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Irma, 31

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Hey everyone!!..single mommy to the most beautiful little girl in the world. I'm silly...crazy...stubborn...and some(ok Most) may say ****y at times. But hey...thats who I am. I haven't had the easiest life but I've tried to learn from my mistakes...they have made me who I am today. So if thats not good enough for you...oh well. I am who I am, take it or leave it. I refuse to change who I am for anyone ever again.The last relationship I was in was absolutely AMAZING, however it ended in the most horrible way ever. He lost his battle with brain cancer and left me here alone and in pieces. But please DO NOT tell me how sorry you are to hear about my loss, or ask if you can do anything because nothing can be said or done to make it any easier. I'm using that relationship and everything I've been through as an outline of what I'm looking for. And yes, that does sound a bit weird but its not like that at all. I learned from that relationship that I'm actually worth something and that I'll never settle for anything but the best. It was the 1st real relationship I've ever been in and it taught me alot about who I am.And if you are still reading....Kudos to you :-) I realize that I've been going on and on and it almost sounds like I'm trying to get guys to not be interested. And thats kinda the truth....I want my profile to only attract the RIGHT GUY. The one guy out there who is willing to accept and love me for who I really am. Not just some guy who thinks he can get a piece. Lets see.....I LOVE reading!! I have a kindle which is the one thing(other than my child) that I never leave the house without. I'm currently reading the "Sword of Truth" series which I absolutely LOVE! :-)Movies: BOONDOCK SAINTS is my all time FAVORITE movie. I'm really into punk/pop right now. Daytrader, Handguns, Variables, Saves the Day, Transit, I am the Avalanche, Balance and Composure, Title Fight.....those are just a few.TV: Ehh...I really don't watch much tv anymore. You should message me if You aren't a total tool-bag....and can handle the fact that I do have my child ***, ***days a year. It does make the dating thing kinda hard.And PLEASE...don't just send me a compliment or something completely LAME. Send me something that will make me giggle. and I know that sounds kinda lame, but if your msg doesnt grab my attention, chances are you won't be hearing back from me. ALSO...Please do not msg me if you are a "Gangsta" I'm so totally NOT attracted to you at all so please MOVE ON. ATTN: I DO NOT WANT TO SEE YOUR MANJUNK!!! Something laid back....I'm not a high maintence, girlie girl.And seriously....if your profile says you want someone who isn't going to play games, make sure you are finished playing them as well. ATTN: Pushy, stage 9 clingers.....please MOVE ON!!! My life DOES NOT REVOLVE around YOU or this site!! I have a child and a life, so respect that or pound sand!! Either way, my life will go on and I won't lose any sleep over it.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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