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HassieOnline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
~ Its crazy that cyber~dating is just like going for a job interview; Such a sales pitch. After my first attempt to swim around in this pond, I took a break from the "catch and release" that was happening. So Im back to the watering hole to see what might come of it .....Alright , I'll give a few adjectives to describe myself ~. Im intuitive, a good communicator (I've learned the art of listening), Im relational, social, affectionate, sensative, hardworking, opinionated, silly/playful, intentional, adventurous, generous, creative productive, tranparent, forgiving, nurturing. I love the laid back livestyle where i live here on Whidbey Island ~ I enjoy what island living has to offer, kayaking out to the mussel beds to see the resident seals, beautiful hikes along the cliffs at Ebeys Landing, beachcombing and rock picking on our shores. My exercise of choice is hiking, walking, & swimming. Health and nutrition are important to me. Cooking is a pleasure. Its an art form, since I rarely follow a recipe. I have a small garden. Eventhough Im not an "over the top" greenie, i get into recycling, composting and generally attempting to minimize and simplify. its turned into a kind of purposeful hobby. Im also an aspiring writer. Im working on a book and a memoir for my kids. I studied interior design *** My home is a reflection of my creativity.My 2 youngest are still in my nest and my 3 goregous, accomplished older daughters are young adults, living their lives. All of my kids amaze me. wherever we are or whoever we are with, people constantly tell me the impression they've made, and how interesting and enjoyable they are. I could never accomplish a greater goal than to produce and raise such wonderful human beings. I love being a mom ~ I love being their mom!Well guys, thats me in a nutshell ~Please do me the courtesy to 1st be fiscally and relationally responsible ( by that I mean, that past loves and family relationships are reconciled and cleaned up) and please be employed ~ I have that in place and would appreciate the sameNot that I have a criteria that is set on stone. I've never had a "Type" when it comes to men, but there are some qualities in a man that really "get me". ~ a masculine, strong, sexy voice~ the rugged, casual type , but underneath the sweat of his brow, you can see that he cleans up nicely~ the comfortable, cuddly type ~ i feel easy in his presence , & everybody else doesa hint ~ real ladies are responders not initiators. Be the man, take the lead. Let us real women be the woman we want to be ~ if we are interested, we will always respond to every and all of your advances, but we wait for you to make the moves. Its not a feminine qualitiy in my book to pursue, but its to be pursued in the courting stages. More times than not, you guys end up with some trouble from women who take the mans role, but I realize with "womens lib" , its now the norm, and men expect women to be a part of the pursuing process So if you are waiting for the a lady to get a hold of you, make the first move, or keep the ball rolling, you may be missing an opportunity to be with the right kind of feminine women. ~For what its worth~ A cafe or restaurant with a cozy corner where we can visit and get to know each other. if we still would like to let the time linger because things are going well, it would be nice if we were located near an area where we could take a walk around. This is conventional enough so that one of us could leave if its not working out, but if it is, there are other options
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VerenaOnline
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
"If you obey all the rules you miss all the fun."--Katharine HepburnI guess I'm started out by breaking one of the 'rules' here just with my profile pic, right ?Myself- I'm a retail pharmacist who loves my job and working with people.- I love to work out, hunt for antiques, go to garage sales, and of course, Kenpo karate. I am most comfortable dressed casually, in my jeans. However, I always welcome the opportunity to get all dressed up......and it gives me an excuse for all those shoes in my closet (far more than 2 little feet will ever need). My friends will tell you that I am reliable, confident and fun (actually the word they used was 'silly').A few fun facts about myself: I recently took up salsa dancing-- anyone want to join me ??One of my favorite stores, that I rarely get to go to, is Farm and Fleet.I love to sell on eBay, and have done quite well.I'm the crazy coupon lady- yes, really. So, if you use them also, I wont' think you're cheap. I will likely mark you as someone to keep my eye on !!What I am looking for- I'm looking for a confident, intelligent man. He might be well educated, or just very smart in his own right. It would be best if he was outgoing and liked to talk.........he will find that I am kind of quiet at first, but that changes rather quickly. He doesn't smoke, drinks only socially or not at all. If he watches sports, he is comfortable if I run off and do something else. He is independent, and takes good care of himself. He knows what he wants in a relationship and is not hesitant to express himself. He is passionate, a gentleman and man of integrity. We may not have the same interests, but out values are the same, and he gets me out of my comfort zone every once in a while and try something new.If you're him, drop me a line. Probably coffee or something similar-- just to meet
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FlickOnline
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
I am a very laid back person, there is no drama in my life and that's the way I like to keep it. Ok there's is always drama in life, its how you deal with it that makes the difference.I am however very outspoken and opinionated, I get that from my dad who always told me "stick up for youself kitten, 'cause no one else ever will".... I'm soft hearted but I will stand my ground,I don't like being told what I can and cannot do...ask me ....don't tell me.I'm very confident with myself,I do not need to be complimented all day long. You do not have to call me and text me all day and night, with that being said I do not want a texting relationship I would rather hear your voice. I have a great sense of humor and wit, like to have great conversations about anything communication is very important to me in a relationship I don't like silence between people ( seen plenty of that in the recent past ) I can talk your ear off or just listen to what you have to say. I get asked alot what type of man am I looking for...One *** was this man wanting me to *** and in one sentence describe what I was looking for in a relationship. Hmm didn't know it was a pop quiz!?!? I have a better idea of what I don't want, shallow, selfish, egotistical, insecure, self centered, intellectually challenged, dishonest.....did I mention stubborn??!! you know where im coming from I'd like to find a man with some confidence with himself and good sence of humor and who can appreciate mine , I'm only slightly warped. I am not a judgemental person, so do not judge me before getting to know me I'v been around long enough that I don't want to waste time, mine or yours. I've always been quite passionate in the matters of love and life and would love to find someone who shares those traits . You only get one chance to make a good first impressionIf you don't get me, you wont get me.....