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Martha, 50
United States, Oregon, Bend

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About Me

On the day I take my last breath, I do not want to look back with the regret that I didn't live a full life. Thus, here I am on POF; in search of the one who wants to share life's journey. Someone who is educated, romantic, mutual respect, easy-going, and someone who is comfortable to just be themselves with me & I with them. I'd prefer to meet someone the "old-fashioned" way & not through "tech-searching". But I'll give this a try for a while. I love to learn through continuing with various classes (ie:art, yoga,...), by getting into deep discussions. I do not discuss politics or sports, beyond the basics. I try to keep an open mind, & I hope you would too. I am friendly, social, & outgoing; yet I have a calm demeanor. I'm told that I put people at ease. I'm not pretentious, nor do I care for that characteristic in others (ie: if you "try" to impress me, you will fail. I'm not easily impressed by the trivial things, but am impressed by honesty & integrity). Being a girl raised in the South, I believe that "Manners never go out of style", which basically covers the Golden Rule -- Treat others, how you want to be treated. I love to laugh! So if you have a great sense of humor & enjoy playful banter, then you've got my attention. Do you like to cook or at least enjoy cooking together? Then you might just win me over! If you are interested in spending time with someone who is low-key, yet fun, let me know!P.S. If you are looking for someone to enjoy rides on your motorcycle; it's not me. But thanks for reading my profile. This whole "on-line dating" can be intimidating, to say the least. It seems to put more pressure on the 1st meeting (ie: "Are we romantically compatible!?!), unlike when you meet someone the old way & things naturally evolve or not. Does anyone else feel this way?! Therefore, a first date for me, would be one that would put us both at ease. Meeting for coffee and conversation, would be a nice start.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Cooking Adventure Animation Crime Horror Soccer / Football
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