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Jeanine, 51
United States, California, Napa

Offline, last seen Wed, 15 Jul 2026 04:28:10

About Me

If you're interested in a highly intelligent, deeply heartful woman who is comfortable in her own skin and confident about who she is, a woman who is willing to take risks in life and in love, read on.I come from big cities on both coasts and have urban sensibilities. So, intelligence, sophistication and polish make for good compatibility with me, mixed with warmth and authenticity. I take very good care of myself, kickboxing fitness classes are a current addiction, but I'm not a jock. I seek a partner who is also fit, trim, presents well. I enjoy most cultural activities, and live and dress with style... we're not a match. That said, I'm very grounded and genuine. I have plenty of personal warmth and an affectionate, thoughtful nature. A piece of art on my bedroom wall says "Stand In Your Truth" I'm a loyal and compassionate friend who shows up. I'm dedicated to serving others and changing lives in my chosen profession. I'm self-employed, solvent and a homeowner. No baggage that will make you run screaming. Insightful about human behavior and willing to look at my own stuff, too. Ridiculously sane communicator in relationships, not the type for tantrums or drama. Not into blaming, playing the victim, insulting you or being otherwise disrespectful-- but I am honest, sometimes to a fault.I want to meet a man who is deep, open to new ways of thinking, dwells in possibility and is living his purpose. Someone who enjoys the sublime as much as the ridiculous, who can be silly or outrageous when it's called for... and be a Man when it's called for, which includes treating women with kindness, reverence, respect. Someone who has a spirit of adventure, lives life courageously, and won't settle for mediocrity or complacency. Someone who has a big heart and listens well and is also comfortable expressing his masculinity, because I have a very feminine presence. Someone who has ambition and is financially comfortable.I'm looking for sparkle and spirit. To be able to laugh so hard I can't breathe and to revel in affection. To engage in real conversation with a man who lives an examined life, and to also engage in entertaining banter with wit and edge. To receive as much from a man as I have to give... from my heart. I believe that when we find each other, we'll just click. I ain't here to suffer fools or players.If your profile is a list of your favorite outdoor activities, that doesn't tell me much about who you are. I seek a man who knows himself... or is seeking to know himself.We all want to succeed here. If you have nothing nice to say, it'll roll off of me... as Glinda the Good Witch said to the Wicked Witch of the West, "Go away, you have no power here." I like to keep the first meeting simple and brief, coffee or a drink, and if that's going well, on from there to a casual dinner where we can get to know each other. I was raised by Southern women, so I would feel uncomfortable if asked to go dutch on a first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am secure in my career and at point in my life that I am ready for a permanent relationship. I am looking for someone to spend time with and get to know. I have been divorced for 5 years and prepared for a commitment. I have a large family that I love spending time with. I'm looking for someone that could eventually fit in with them as well.I'm somewhat of a book worm. Science fiction novels are at the top of my list. Having a large family I've gained awesome cooking skills. My chicken fried steak is to die for if I do say so myself. In the past few years I've gotten more active and try to work out with my daughters a few times a week.All in all I'm just looking for someone I can relate to that will except me for who I am. Go out for dinner to a quiet restaurant so we can talk and get to know each other.

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  • Krista from Napa | Woman | 53 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I love to travel, read, go to the movies, just about anything that's fun. I am down to earth, no drama kind of person. If you're looking for drama and head games, look somewhere else. Life is too short to do anything but enjoy it. I got my motorcycle license last summer and I enjoy riding and need to get a lot of practice. I work out, not as often as I should, but enough to stay in decent shape. My family is very important to me. I have a very young grandson and a grand daughter. I love spending time with them. I look like my picture. They are all fairly recent. If you are in your twenties or thirties, please don't bother. I don't respond. I'm looking for a mature relationship. Good luck in your search !"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle."

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  • Hallie from Napa | Woman | 55 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm a resilient tenacious morning lark not a nite owl, independent & down to earth, & a Humanist. Prefer the company of a few select friends over noisy crowds. Time with my guy takes top priority, but I don't open up to many. Dependable but not always predictable. I'm into health & wellness but I can enjoy a good steak occasionally. I enjoy being out in nature when the weather is tolerable, hearing the sounds of crickets and frogs versus city traffic. Camping, fishing, gardening, or new things around the city at times is all good. I enjoy cooking, especially with someone - cajun dishes or just about anything grilled / smoked and a cold one. More on health & wellness - I strive to be more natural with organic, wild caught or free range foods (but still spicy & yummy) to make the best of myself. I'm a big do-it-yourselfer, not afraid to get my hands dirty. I love doing new things and seeing new places, saying hell yes to fun new things .....makes going back to work on Mondays not so bad. On the practical side - I love the intelligent capable huckleberry type which seems to be a rare find these days. My guy must be honorable or no other quality he may have will make up for the lack of that one. He would be finished with his 'sampling'. A man without honor is just a "toy". It's a man's actions that counts, not insincere sweet words. Yet he will be as deep in passion as in thoughts, excels in communication. He is supportive not controlling. He’s open minded realizing he doesn’t have all the answers. He has enough flexibility to get my Gemini personality. He’s more interested in making me laugh than in appearing perfect. He balances fun with responsibilities. He would appreciate someone he could count on, would treat me as his equal & not treat me a sidekick. He does not need the approval or constant companionship of a pack of friends, and never independently of me. Friends should be our friends. We would give each other top priority. He is also strong in spirit as well as body, strives to stay healthy as I do. (Sorry but if you have a gut that's bigger than the love handles category then you aren't taking care of yourself so this isn't striving to stay healthy to my standards.) Of course it starts with the right chemistry and it is an absolute must but I want a real partner in all areas. Late spouse was older - can't do that again. A bit younger is my preference.;honest" man it does not mean she wants a jerk whose entire profile is bad mouthing women. Not all women are like the last one. Yes, I am a strong, outspoken and independent woman, not a side-kick that will agree with everything you say. Having said that, be assured that I am also flexible and compromising giving 110% to my loved one. One issue that I have incurred recently is guys who skip steps in the "getting to know you" stage and quickly directs the conversation to the physical desires. I love flirting and will do my share of it but that doesn’t mean it’s time to get physical. It’s important to learn all those wonderful qualities you have to offer and allow a bit of time for the attraction and romance to develop. I’m looking for my life partner not a temporary fun time. Having said that, be assured in an established relationship that passion is very important to me. It makes tolerating all the other BS in life that we know comes up….all the easier to go through. Something casual, low pressure, committing to a limited amount of time since most of us know within minutes if there is a connection or not. A cold one and an appetizer after work sounds good.

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