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Lessie, 41

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About Me

*****Please READ profile BEFORE responding...I do NOT and will NOT respond to Auto Prompts saying "so and so wants to meet you.".... So, I stress that one needs to be honest in their profile. What is the point in lying? Clearly, I am not looking for a one night fling nor paying a bar tab and driving someone home. Honesty in looks, body type...TRUTH!!! No Living with parents or roommates!! The Twenty somethings might go for that... But I am well beyond the "Peter Pan Boys" We all have luggage from life-let's see if our luggage matches!I am looking for a Outgoing, Kind, Humorous, Intelligent, Financially and Emotionally secure MAN. He must be comfortable with who he is and confidant enough to handle a woman with an extreme amount of independence- Not to say that I don't enjoy being pampered from time to time... I just need my space and can't handle being called 10 times a day for no valid reason (once is fine)!!!! Ugggggg....Flashbacks to my last nightmare...since when does a date constitute "instant relationship"....?! OH-BTW yes these are Deal Breakers for Me!!!! I am not a B***H!!! I just Know what I like and Know what I don't. We all have Deal Breakers!!!!! THIS IS WHY HONESTY IS SO IMPORTANT!!!!! Oh, some other dating advice for some Gents out there...showing up half tanked before a first date is a NO! NO! As is proceeding to drive yourself home after having more. Drunk Calling is never cool!!! I am a sucker for Nice STRONG Hands, Eyes and Smile...No Nail Biters-that type of pent up anxiety just plain FREAKS ME OUT!!!!I am using one of my last dates as an example as I am still laughing that the universe was having a Jokey with me...Once I accepted the comedy of the situation and the fact that I could leave after he started quoting "Spock"...I had to be Honest...and Just spell it out...Not Going to Happen...I would like to avoid ever having to do this again. He should have just been up front and then none of this would have happened. I am told that I am funny, witty and often sarcastic...This I will never apologize for or change. If you are too serious or sensitive we will never work. I am looking for friendship/casual dating to start and we can see where things go... That seems to be the most logical approach? :)If you are still reading after all of this and are a positive up beat person- I would love to hear from you. I am always interested in hearing of ones experiences and have plenty to share.Thanks for stopping by. PS: I do not respond to the Auto Prompts that "someone would like to meet you". If you truly are interested in meeting me please have the courage to send a message. If you are married or looking for a fling do NOT even bother messaging me. Oh and if you are Taurus Or Virgo...Just Don't Bother...It will never work....I can't be controlled! :PCheers & Happy Fishing!================================================================================= It would purely depend on the person and what adventure we decide on for the day. It would need to be fun!!! Not into "coffee" dates.I am certainly open to suggestions! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Chris

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    Woman. 59 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

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  • Sheena

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I recently moved to the area…a transplant from SoCal. I grew up and spent most of my life in the beach cities outside of L.A. Although it was a beautiful place to grow up, I am thrilled about my new adventure up here in the PNW. I chose this area as I have family that has lived up here for the past 15 years. Additionally, I love the outdoors….driving, hiking, camping, spending time outside.Up through this past June, I worked 16 years as a teacher and *** at an elementary school. I look forward to exploring an alternative career path in health and wellness. Moving up here and recreating my life has given me the opportunity to make finding someone and creating a healthy relationship a priority. I’ve done the work. I’m extremely reflective. I believe most, if not all relationships, take communication, compassion, flexibility, and compromise. I’m sure I missed something….I’m open to learning and growing.I’m on this site to meet someone that I can connect with. I believe I am: positive, peaceful, encouraging, reflective, have integrity, hopeful, flexible, good listener, compassionate, strong sense of self, empathetic, passionate….as well, I know where I need extra support and have to keep an eye on myself. Are you willing and able to call me on my stuff? I’d like to find a man that has integrity, is compassionate, self-aware, emotionally generous, able to communicate, patient, empathetic, honest, passionate….could this be you? I want someone to share my life with…from the mundane to the complex. I want to find a best friend...leading to an intimate relationship. I’ve had many experiences which have led me to where I am today. I enjoy what I do and how I spend my time. It would be nice to have someone to share it with. I’m low key (not a couch potato) and would like to find someone with a similar energy. On a practical note, I prefer not to spend much time *** Let’s meet sooner than later and see if there is a good energy between us. If so, we can take it from there.My favorite quote.... "Be the change you wish to see in the world" GhandiThanks for taking the time to read my words. I wish you the best in your search. Something casual, likely a coffee shop....maybe a short walk. Keep it simple and see what the energy is like.

  • Michael

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Okay been on here a few months but seem to attracting ones that aren't getting me and who am looking for so I'm going to try to describe myself and what I am looking for. I prefer cowboy boots and hat over biker boots and helmet. No offence to bikers just not my style. If you look 50 and your 40 not shallow just not interests. If you look 40 and your 50. Oh yeah! Lol I will settle for tall dark and handsome:) I have received several messages here and if I don't respond I'm simply not interested so please dont continue to message me.I love deer hunting. Need someone who also knows what "shed" hunting means.I prefer a truck over a prias. The best gift my ex gave me was a goat the hardest thing I ever had to catch was a chicken and the worst thing I ever hit on the highway was a cow. Funny,independent,loving and caring. I rather spend the day in wood than walk through the mall. Hate the mall ! Love to hunt and fish. I dont hold grudges life's to short to spend it inI a miserable state of hate. Looking for kindness and a true gentleman. So I'm hoping this helps me out a little better:) lol if your curious about body type. I'm not a two, but I'm not a ten if you can figure that out somewhere in the middle:) i use to have to hall my own hay bails, so soft but strong hands. Honestly looking for that spark. If you want to know more just ask. Haven't revealed it all lol what fun would that be:) Nice meal and conversation. Like to get to know you first before I like sitting in a theater. Lol

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