me, it would be 'vibrant'. I am a positive, upbeat, optimistic person. I also however, am a realist, and my capricorn nature comes out in my severe practicality....I don't like to waste time on silliness, or pie in the sky schemes. Very down to earth. I am a hard worker, and goal oriented. I have no qualms about getting my hands dirty. I am a mother earth/nurturer type. I am a lot of fun, and am sometimes wild and spontaneous.My interests: I like to stay active and busy. I love to play volleyball. I'm more of a sports player, than a watcher, though I do like to watch hockey...GO Blackhawks! I used to be a competitive figure skater for 15 years. I am very domestic, and love being at home, working around the house, inside or out. I love to cook and am very good at it. I love to throw dinner parties, and other events. I like country music, mostly the older stuff, but I also like rock, pop, and blues. I like motorcycles, i used to own a crotchrocket, and hope to get another one soon. Harleys are cool, too, though I'd prefer to be on the back of one rather than owning one. I love to fish, never took to hunting....I'll keep the cabin warm and help butcher the deer though :) I love to ride horses, preferably percherons. Relationships: I am fiercely loyal....and I expect the sameThings that flip my trigger: camouflage, safety yellow, baseball hats, boots, cowboy hats, work jeans, goatees, fu manchus, big and tall guys, trucks, you get the idea. Although, I also like a man who can make a suit or tie look good when necessary.Body Type: Voluptuous.... I don't expect to be blown away by some super creative adventure. I'm more interested in the connection. It would be nice if you could converse....awkward silences and having to carry the conversation is not fun. I like a 'take charge' kind of man, and one who knows what chivalry is, and lives it all the time, not just for impressions' sake on the first date.

  • Irene

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Wondering what my headline means? Well, I hope to visit the 50 states by my 50th birthday. You ready for a road trip?It seems as if everyone writes the same things here... I love going out to dinner, the beach in the summer, a night in just as much as a night out. I cherish my friends and family and nothing is better than being together with some food and wine. I love the ocean and dream of a day that I have a place near the beach. I love the arts....in all forms; theatre, music, literature, visual. I also enjoy working out, though my schedule these days does not allow me to be as committed as I once was...I try. I have played on a co-ed Volleyball league for over 10 years. I also love to cook and entertain...even if it just for a small group of friends.I have a young daughter, who is the world to me, so I need someone that understands (and respects) what it means to be the primary caregiver to a young child.I am not here to play games, just get to know someone to see if there is any chemistry. Seriously...I don't get it...aren't we "adults"?A few other things.*I value honesty, respect, integrity*Good communication is important. I think that although texting/emails are good and easy ways to get in touch with someone, it takes away from a real conversation. And too often things can get lost in translation. *I would prefer someone who is around 5' 11" or taller (sorry- I'm pretty tall and like to wear heels)*It would be preferable that you are in the NNJ/NYC area. If either of us has to travel an hour or so it may not work too well.*Please be sure that you are recognizable in your pictures and that I don't have to guess which one is you.I WILL NOT EVEN READ YOUR *** DON'T HAVE A PICTURE.Bonus: profiles and messages with sentences, punctuations, and limited text/chat abbreviations :)Thanks for your time...good luck. I am not interested in sharing endless ***, but think it's important to see if there is any interest/chemistry before meeting. I prefer to call it a "meet up"....after an initial introduction contact (a few exchanges through here), and then actual phone conversation. I would like to see what our interests are and take it from there.***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

  • Christy

    Online

    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I\'m single. I find myself leading my own path and never following the stereotypes. I need a Christian partner, mature, honest, caring, loving, humorous, versatile and spontaneous.

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