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Tamara, 48
United States, North Carolina, Chapel Hill

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About Me

UPDATED ***:Hi, thanks for stopping by! :) I know what "having magic" feels like and believe it's possible to have again. YouTube "Like Jesus Does" by Eric Church. Don't have to have a man, just at a great place in my life and finally ready for the right one who can touch and capture my heart. And I know you're out there. I'm selective, but my heart is receptive. I'm a true lady, I don't pursue, but secure in expressing interest first. Just initial attraction and curiosity to indicate I am open, ok? :) You'll be pleasantly surprised to discover I'm not 'the average bear in the forest'... I understand what it's like to be a man in the world. I don't want to be another "job". I'm not the clingy, needy type. It's about mutual life enhancement. During the day, I expect you to go out and conquer; you'll have my wind at your back. If you need to work late, go do your thing and do it well! Then come take me to a romantic dinner, make me laugh, tell me your truth without fear. I'll make you feel like a king every morning and night. I value my women friends and know that men need their time too. I may push you out the door because I want you to have your freedom to be a guy with the guys. The warmth will still be there when you get home. I've been asked, am I more like Ginger or Maryann? Answer: both! Win over Maryann, be rewarded with Ginger. ;) I love being a woman and enjoy my femininity. Need the polarity of a strong masculine presence to trigger the very feminine and passionate "Ginger" in me to come out and play. ;) My life is rich with the love of family and friends who describe me as a genuine, quality, classy, gracious, whole-package lady. I've always looked at least 10 years younger than I am. I'm happy, easy-going, honest, supportive, loyal, good communicator, no baggage, games, or drama, with positive life outlook. I'm assertive, not intimidating. Shy as a child but have grown into a confident woman. I'm playful and enjoy clever, flirty banter. Be prepared for me to dish back. :) Forgiveness is easy, no one is perfect. I love life, too short and valuable to ever sweat small stuff. Humor is all good, I love to laugh till I cry. Comfortable in any setting, dressing up or just hanging out. I know how to have fun. Love the outdoors, ocean, NASCAR, the Giants, boating, travel, camping, hiking, all kinds of music, movies, adventure. A spontaneous road trip, rappelling, zip-lining and climbing a rock wall are on my list. Love children. Wanted a full house but not in God's plan. I've been blessed to help others raise theirs. Will gratefully embrace yours. Ever met by the aroma of freshly baked cookies? Nothing like my chocolate chip oatmeal! I'm a singer/songwriter working on 2nd CD and a writer maintaining 2 Blogs and working on 1st book. Not looking for perfection but for my equal (physically, spiritually, emotionally, mentally). Warm eyes and smile spark chemistry, but quality of heart and character keeps me. Great conversation is a turn on! I'd be happiest with confident, outgoing, humorous, intelligent, easy-going man whom I can respect, admire and adore. I work hard to be my "best me" inside and out and want to continuously grow as a person with a strong man by my side to grow with me. That's the kind of man I can make feel like a king every day of his life. I'm a deep well of treasure; the man who cherishes that gift will never be sorry. I have no "ideal" first date except I do appreciate someone who knows how to provide a classy and comfortable venue. I appreciate effort, thoughtfulness, and creativity, as long as the date provides a forum to talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Gardening Caribbean German Middle Eastern Thai Adventure Sci-Fi War Basketball Computer Games Outdoor Hobbies
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