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Brandie, 52
United States, Maryland, Hagerstown

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About Me

1.) Talk about your hobbies, ok; Getting out of the house for adult interaction! Be it dancing, comedy clubs, softball, getting close to nature...2.) Talk about your goals and aspirations My goals are personal, not professional. Professionally, I'm a cna, thats not going to change. As my patient is my daughter, who suffers from seizures if she eats carbs. Yes, carbs. Its actually pretty fascinating, I've got her down to two a year! Personal goals....to maintain my sense of humor while I figure stuff out. The true goal is to find peace and harmony. I'm meant to be partnered, to nurture, anyway! I get my joy from pleasing others, taking care of others. All I ask in return is mutual respect and returned love. I aspire to eventually find friends that are genuine with me, as I can be nothing but genuine back. I'm not into games. I have enough drama. Not leagally (yet) but emotionally divorced. We are still under the same roof while the house is on the market to simply be smarter with finances. Call yourself a pleasant distraction, as I will be to you. I leave the drama at the doorstep. I'm going out to meet you, laugh and joke with you and hang out and explore things together. I want to keep things light, upbeat, a break from the day to day. I wont attempt to predict my future as I have just started a new job, getting divorced, selling my house....you get the idea.....3.) Talk about yourself and what makes you unique I already feel like I've talked about myself enough. What makes me unique. I can only say I'm just me. Feedback is pretty positive. I'm daring, adventurous, witty, and bold. Nothing makes me more happy than hearing my kids laugh, and family gatherings. Having a man smile at me with his mouth AND his eyes thrills me. Its those times that matter. But the answer for being unique would be that I don't shop much. and I don't nag. If you're timid, you better be up for the ride if you dare write! lol Everyone I meet is my friend, till you piss me off. And may I take this opportunity to say that if you run at the first sign of trouble, *** inquiring how to resolve things? Then keep walking. If you can't problem solve, how can anything be successful, including relationships. Grand gestures are a lost ART! Unique....I'm told I'm not like anyone else you know. Very easy to talk to, can hold my own in a conversation, and eager to learn new things. Meeting people these last few months has been nothing short of fascinating. I've been pretty sheltered marrying 34 years ago at a new 18...but now I'm seeing the way the world really is, and by day, its a nightmare of tedious details, that's why at night, I like to get out for dinner, or a movie, or a walk. to decompress. I miss holding hands! Drive-ins rock!5.) Describe your taste in music: Like they used to say on American Bandstand: I like a good beat that's easy to dance to.I don't "get" jazz. I think I just blackballed any music that I cant dance to when I was a kid. Having lots of people in the house made my vote for variety moot. But like with everything, I'm giving it another try!I know what I want from music. A release. A mood flip. Occupy my brain awhile as I regroup. I love clubs, but don't go often. Unless I'm dancing in someone's arms, slow music makes me get teary eyed, like weddings and births!now I'm mentally exhausted! But I answered the questions, therefore making this the BEST profile you've ever read! You can thank me over a drink! LOL Well, first things first you heathens....don't text and ask a WOMAN out, this IS the TIME to pick up the phone and do it the old fashioned way. It's called ROMANCE, not a Size-U-Up! back to the program.......anything fun and active to keep out of "interview mode!" let's do icecream! or lunch/dinner/coffee/picnic/dancing/bowling/ballgame/casino.....I'm not about the where so much as the you!psst, and I think you've all forgotten that first impressions DO MATTER! and YES, so does size! you go in all chill like you can't be bothered to make an effort.....she'd have to be desperate to still give you her attention! Because any woman you want to be with WILL have make efforts you can't even imagine!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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