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Carly
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Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
Me:An avowed city girl, who also loves to get out of the city sometimes...beach, mountains, whatever...just no ‘burbs for me!Lover of folkie/indie/bluesy music, books made of paper, movies (foreign, docs, sci-fi, action), art, tattoos, theater, dance, dive bars, downtown-ish stuff. Bit of a sci-fi freak, BSG being a particular fave. Yankees & Giants fan. Writer. Buddhism student. Occasional singer. Beginner runner. People-watcher. Amateur photographer. Fan of food and drink, high and low. Flea/street/green-market seeker. Time- and patience-challenged cook. Weekend city-street-wanderer...Full disclosure: I do squeeze the toothpaste tube from the middle until there is nothing left in the top half, then I will squeeze from the bottom. There. I said it.********You:Smart, in all those book/street/life ways. Creative, physical...maybe you work with your hands...maybe you make stuff, like furniture or art...or great paper airplanes. You are 50% let’s-hang-at-home-relaxing and 50% let’s-get-out-and-do-something. The list of things you will eat & drink is longer than the list of things you won’t. You have an open mind/heart/soul, and you use all three every day...After a bunch of years here in NYC, I'm still exploring...looking for someone who wants to do that with me...if you're all "been there, done that" and turning up your nose at dive bars and food trucks, we will not be a good match...I am way more interested in who you are and what you’re passionate about, than who you know or what you have.Please have a clear, recent photo posted that actually shows your face. More than one would be nice. Photos more than two years old do not count as recent. All the travel panoramas are lovely, and everyone looks cool in a hat and shades, but I can't see your face...
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Katharine
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Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
First of all, I keep seeing all these headliners " I'm a real man looking for a real woman" or " want someone real" Um ok.. Or like Pinocchio " I'm a real boy!" Does a dishonest person admit to lying"? And does a fake person admit to being fake? :P And do you ever get tired of messaging people, and they never respond... and you want to be like " Yo to hell with this site, F yall, IM REAL! And out of here!" lol People don't respond all the time because, people are freaking crazy, and if you try to be polite and say you aren't interested, you get that crazy nut that takes it way too personal and has to respond with a bevy of insults to your looks, your intelligence, your teeth, oh and your offspring!Ok I'm done being silly, Now for the long part. Boring facts about me: I graduated school last September, I'm not quite where I want to be yet, but I have my goals set, and my mind is focused on them. I'm closer to them than I have been in a long time, and I'm content and happy with that. The start of it all is that my school is out of the way, now to push for the rest. I have a 15 year old son, Id say he is my world like everyone else does, but I believe that's a given. He does eventually need a good role model, but you have to get past me first. The kind of person I think I am: I'm very honest, and caring, and that's usually my downfall. As evident with my profile, I can talk a lot, especially if I like someone. It's just my way of getting to know people, and letting them get to know me. I've been told I over think things, I most admittedly do. Don't read too much into it.What's more, I probably have more intelligence than your average meetville fish, so if you like to cast your line and snag as many as you can, please pass me by. I'm all about quality over quantity any day.I'm curvy, I will never be model thin, if you like stick women, then you wont like me. I try to see the best in everyone, but sometimes I get sick of always being the nice person, thats when you see my head rotate ***degrees and I spew fire, beware! The kind of person others probably see me as: Quite possibly, crazy, psychotic, and slightly neurotic, I'm afraid to ask!P.S. I'm hiding a wicked sense of humor somewhere in all of this, just you wait and see! I'm a sweetheart and I'm able to agree to disagree when need be. On that note, enough about myself, what about you? I generally see the same type of likes on a guys profile, if you've seen one, you've generally seen 98 % of them all. I love camping, I love anything outdoors, I love the gymn. "yawn" Who doesnt like to camp at times? The type of guy that Id LIKE to attract is someone real, honest to others and themselves. Someone that watches me when I sleep as if there is no tomorrow without me. Like he is amazed that we found each other. I want what I will possibly never find, it might not be out there for me, who knows. People say that trust is earned. I say you have my trust until you break it. That doesn't mean I will give you the routing number to my bank account. Just means I will treat you like I've never had my heart broken before. And sorry gentlemen, if you have 3 or 4 or more kids, please pass me by. Nothing against you I promise, you just need a woman with more patience than I have. I myself have 1 kid and he is almost grown so its been a long time since I've been around small kids and never more than 2 at a time even when I babysat my cousins as a teen. I'm just being honest and saying up front you need a better woman than I know myself to be. Keep in mind that, just because a person wasn't right for you doesn't mean they aren't a good person. It just means they werent the one for you. If you see something you like feel free to leave a message, Ill respond when I can, even if its for friendship ... after all friends has to come before anything else! I keep adding to this monstrosity of a profile. Some find it entertaining, some find depth in it that is totally unintentional. I haven't found what I'm looking for, and honestly I hope I don't pass it by when its staring me in the eye. But people are so busy looking for the perfect one they often lose sight of whats real. Doesn't mean I'm jaded, or too picky, I promise you I'm not. I just want to live, love, laugh, and enjoy life. I'm 40 and I'm stubborn and hard headed. But it is what gets me up every morning. Surprise me.When men attempt bold gestures, generally it's considered romantic. When women do it, it's often considered desperate or psycho.
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Shari
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Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 31-41
Funny, adventurous, easy going, social, genuine, honest, clumsy, indepentant. I like travelling and going to pubs, fesivals/gigs. Like rock/alternative and 80's music. Also like doing a bit of photography and going away for weekends or quiet nites in with a big fire tv and a drink. Im not really a movie addict would prefer going out or outdoor activities.l seem to notice men with tattoos more lol but there not important.Just one thing, l couldn't go out with someone smaller than me. Anywhere once its not too noisy or posh. Pub maybe ;)