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Jillian, 51
United States, California, Napa

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About Me

I like reading,movies,football,dogs,swimming and I have a self deprecating sense of humor. Big fan of sarcasm,salsa and chips, snowstorms and Seinfeld (see what I did there? They all begin with the letter "S"...interesting? No? Ok,lol. My goal is to be with someone who "gets" me...other than that....my cooking stills are very,very sad....however I have excellent dish washing skills! I think it's important to be able to communicate....at this stage of my life I have no interest in head games. (From what I can tell, the previous sentence is mandatory in all profiles...but how funny would it be if someone actually wrote: game playing appreciated because i'm attracted to guys who are in the midst of a deep homosexual panic and need to over compensate.....lol).I'm 50 and I am a woman who is comfortable with who I am. I'm not a woman who will go out to dinner and order a salad and water,lol. I'm not so much into going to a bar....but if I do go...I like an "old joint"....I was married for 10 years then divorced...then had an 18 year relationship that I should have left much earlier...my son is grown...I feel like this is my time.....oh....one more little teeny,tiny thing: I sometimes have this tendency to go off topic during discussions....for example, we might be having a perfectly lovely conversation about quantum physics or Einsteins Theory of Relativity and I suddenly ask if you've ever seen an Amish person with a wooden leg.....because I haven't. Seriously.....think about it...(sigh....)these are the things that keep me up at night. ;). UPDATE: I apparently need to clarify something....when I said I prefer "an old joint" I meant an old Bar or club. VS a new loud, noisy club.....an. old joint. With a jukebox and a mahogany.bar....lol....not an old joint as in smoking.....lol! ***. Does anyone on this site DATE? I get lots of messages but when I suggest setting up a date, dead silence. Seriously....this isn't rocket science. Get out from behind your computer and lets go on a date! A couple drinks....some laughs....geez.....if its not a "love connection", so what? Big deal! A few hours of laughing will be fun!!!!!! ***.... Not interested in a texting relationship!!!! Coffee or drinks....some flirting....laughing and a really great kiss...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Canadian Caribbean Indonesian Action Mystery Romance
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