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Elma, 53
United States, California, Napa

Offline, last seen Sun, 12 Jul 2026 04:26:24

About Me

It's time to do an update -- Ok -- Here goes.....Most people say that I'm basicly laid back and easy going (I get along with pretty much everybody) I am quite content to put on a pair of jeans, comfy shirt, and hang out at home or with friends ***Maybe, dinner and a movie or dancing, concert, social night out with friends. A romantic surprise night out with that someone special would be fun too. I would like to travel and experience new things that I've never done. I use to go to the gym and work out 3 or 4 times a week when my kids were in school. I would like to get back into exercising on a regular basis and it would be nice to have someone to do it with.People don't meet the same way they did the last time I was dating. So, I thought I would just go with the flow and give this social networking a try. I just don't know if I know how. I would like to meet soneone who shares some of the same likes and interest that I do. They need to willing and able to put forth the effort it takes to have a loving and intimate relationship. There needs to be a physical attraction and the chemistry that goes with it. I believe that a kiss is a true test of that and can also be a deal breaker. I'm sorry if that makes me sound shallow, but I need that. All of that being said, first we need to develop a genuine friendship. It takes time, but it's worth it in the end. I just want to take it slow (cause I wouldn't want to miss a thing).I was married for 23 years and I've been on my own for the last couple of years. It's time to start the next chapter in my life. I would like to expand my friends and family. And when I say family, I mean it. I lost both of my parents and a sibling in the 90's. I love kids and animals. I have a dog, a cat, and a sugar glider. And I can't forget to mention my two boys. They may be full grown, but they still light up my life.Ok, I know this is getting a little long and if I keep going I might lose your attention. So I'm going to leave it at that. Meet some where for dinner or a drink. Conversation to get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Crime History Sci-Fi War Western
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