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Shirley, 33

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About Me

Self professed music nerd. I love all kinds of music, 80's music & movies - especially cheesy horror movies, spending time with friends and family. I'm career oriented and I work weird hours sometimes, but believe you still need to have a life balance. I still like going out, but kinda over trying to meet someone at a bar/club, I'd rather find someone to go out to those places with. I'm the first one to crack joke when someone needs a laugh, and I have a pretty sarcastic sense of humor. If you can't take a joke and don't laugh often, we won't get along. I don't really like to put my life story online, but otherwise im a pretty open book once I get to know someone. I definitely like funny guys, someone who stays in shape, but doesn't live at the gym, and someone who keeps an open mind and is able to get along with different types of people..........At the end of the day, I am just looking for someone to make me a priority and treat me respectfully. Oh, and if we don't live within 45mins or so of eachother - Google Maps is pretty good for helping with that lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Zelma

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    HI! I'm Monica! I'm a person who is very outgoing and not shy. I like to express myself through writing. So here in my profile, I've written a lot in order for you to get to know me just a little! This is just a sneak peak into my life and there is SOOOO much MORE to who I am and what I'm about! I like to express my thoughts, feelings, likes/dislikes, etc so you don't have to wonder about me! I'm very open and honest! You will just have to contact me and meet me in person to really get to know me better!My personality is: outgoing/extroverted, happy, energetic/athletic, and positive!!!!People always seem to be drawn to my outgoing personality like a magnet! I've always been a positive role model to others by encouraging and motivating them! I'm loving life and enjoying each day as it comes! I'm a people person so I always enjoy meeting new people! I'm very energetic so I love working out, sports, and doing outdoorsy activities! I am a creative, artistic, and entertaining kind of a person. I like to laugh and be silly, but I'm also able to be serious/professional when I need to be!I've traveled ALL over the world! I'd love to share now, but I'll leave the stories and details for our date!...yes I now like Country! Food: Italian, Sushi, Mexican, Chinese, BBQ, etc! I'm NOT picky! I can eat!!!!! :)Spirituality:I'm definitely a woman of God who has Jesus in my heart as my Lord and he's my #1! I want him to shine through my personality to others on a daily basis! I give God all the praise for the person he has helped me become! I go to church usually Wed nights and Sundays! I volunteer on a regular basis in the nursery ***I feel that it's important to pray, read Bible, Worship, etc daily to keep a relationship with God strong! It's about having a relationship with God and Jesus Christ, NOT about just being a good person or just going to church. "FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE SENT HIS SON, JESUS, THAT WHOEVER WILL BELIEVE IN HIM WILL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE (IN HEAVEN)"! JOHN 3:***in Bible)What I'm Looking for in my Soul Mate:A man who is "equally yoked" (spiritually, emotionally, physically, etc) with me! I definitely need a man who is athletic and who goes to the gym on a weekly basis because I do and I can't have a couch potato!!! We need to have a lot in common so we understand each other and so we can enjoy doing the same kinds of activities together! A man who also has God #1 in his life! A man who goes to church weekly, reads the Bible daily, prays daily, and who "walks the walk and talks the talk" as a Christian! I'm looking for a man who is confident in himself and in God! ***** I only want to find a man who is wanting to get married and have a family! ****If you are: a man who can't commit to a relationship, who only wants to be friends or friends w/benefits, who is confused easily, who plays games, or is a player then SORRY I'M NOT INTERESTED!!!!! THANKS!!!!! :)God Bless!Monica :) We don't even have to spend money on our first date! I'm NOT a gold digger and I don't need a lot of money to be spent on me in order for me to be happy! For our first date I'd be happy with going to the gym to workout or a walk on the beach!!!! I want us to just be able to be comfortable and be ourselves to get to know each other! We need a place we can go to where we can communicate well with each other with no distractions. Being able to talk to get to know each other and show our personalities is crucial on a first date! If we have things in common and there is that "spark" (and it's mutual between the both of us), then I'd want to move forward with a second date to continue to get to know each other!*** I want to THANK YOU in advanced for your contacting me!!! I appreciate the time you took to read my profile to get to know me a little more! I'm open to receiving your messages, etc and I will take the time to read each of them! I do though, want to apologize in advanced. I won't be able to respond to everyone's messages. Time is precious and goes fast! I'm a very busy person and would rather spend my time in the gym or accomplishing something that needs to be done. Not that you aren't important. I want to express this without hurting you. It's just that I'm very particular in what I'm looking for and not looking for in my soul mate. I've prayed specifically to the Lord and I know God wants to bless me with my hearts desires for my husband. I will NOT settle for less than God's best... (for ME)!!! I won't write back to you if I already know in my heart and spirit that I'm not interested or think it won't work out. I don't want to waste either of our time and I'm not a lady who will confuse you or play mind games with you!!! I pray you understand that and can accept that! I pray you won't take that the wrong way or be hurt by this. I'm here to find my soul mate... NOT to play games, NOT to only be friends... or friends with benefits, and/or NOT to become a "player"! :)*** I have been single the past 5 yrs...because I have chosen to NOT date. I have turned people and dates down in those 5 yrs. I'd rather be single and happy then to settle for less and be in a miserable relationship that isn't God's will. And I definitely DON'T want to settle and eventually get divorced! I've been praying and waiting on the Lord for HIM to lead me to my husband/soul mate! I've never been married or had kids and this is my deepest heart's desires!!! I feel that I've waited a long time and haven't met my husband any of the places I go on a regular basis (church, gym, social events, grocery store, etc). Going on a dating website is my last choice and I never really wanted to join one, but because 2 of my very good friends met their husbands on dating websites and they have encouraged me to do this, then that's why I'm here and figured maybe this could be a good way God can bring me to my future husband! I've been waiting the past 5 yrs and

  • Mayday

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-39

    Hi! My name is Mayday. I am never married other caucasian woman with kids from Cleveland, Tennessee, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Wilma

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    Ok well here goes... I love my family and friends and would do anything for them. I am willing to try just about anything once at least. I enjoy cooking, walking, camping, biking, volley ball, movies, reading and music. I like to try new things. I also like to do volunteer work, I do a few things with the company I work for, but my favorite place to volunteer so far had been Feed My Starving Children. I graduated from college with an AAS degree in medical admin. I am a lover of all animals. I love to hang out with friends and family when not working. I love to laugh and make people laugh. I am a very loving kind person I get along with just about anyone. I've been told I'm a good listener, but I can also hold my own in a conversation. I am also very honest and open and appreciate it when people can be honest with me, even if I may not like what I will hear. I am looking for someone who is serious about a having a real relationship. I really want to meet someone I can laugh with and do new things with. I am looking forward to meeting someone who can teach me a few new things and learn a few things from me. I Iike to be able to go out for a night on the town or a quiet night in. I'm a little shy at first, but if you give me a little time, you'll forget I was once shy. ;) The classic dinner and drinks and/or movie is always nice. Pretty much anything that allows us to get to know each other is great.

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