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Harriet, 33

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About Me

Im laid back and easy going. I try to find the good in each day even if the day is really stressful. I feel when in a relationship it is always ***not ***. Why only give half of yourself?I enjoy the little things in life. Those are what count the most. How great does it feel to know someone you're thinking about is thinking about you too? Life is what we make it, so why not make it worthwhile! I love surprises!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lacy

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    OK. Cards on the table...D'oh!! I keep adding to this...So, while I totally get this whole MILF thing and can appreciate positive comments, I am not into random hook-ups (my passion's a bonfire when its with someone I love) and will continue being the "master of my domain" until I meet my special dude. I've waited a looong time, I can hold off some more *sigh* lol. Before you go thru the time reading below, I would like to share that my FM (as described below) has flared up and has affected my ability to walk great distances. I am cruising in my new ride these days :) I get up and push through every day, so I am not reliant on Ol'Betsy, just makes getting out (which I love to do) easier. And hey, makes that first date stigma a little less unnerving, no way I'm beating you out the door ;)I am a good ol' canadian chick. I love hockey, cooking/baking and being outdoors. I am suburban over urban. It is rare to see me without my smile and I live for fun. I love life and I truly can find joy and amusement in the smallest of things. Ok, ok - yes I'm a big goofball! ;) My life is highlighted by my 10 year-old daughter. She is absolutely my pride and joy. I am lucky to call such wonderful people my friends and they, along with my family, are the most important things in my life. Although slowed by Fibromyalgia (pain in my joints and muscles/tissues), I push through and try to live life to the fullest. And to be completely honest, there are some bad days...days where I'm stiff (that's what he said lol) I am definately a glass-is-half-full kinda girl. I know that having someone by my side, will make those "movie" days much easier (and oh-so much more fun!!). In my good ol' days, hiking and playing hockey were my passions and I am determined to continue to find my "cure" that will allow me to get back on the trails and ice one day!! Something to be said about me is that I am positive and pretty strong willed. I love trying new things. Would like to find someone who is willing to try/teach scuba diving, skydiving, etc, activities that my body will allow me to enjoy. I am intelligent, confident, generous and outgoing. My faults...well, I can be sarcastic ~funny, not mean; I am very passionate ~sometimes too much so; as I mentioned above, I am strong willed, but have no problem conceding defeat and agreeing to disagree; and I do love to shop ~I have this desire to have my cupboards stocked...its a homemaker thing ~ and yes, I love shoes...its a girl thing (I am proud to say that I'm the queen of bargain hunting)!!! I believe in Karma, paying it forward and that things happen for a reason. I really, really love to learn and feel there is always room for self-growth, be it from meeting new people or seeing new places. Excitement lies with experiencing new adventures.I don't play mind games and demand this same respect back. I want someone who ,can communicate, is open and honest and says what they mean, and means what they say. I am looking for someone real and not someone with a 'cover' identity. I would like to meet someone who is confident and outgoing. Although we'd want to spend time together, he'd be someone who also is comfortable with enjoying time apart. I am hoping to find someone where our chemistry is such that we can have a great night snuggling watching tv then have our passion explode and we can't get each others clothes off fast enough ~ I believe this to be a very important part of a relationship. I've tried the long-distance relationship bit and have concluded that, for the most part, I am not willing to relocate my daughter again. Obviously, if I were blessed in finding my soulmate, well, anything's possible. I am proceeding with this "dating" thing very slowly so don't take offence if it takes time for me to respond. (and to be honest, its a little overwhelming being a girl on this site). Although ultimately I do want a long-term relationship, I really need things to start off as friends and slowly build from there. I have realized that pressure to proceed into something serious too quickly, will deter me and have me backing away. I should also say that,at least for the near future, I have 100% custody of my girl, so my time is somewhat limited. But in saying this, I have found myself feeling lonely lately and craving MY mans arms wrapped lovingly and protectively around me, while he kisses the top of my head. I really do want to find my Forever. (whew...women sure do have lots to say lmao!!)If you are looking for something 'quick', well, move on then 'cause you're barking up the wrong tree.Happy Hunting ;o)MxoxoUPDATE - ok, so I yammered on quite a bit above, but by the content of many of my received messages, a few main points seemed to be drowned in all my writing. I have Fibromyalgia. Its a chronic systemic pain condition that impacts my daily life, much like arthritis. I also am a single-mom of an amazing and very active 10-year-old. Managing these both on my own is very challenging and time consuming - although, my situation has been both a burden and a wonderful blessing. I am receiving disability benefits, and because of my working hard all my life and choosing a wonderful career, I am able to raise my daughter financially on my own. I mention this because I don't want false judgment thrown at me, in that I am looking for someone to pay our way. I do want someone who is well aware of my challenges and knows that I love life and want to share the rest of it with my soulmate. oh...I also should mention that i am currently of a voluptuous body-type (NO, not bbw), but not a stick - I do have curves in ALL the right places ;).. Damn...too much writing again! Lmao! Go-Karts, skydiving, hockey game, cage diving South Africa, pool, nookie kidding!! ;=sister's wedding in the beginning of October ***?? I'm a great travel companion ;)

  • Agnes

    Online

    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am Carol a single Mom of a 10 year old boy, and a 2 year old baby girl, Arabella Grace. They are a joy.I graduated HS and went into the USAF as a cop. I would like to see parts of the world still, places I haven't been. I would also like to get back to Iceland one day. After my time in the USAF I began college. There are different seasons to all of our lives. I am going to college at UMSL, for a BA in Communications w a certificate in Public Relations. My primary focus is God, my son and daughter, my family, and friends. I always like to make time to spend with them. I am working also this year on getting back into shape and getting onto the honor roll. Everyone should always be working to better themselves. I've also been learning to cook and eat healthier. I have the knowledge as we tend to, but applying it is a whole new challenge. Spices and such, learning how to make dishes and do more then buy something frozen and pop it in the oven is learned. I've been getting to the gym and am working on slimming down again. I don't want to be a toothpick. Just athletic again. We are all works in progress. Health is important to me and I should reflect that in myself. As should he. I'd like to maybe even work out with my beau a few nights a week supporting each others fittness. I have the heart of a servant for helping others, and hope to find someone who to enjoys serving. I always look for the best in people and treasure faith, hope, love, and respect. I am a pretty positive person. A phrase. Thoughts become words, words become actions, and actions become your character.. That is very important. Good morals, values, and character are things we need to surround ourselves with. I was brought up to be accepting and loving of others. Always caring of anyone. "You never know when you could be entertaining an angel" my grams said. I'd prefer if there is a guy that I do end up dating he will have started out as a friend. I prefer a man who knows chilvary, understanding, caring, that pleasing me is not always number one- its ok to tell me no we cant have that. Wise, outgoing, fun, down to earth, honest, and more. God should be number one in his life always. A realtionship without God is not going to survive. Every day is a new day and you have to work at a relationship. I won't date just to have someone.I am a conservative and look at the issues as well with voting. I prefer a man love the church and love his family the same way. I understand some work some sundays. I'm raising my children and hoping they will have strong relationships as well with the Lord. If you don't go to church I won't have a relationship with you. If you have done drugs or currently smoking same. I will say I am attracted to a clean cut man, being that I was in the service. I prefer a caucasion male. Nothing against anyone its just a dating preference. As well that they be about, age 32 to 36, 5'***'3, and take care of themselves. That they know the value of geting a job done right the first time and to the best of their ability. I am not without and I can swing a hammer and build a privacy fence even. My Dad has 2 masters degrees, and my Mom has a BA. Education is important in our lives. They have been married 38 years almost. My Dad is the head deacon at our church. I am a bit old fashioned in some ways. My friends would say i'm loyal, down to earth, true to me, goofy, sweet, smart, generous, kind, fun, easy to talk to, and I talk to anyone.If you have other questions just ask. I am always up for chatting on here. No I am not on here seeking to be in a casual relationship or to get "physical" with someone. There is nothing casual about dating if you are looking for that person you want to spend your life with. Don't cheat yourself and don't be with someone to just have someone. As well as don't just go giving pieces of yourself all over the place with partners. That isn't respectful to yourself or them. IF YOU HAVE READ ALL OF THIS...and want to be friends still hit me up on chat. Not a movie where you can't talk. Don't know.

  • Darcy

    Online

    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I consider myself to be a strong, independent woman. I work hard to take care of myself and my son, who is 5 years old. We enjoy going to the zoo, taking swimming lessons, and playing in the parks. He is a ball of energy and keeps me on my toes. He means the world to me. I enjoy listening to live music and dancing, going to the movies, boating, getting together with friends, and going to local wine tastings at wineries. There are times when I look forward to a quiet evening when I can open a bottle of wine and relax while listening to my favorite music.I want to spend time with someone who is not afraid to try new adventures and get me to try something new as well. I like to plan, but can also be very spontaneous when time with my son allows. There’s so much we could be out doing together to “find the fun.” I am holding out for someone who is quick-witted, just a little bit goofy, and self-confident about his ideas, keeping open to new ones at the same time. I need a date for my surprise birthday party. I would love to hear from you :)

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