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Isabella, 36
United States, Wisconsin, Oshkosh

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Hi!CAVEAT: Before you message me.....I am not interested in random, casual encounters w/ complete strangers so please don't waste my time. I will not come to your house to 'cuddle', which fyi, guys, every girl with a brain in her head knows what you really intend for that to lead to. I will not go to anybody's home who I do not know or trust, nor are you welcome to come to my home if i don't know you, so don't ask. If you wear a baseball hat crooked, your underwear shows above your pants, or any of your profile pics depict you making the 'peace' sign w/ your hand...don't message me. The minute you ask me for naked pics, I will drop you like a hot rock. If you feel you qualify to continue, here's a few clues: I get bored with the endless back and forth messaging about nothing in particular (a little bit is fine, to test the waters...after that, ask me out already and lets get right to the business of seeing if there is chemistry...in person) Also, 'Hello' does not qualify as a conversation starter, and will not get a response from me. Sorry to all the decent guys out there who have common sense in their head and know how to proceed graciously and respectfully with getting to know someone......this dating thing can be exhausting w/ so many putzes out there. Okay, carry on to the good stuff....My nature: I am a laidback, mellow person. I've been told I'm the most mellow redhead people have ever encountered. I have the patience of a saint, and stay pretty even tempered. I don't like conflict, I am more of a peacemaker. I love life, and am very happy 99% of the time. If I had to choose one word to describe me, it would be 'vibrant'. I am a positive, upbeat, optimistic person. I also however, am a realist, and my capricorn nature comes out in my severe practicality....I don't like to waste time on silliness, or pie in the sky schemes. Very down to earth. I am a hard worker, and goal oriented. I have no qualms about getting my hands dirty. I am a mother earth/nurturer type. I am a lot of fun, and am sometimes wild and spontaneous.My interests: I like to stay active and busy. I love to play volleyball. I'm more of a sports player, than a watcher, though I do like to watch hockey...GO Blackhawks! I used to be a competitive figure skater for 15 years. I am very domestic, and love being at home, working around the house, inside or out. I love to cook and am very good at it. I love to throw dinner parties, and other events. I like country music, mostly the older stuff, but I also like rock, pop, and blues. I like motorcycles, i used to own a crotchrocket, and hope to get another one soon. Harleys are cool, too, though I'd prefer to be on the back of one rather than owning one. I love to fish, never took to hunting....I'll keep the cabin warm and help butcher the deer though :) I love to ride horses, preferably percherons. Relationships: I am fiercely loyal....and I expect the sameThings that flip my trigger: camouflage, safety yellow, baseball hats, boots, cowboy hats, work jeans, goatees, fu manchus, big and tall guys, trucks, you get the idea. Although, I also like a man who can make a suit or tie look good when necessary.Body Type: Voluptuous.... I don't expect to be blown away by some super creative adventure. I'm more interested in the connection. It would be nice if you could converse....awkward silences and having to carry the conversation is not fun. I like a 'take charge' kind of man, and one who knows what chivalry is, and lives it all the time, not just for impressions' sake on the first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House English Korean Thai Basketball Dirt Bike Racing
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