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Carly, 40
United States, New York, East Elmhurst

Offline, last seen Fri, 01 May 2026 20:33:54

About Me

Me:An avowed city girl, who also loves to get out of the city sometimes...beach, mountains, whatever...just no ‘burbs for me!Lover of folkie/indie/bluesy music, books made of paper, movies (foreign, docs, sci-fi, action), art, tattoos, theater, dance, dive bars, downtown-ish stuff. Bit of a sci-fi freak, BSG being a particular fave. Yankees & Giants fan. Writer. Buddhism student. Occasional singer. Beginner runner. People-watcher. Amateur photographer. Fan of food and drink, high and low. Flea/street/green-market seeker. Time- and patience-challenged cook. Weekend city-street-wanderer...Full disclosure: I do squeeze the toothpaste tube from the middle until there is nothing left in the top half, then I will squeeze from the bottom. There. I said it.********You:Smart, in all those book/street/life ways. Creative, physical...maybe you work with your hands...maybe you make stuff, like furniture or art...or great paper airplanes. You are 50% let’s-hang-at-home-relaxing and 50% let’s-get-out-and-do-something. The list of things you will eat & drink is longer than the list of things you won’t. You have an open mind/heart/soul, and you use all three every day...After a bunch of years here in NYC, I'm still exploring...looking for someone who wants to do that with me...if you're all "been there, done that" and turning up your nose at dive bars and food trucks, we will not be a good match...I am way more interested in who you are and what you’re passionate about, than who you know or what you have.Please have a clear, recent photo posted that actually shows your face. More than one would be nice. Photos more than two years old do not count as recent. All the travel panoramas are lovely, and everyone looks cool in a hat and shades, but I can't see your face...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Electronic Funk Camping / Hiking French Japanese
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