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Valarie, 49

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About Me

I've been in the Upper Valley for several years... a conscious decision to redefine myself from Type A to human being. So far so good--would love to find a like-minded person who appreciates a healthy work/life balance. Although I've worked in engineering and science all my life, I try to balance with creative projects and an active outdoor life.I am deeply committed to those in my life. I do not suffer fools. I am honest to a fault and require straight talk and clarity. I thrive on laughter, physical touch and emotional engagement; a compelling and committed partner; intimacy in all forms.Who I am is the woman grown from my girlhood adventures, aware that what I see is only my perception... old enough to scoff at what is ridiculous and absurd in my world... curious enough to know that I haven't discovered everything that belongs in my world. I am irreverent and value it in others.What am I doing? Raising 2 teenagers to be responsible and compassionate adults, staying physically active (cardio, strength training), being a contributing community member and good friend. Aside from that, experiencing a renaissance... reconciling the external by looking within, developing and strengthening my intuitive and creative dimensions, deepening my spirituality. coffee, hiking, minigolf, auction, breakfast

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ana

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I love summer days....those days are meant for two and so are cold nights to cuddle and watch a movie. I am a down to earth kind of woman. You can find me comfortable in a pair of jeans and t-shirt and just as comfortable in "a little black dress" for a night out on the town. Being raised in a tradtional Italian family has given me my love and understanding of family, friends, entertaining and a true passion to live life to the fullest. I enjoy spending time with my two children ***year old son and 14 year old daughter) and love that they understand I need time for myself too...also because now that they are teenagers they have their own social life that keeps them busy and gives me more free time. I am friendly, outgoing and have many interests and enjoy exploring new ones. I have a fulfilling happy life and good secure job that I enjoy. I am hoping to find someone who wants to develop a mutually giving exclusive dating relationship. Life is too short for drama or playing games....honesty, communication, understanding, good values, hardworking, good sense of humor, and chemistry, is what I feel are important. If you feel the same way send me a message and lets chat...there is alot more to learn about me and I promise it wont be boring!! lol :***of my favorite quotes "Laugh your heart out, dance in the rain, cherish the moment, live, laugh, love, forgive and forget, life is temporary to live with regrets." ~ by: Kemmy Nola

  • Savannah

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I was married for 22yrs, and it just was not making me happy anymore. We grew apart. Ive been single for awhile now and I am ready for a new chapter in my life. Just trying to find the "one" , with chemistry and someone to enjoy life again.I love to laugh, do most anything outdoors, or just hang out and watch a movie. I can be on the sarcastic side, all in good fun of course. I love the ocean and spend most of my summer days there. Ive been into fitness most of my life, and I am at the gym ***days a week and that is a big part of my lifestyle. If you are Athletic .......great. That is what i am looking for. Someone who likes to get out and do things. I notice a lot of profiles say their bodies are athletic and aparently I am not seeing what they are seeing themselves like. Being in shape takes a lot of hard work and dedication to be fit.. You dont have to be a gym rat to be athletic ,but being active and taking care of yourself is a good thing. Some people take care of their "things" better than they take care of themselves. I am attracted to fit men. I may aswel rule that out on here than have someone keep *** that im not interested in meeting. Shallow perhaps, but it were the opposite, and my profile pic clearly is not what my description is then im sure you "delete" also. :) Just being honest. . I love football as well and yes I understand the sport for the most part. I hope to meet someone who shares the same qualities. Family is very important to me. Im looking for someone who is sincere, and honest and stable.. Im not into seriel dating. I ask if you contact me that your photos are current. Im sure we all have been on those dates where you show up and the person sitting infront of you has aged by 10yrs all of a sudden. I just dont get why waste someones time. ***Here is an ***,on 2 diff days)....... now this is going a bit too farr but I got a good laugh anyways... Pretty sure im not the only one who got it. I could write a short novel on some of the *** receive. Im sure we all can. 'OMG Did anybody tell you that you are one of the most beautiful women in POF? I bet if they elected Miss meetville, she has to be you! Your smile lightened my whole heart when I looked at your picture. It must be raining when you were born, because God was crying for losing his most beautiful angel.How long have you been pof?You are just too beautiful to be on a dating site,You were so pretty and irresistible and I couldn’t get your image off my mind so I was forced to write you'

  • Glenna

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am looking for a partner who enjoys spending time together. It could be going to the beach, drive in the woods, watch a movie at home, spend time with friends and family or whatever comes up. I love people, animals and enjoy gardening and flower beds and the outdoors.I enjoy country and rocknroll music. Anything really that is not too heavy. I love to dance! I am a people person and i am not shy. I enjoy making new friends and having fun. I would enjoy conversation before a first date to get to know the person. Our first date could be for a coffee, meal or whatever we have in common.

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