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Martha, 50
United States, Oregon, Bend

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About Me

On the day I take my last breath, I do not want to look back with the regret that I didn't live a full life. Thus, here I am on POF; in search of the one who wants to share life's journey. Someone who is educated, romantic, mutual respect, easy-going, and someone who is comfortable to just be themselves with me & I with them. I'd prefer to meet someone the "old-fashioned" way & not through "tech-searching". But I'll give this a try for a while. I love to learn through continuing with various classes (ie:art, yoga,...), by getting into deep discussions. I do not discuss politics or sports, beyond the basics. I try to keep an open mind, & I hope you would too. I am friendly, social, & outgoing; yet I have a calm demeanor. I'm told that I put people at ease. I'm not pretentious, nor do I care for that characteristic in others (ie: if you "try" to impress me, you will fail. I'm not easily impressed by the trivial things, but am impressed by honesty & integrity). Being a girl raised in the South, I believe that "Manners never go out of style", which basically covers the Golden Rule -- Treat others, how you want to be treated. I love to laugh! So if you have a great sense of humor & enjoy playful banter, then you've got my attention. Do you like to cook or at least enjoy cooking together? Then you might just win me over! If you are interested in spending time with someone who is low-key, yet fun, let me know!P.S. If you are looking for someone to enjoy rides on your motorcycle; it's not me. But thanks for reading my profile. This whole "on-line dating" can be intimidating, to say the least. It seems to put more pressure on the 1st meeting (ie: "Are we romantically compatible!?!), unlike when you meet someone the old way & things naturally evolve or not. Does anyone else feel this way?! Therefore, a first date for me, would be one that would put us both at ease. Meeting for coffee and conversation, would be a nice start.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Cooking Adventure Animation Crime Horror Soccer / Football
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I have a real desire to be successful as a personal trainer and Pilates ***, as I love helping people reach their goals. I love going to the mountains and exploring new places. I am always up for a beach walk as well!I love kids and kids tend to love me! I enjoy spending as much time as I can with them making memories, cause boy do they grow up fast! I've only been in SoCal a relatively short time and really look forward to experiencing the rest of the state! A great sense of humor is a must for me! I love being surprised and doing spur of the moment things. I enjoy dining out, especially outdoors. I have a wide variety of music tastes. But all and all I LOVE music. It can totally make or break a mood.I like to believe that chilvary is not dead. I'm a diehard romantic who loves the small things that a man does to make a woman feel special. ( and I believe it should go both ways). A first date is always nerve wracking! So a casual happy hour or coffee wud b great. If we hit it off we could take a walk and get to know each other more! A romantic sunset is a great setting!!

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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    Adeline

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    First of all, thanks for stopping by. I recently moved back to FL! Yay! A little about myself...I have a compassion for animals, especially dogs. I love life, but I feel something is missing... my better half. Where are you? I believe there is a silver lining in every cloud, My sense of humor is a little on the sarcastic side, but it's all in fun. I've been described as funny, smart, kind, sweet, outgoing, silly, & stubborn at times. I'm far from perfect. I think I'm of average weight, with a few pounds to lose. I do walk ***days/week. If you want to know more about me, you will just have to meet me!I want that special someone in my life to share those good & not so good times together. Do u think that might be you?My taste in music can vary from jazz & blues to country & some classic rock. But, please dont ask me to sing. Lol!About you...God-fearing, honest, loyal, a man of your word, financially responsible, a wealthy attitude, and a great sense of humor. I want to share a simple life with that special someone. I want a man who takes the time to enjoy life. Obviously, there has to be a mutual attraction, both inside and out. Chemistry! Animal lovers are required! I'm looking for that special connection for a ltr! Send me a message and let's see where that might take us. Side note... Texting buddies need not apply. Regardless what you're looking for, good luck in your search. Again, thanks for visiting me! ;***I'm open...It depends on our common interests.... Maybe wine tasting, a comedy club, mystery dinner show, a play, meet for lunch, &/or play tourist in our own state. Let's talk about it. Hope to hear from you!

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