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Robert, 40
United States, Illinois, Evanston

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About Me

Loving mother, educated, goal driven, and a whole lot of common sense!Expect the same (except the loving Mom) Cheers!! In pursuit of one day becoming a DBA manager or who knows CIO (chief information officer). I have a degree is in MIS (management information systems). I am finally working on my dream career as a professional in the IT world. I love my job and the people I work with. Things I do for fun:I love anything that has to do with water. Beach, lake, there is just something wonderful about the sound of the ocean early in the morning. My daughter and I love too bowl. I am not very good but I have a lot of fun trying.I have swing at a golf ball or two and would love to learn more about the sport.Take a weekend trip to a place I have not been before. I don't plan my life around dancing with the stars, the bachelor, fill in favorite football team vs. whoever....so I guess I am a spur of the moment, adventure seeker, get out side and enjoy Gods creations, kinda girl.....;) O.K. I am threw day dreaming now… back to reality. What I really want is someone who can be honest with themselves first and then with others. I realize that I may have a different view on a subject and that is cool, but don’t just go along. Sorry guys, I just am not crazy about football, but I do like to go to live games as I find them much more entertaining. Nothing worse than being with someone at a social gathering and everyone is laughing about a joke and the person you are with has the deer in the headlight look. (yes I have dated a few of those too, I know so sad , right) So I hope your I.Q. is higher than a 3 year old. Lastly, someone that can laugh at their mistakes and admit when they are wrong. Children:I have ***year old daughter. She is beautiful, energetic, and awesome! So an absolute must is that they love children.P.S. I am not looking for a pen pal, I am looking for a real relationship, so if you are just into having a texting, *** gf, that's just not my cup of tea. So please don't waste my time or yours!Cheers! And Have a Good Day!Just had too add this. Sorry,but I do not date black men. Hum first date...Dinner, Glass of Wine, Great converstion, walk in the moon light. However, I really like it when "he" already has a plan.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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