SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Candace
Online
Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 49-59
I am a lady and would like to meet a gentleman that is romantic in every sense of the word. I love to dress up and go out for a night on the town, but also am quite content boating on a lake or along the intercoastal or just hanging out under the stars. I love holding hands, kissing and cuddling. Being a smart and capable woman with a great sense of humor I feel that I have a healthy outlook on life. Honestly, I would like to find my best friend... I think that a friendship builds a solid foundation in a relationship. Since life is always about change, I am just looking for that one constant in my life that I look forward to being with daily...someone that I can share my life with. If this sounds like you, I would like to hear from you so drop me an *** me your thoughts. Keep in mind for me to respond I would like a picture posted or forwarded as I have posted mine. Above all else, I'd love to find my best friend...the rest will follow...naturally and easily. I'm passionate in just about every aspect of my life, and idealistic, in that I want to leave a positive impact and bring energy to any relationship. I'm an optimist...I expect good things to happen. I'm mature enough to accept that I have baggage, and secure enough to work on it. (My goal is an overnight bag that fits under the seat ahead of me.) I'm a romantic where love is concerned, and, I still believe in the magic that happens when the right man and the right woman come together. When that happens, the world doesn't have the power to keep them down. I don't want much, huh?...I just want it all! I want that tingly feeling when our eyes meet across the room at a party, knowing that we're together. That part of a relationship never has do die...but it all too often ends up on life support from neglect. I believe life looks best by candlelight, our hearts are made for more than just pumping blood, and life's experiences are better when they're shared. I like touching shoulders sitting on the couch, and touching knees under the table, when no one else can see. I believe a real man opens doors, and walks on the outside of the sidewalk. I believe in mutual spoiling, and when you care about someone, you let them know...at least daily! Coffee and conversation...perhaps a stroll
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Beverley
Online
Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 49-59
Im a very outgoing person some would say Im loud and a bit hyper. Others have told me Im to deep I guess I am a very emotional person and the little things mean alot to me, I have feelings and I like to show them and feel them and if I want to speak them I do that to, I dont think that is wrong, I think if you feel something no matter what it is you should tell that person, you never know when it will be to late, so why not say it.Another told me I was reserved still trying to figure that one out. I love to laugh so if you can make me laugh and keep me laughing you have made some points. I love conversation about anything doesnt matter what I just love to chat but more so I love to listen. I enjoy people, especially the ones I can make smile, I love to see others smile and if I had a part in making that smile that makes me smile.Im a very honest, faithful, caring person, I care about how your heart feels, I just want everyone to be happy. I dont know a stranger. I love trying new things. Kayaking was new and it was work but fun. Finally got my nerve up to go on the boat and didnt get sick so Im good to go cuz I love the beach especially the private ones, so relaxing. I also love to bowl, swim, play volleyball, putt putt golf, ride motorcycles, play darts, cards, good scrabble game, love to listen to country or oldies music. Take walks. Love to workout. Love to get up early and have a cup of coffee with someone special with some great conversation.There is one thing Im not which is spontaneous, Im a detailed person and most definately like to have plans, not the spur of the moment gal, meaning I cant just pack up and go whenever.I am a God fearing woman and I dont do wild and crazy things never know who is watching, and I can promise you, you will not be able to talk me into anything, you will not win, so its best to be on your best behavior at all times, God is #1 in my life, I attend church on a regular basis and if there is a function going on at my church I will be there and I do attend other churches when I know of a function they are having, especially if it is a gospel sing. I have one son he is 24 he was a US Marine, now in college, thank God for that. He deployed to Iraq twice, he is my pride and joy and will always be #1 in my life right after God. He was a miracle from God given to me 24 years ago he is my gift from God. I was given the blessing of being a mother. Thank you God for that chance.Im looking to share my life with a man that knows how to treat a lady and knows how a lady deserves to be treated, I dont want to even associate with anyone that knows they are a player, I think that is down right WRONG, sorry but I dont think a woman is here to be treated as an item of pleasure and then tossed away like a bag of trash. I want a partner I can trust and know in my heart we are only for each other and no one can ever enter our world and destroy it. I want to make some cherishible dreams to have some wonderful memories, wonderful things to remember from time to time that keep that endless smile appearing on our faces. I want a man that is confident in himself, and very proud of whatever it is he does in life, I want him to let me be a part of helping him reach his goals and make his dreams a reality. A man that knows how to listen when a woman has something to say, let her opinions matter and mean something, let her thoughts and ideas mean something *** just brushed off in a laugh. I want a man that has a sensitive side and knows how to show tears, and especially knows that tears are not a sign of weakness. I love hugs from some strong arms it makes a woman feel so secure wrapped up in his strong arms. Little sweet kisses are just awesome, like I said before the little things mean alot to me, I love feeling that school girl giggly feeling, I think that is just great. I know in my heart the man Im looking for is out there and I know in my heart he is close by and my heart tells me my eyes have already seen him in my vision of dreams, now Im waiting for the day God leads me to meet him face to face so we can make all our God given visions a reality. I know in my heart God is working hard putting all the final details in place, he needs to complete the picture, and present to us something only we know HE can create, which is TRUE LOVE and a life of happiness. GOD IS AWESOME. I HOPE YOU WILL ALLOW HIM INTO YOUR HEART. I PROMISE IT WONT BE A MISTAKE. Also guys something that I feel is also important to us ladies, we know you do have a heart so don't try to be so hard all the time, its not wrong to let us know you appreciate the things we do for you, lets us know in someway you are satisfied, you cant have it all your way there has to be some compromise, and if you hurt our feelings and we tell you so, put your pride aside and find these words to say, "Im Sorry". It doesnt make you weak to say those words, I think the ladies would agree with me. You MUST love animals even ones in the house. My dog is my companion, she depends on me, I took on the reponsibility and no way will I put her feelings aside or ***, if I go she goes. She is crate trained and while at work she is in it, and most nights, sometimes she sleeps beside me. ***update I like someone that knows how to think in a positive way. Get rid of all those negative thoughts. Have some faith in someone and trust someone, dont give up before it ever starts, friendship takes time, there is alot to learn of each other you cant just jump right in after you have had a phone conversation and say hey lets make a committment to one another even thought we havent met, come on what is up with that junk. Lets make plans to meet and share some smiles and laughter with one another several times and then figure out if we want to try a relationship. The exiciting part is learning about each other so lets share some excitment together. When our eyes meet for the first time we will know if we click or not. There is alot of fun stuff two people can do to have fun, and I dont mean jumping in the sack either. Enjoy life and take it one day at a time. If God wants us to be together I promise he will make sure it happens. We need to "Be Still" and wait for our time. Meet in public, maybe a coffee shop, to sit a bit and talk and then maybe go bowling or play putt putt, some form of activity so we are just not sitting, hard to see a person true self when you just sit and try to find something to chat about, that is very hard the first time meeting, I think there needs to be an activity to have some fun, let your true self shine.
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Marianne
Offline
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
The dreaded box that is supposed to tell any and all possible readers about ourselves and what we are looking for. Sounds easy enough ... So then why do I have writers block ? Laughter and great conversation are at the top of my list. A real connection with someone who genuinely wants to get to know me and will allow me the honor to know his thoughts and feelings. I would like to have someone in my life , to share adventures , bottles of wine , silly text messages. I am easy going and do not come with a big bag of drama ! It is a start at least ... Update : It donned on me this morning that online dating is kind of like shoe shopping ...When I first hit the "search" button and all the various profiles come up on my screen, I recognize the same excited feeling I get when I enter a shoe store. All the many types and styles catch my curious eye. At first darting quickly from one to another, and then, choosing a few that make my heart race - just a little. I see the flashy, sparkly man / stiletto. Always a good choice for a fun night out. Alas, in the end however, the evening usually ends with my feet feeling a little sore and my heart longing for more.The athletic man / shoe is also a choice at times. Flash forward to climbing The Grouse Grind as a first date. I am sucking on my asthma inhaler , my perfectly straightened hair going frizzy from all the perspiring I am doing and my water bottle being drank with the same enjoyment that I sometimes feel for a lovely bottle of Pinot Grigio. Not always my first choice, but with the right encouragement can be good for the soul.High on the shelf there is also the comfy man / shoe. Perfect for quiet evenings at home, watching a movie or grabbing take out food. Sweet. The never go wrong kind of guy / shoe. The ever popular flip flops / man ! Let's grab a blanket and head to the beach with your guitar and some food ! ( Note to self : get a pedicure ) Oh , and then there are boots / men !!.. The choices are endless ... Some days on here, a few catch my eye. Some days, I need to keep looking as nothing quite fits my life right now. I wonder what today will bring ?Good luck to all in finding just the right fit for our perfect day !! A bottle of wine and a quiet spot , so we can have a real conversation.