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Me:An avowed city girl, who also loves to get out of the city sometimes...beach, mountains, whatever...just no ‘burbs for me!Lover of folkie/indie/bluesy music, books made of paper, movies (foreign, docs, sci-fi, action), art, tattoos, theater, dance, dive bars, downtown-ish stuff. Bit of a sci-fi freak, BSG being a particular fave. Yankees & Giants fan. Writer. Buddhism student. Occasional singer. Beginner runner. People-watcher. Amateur photographer. Fan of food and drink, high and low. Flea/street/green-market seeker. Time- and patience-challenged cook. Weekend city-street-wanderer...Full disclosure: I do squeeze the toothpaste tube from the middle until there is nothing left in the top half, then I will squeeze from the bottom. There. I said it.********You:Smart, in all those book/street/life ways. Creative, physical...maybe you work with your hands...maybe you make stuff, like furniture or art...or great paper airplanes. You are 50% let’s-hang-at-home-relaxing and 50% let’s-get-out-and-do-something. The list of things you will eat & drink is longer than the list of things you won’t. You have an open mind/heart/soul, and you use all three every day...After a bunch of years here in NYC, I'm still exploring...looking for someone who wants to do that with me...if you're all "been there, done that" and turning up your nose at dive bars and food trucks, we will not be a good match...I am way more interested in who you are and what you’re passionate about, than who you know or what you have.Please have a clear, recent photo posted that actually shows your face. More than one would be nice. Photos more than two years old do not count as recent. All the travel panoramas are lovely, and everyone looks cool in a hat and shades, but I can't see your face...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    This is always the toughest part!Let's see I am very close to my family eventhough we live far apart; we see each other alot considering the distance so we are still able to spend lots of quality time together which is very important. One big thing we have always shared together is sports so I am a big sports fan......football and basketbal can also watch baseball. I miss the tailgating on game days but try to make it back home for games as often as possible and of course fly home for basketball games when I can as well. Aside from traveling to watch sports I like to take beach getaways when I can rather it be with the family for a week/week and a half or on my own for a few days just to relax and recharge.I try to stay pretty active between walking the dog and working out just so I can stay in good shape.I enjoy nice dinners out sometimes or even just gathering with a few people and making dinner to relax for an evening.

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    PLEASE READ BEFORE WRITING ME! I don't want to waste your time or mine.I'm the kind of woman that believes it's about sticking with someone when times get tough not just being around for the easy times. It's about trusting someone to do the right thing when you are not with them. It's about working hard to keep what is important. That's what a relationship is all about, and that's what I'm looking for! I currently have a bachelors in Psychology and am working towards my masters. If you read at top you can see I'm not a skinny girl and if that isn't something you can handle then don't message me. I would prefer a man that likes bigger girls and curves. I'm hard working, honest, kind, blunt, independent, family orientated, big hearted, loyal, and will do anything to make the man I'm with happy. I'm a little shy at first but once you get to know me I tend to open up. I love to laugh and love to make others laugh I'm weird and quirky, but I'm completely okay with that =-ups. I really like to get away and experience new things.When looking for someone I look for someone who is honest, funny, hardworking, and that knows how to treat a woman. I especially like a man who knows what he wants. I believe a sense of humor and a personality is fundamental in a relationship. Looks aren't everything but lets be honest they matter a little, and you have to be attracted to the person you are with not just physically but mentally. I'm not sure what to expect from this site but I'm hoping to meet someone who isn't shallow and conceited, but someone whose personality lights up a room. Also, don't consistently message me one or two word messages I want someone who can hold a conversation not me holding the whole conversation. UPDATE: Please quit asking me to send naked pictures I don't EVER! I'm not looking for a hook-up or anything random I'm looking for the real deal. First dates are hard to determine because depending on the person would depend on the kind of first date we would have. I like to compromise and if we were to do something I liked the next date we would do something you wanted to do (if there is a second date). Ideally it would be somewhere where we can get to know each other better to determine if we even like each other. Worse case scenario is that we both make a new friend.

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I have a 1 year old daughter so I don't have a lot of time. I'm not looking to rush into anything at all but I'm also not looking for a booty call or hook up either. I would like to meet someone who wants to take it slow and see where we end up.

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