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Jillian, 51

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About Me

I like reading,movies,football,dogs,swimming and I have a self deprecating sense of humor. Big fan of sarcasm,salsa and chips, snowstorms and Seinfeld (see what I did there? They all begin with the letter "S"...interesting? No? Ok,lol. My goal is to be with someone who "gets" me...other than that....my cooking stills are very,very sad....however I have excellent dish washing skills! I think it's important to be able to communicate....at this stage of my life I have no interest in head games. (From what I can tell, the previous sentence is mandatory in all profiles...but how funny would it be if someone actually wrote: game playing appreciated because i'm attracted to guys who are in the midst of a deep homosexual panic and need to over compensate.....lol).I'm 50 and I am a woman who is comfortable with who I am. I'm not a woman who will go out to dinner and order a salad and water,lol. I'm not so much into going to a bar....but if I do go...I like an "old joint"....I was married for 10 years then divorced...then had an 18 year relationship that I should have left much earlier...my son is grown...I feel like this is my time.....oh....one more little teeny,tiny thing: I sometimes have this tendency to go off topic during discussions....for example, we might be having a perfectly lovely conversation about quantum physics or Einsteins Theory of Relativity and I suddenly ask if you've ever seen an Amish person with a wooden leg.....because I haven't. Seriously.....think about it...(sigh....)these are the things that keep me up at night. ;). UPDATE: I apparently need to clarify something....when I said I prefer "an old joint" I meant an old Bar or club. VS a new loud, noisy club.....an. old joint. With a jukebox and a mahogany.bar....lol....not an old joint as in smoking.....lol! ***. Does anyone on this site DATE? I get lots of messages but when I suggest setting up a date, dead silence. Seriously....this isn't rocket science. Get out from behind your computer and lets go on a date! A couple drinks....some laughs....geez.....if its not a "love connection", so what? Big deal! A few hours of laughing will be fun!!!!!! ***.... Not interested in a texting relationship!!!! Coffee or drinks....some flirting....laughing and a really great kiss...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kristin

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am secure in my career and at point in my life that I am ready for a permanent relationship. I am looking for someone to spend time with and get to know. I have been divorced for 5 years and prepared for a commitment. I have a large family that I love spending time with. I'm looking for someone that could eventually fit in with them as well.I'm somewhat of a book worm. Science fiction novels are at the top of my list. Having a large family I've gained awesome cooking skills. My chicken fried steak is to die for if I do say so myself. In the past few years I've gotten more active and try to work out with my daughters a few times a week.All in all I'm just looking for someone I can relate to that will except me for who I am. Go out for dinner to a quiet restaurant so we can talk and get to know each other.

  • Lizzie

    Online

    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I\'m honest and warm hearted and don\'t like to play games so please no players. I would enjoy meeting someone who’s ready for a relationship that grows every day with each new experience we share.

  • Hallie

    Online

    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm a resilient tenacious morning lark not a nite owl, independent & down to earth, & a Humanist. Prefer the company of a few select friends over noisy crowds. Time with my guy takes top priority, but I don't open up to many. Dependable but not always predictable. I'm into health & wellness but I can enjoy a good steak occasionally. I enjoy being out in nature when the weather is tolerable, hearing the sounds of crickets and frogs versus city traffic. Camping, fishing, gardening, or new things around the city at times is all good. I enjoy cooking, especially with someone - cajun dishes or just about anything grilled / smoked and a cold one. More on health & wellness - I strive to be more natural with organic, wild caught or free range foods (but still spicy & yummy) to make the best of myself. I'm a big do-it-yourselfer, not afraid to get my hands dirty. I love doing new things and seeing new places, saying hell yes to fun new things .....makes going back to work on Mondays not so bad. On the practical side - I love the intelligent capable huckleberry type which seems to be a rare find these days. My guy must be honorable or no other quality he may have will make up for the lack of that one. He would be finished with his 'sampling'. A man without honor is just a "toy". It's a man's actions that counts, not insincere sweet words. Yet he will be as deep in passion as in thoughts, excels in communication. He is supportive not controlling. He’s open minded realizing he doesn’t have all the answers. He has enough flexibility to get my Gemini personality. He’s more interested in making me laugh than in appearing perfect. He balances fun with responsibilities. He would appreciate someone he could count on, would treat me as his equal & not treat me a sidekick. He does not need the approval or constant companionship of a pack of friends, and never independently of me. Friends should be our friends. We would give each other top priority. He is also strong in spirit as well as body, strives to stay healthy as I do. (Sorry but if you have a gut that's bigger than the love handles category then you aren't taking care of yourself so this isn't striving to stay healthy to my standards.) Of course it starts with the right chemistry and it is an absolute must but I want a real partner in all areas. Late spouse was older - can't do that again. A bit younger is my preference.;honest" man it does not mean she wants a jerk whose entire profile is bad mouthing women. Not all women are like the last one. Yes, I am a strong, outspoken and independent woman, not a side-kick that will agree with everything you say. Having said that, be assured that I am also flexible and compromising giving 110% to my loved one. One issue that I have incurred recently is guys who skip steps in the "getting to know you" stage and quickly directs the conversation to the physical desires. I love flirting and will do my share of it but that doesn’t mean it’s time to get physical. It’s important to learn all those wonderful qualities you have to offer and allow a bit of time for the attraction and romance to develop. I’m looking for my life partner not a temporary fun time. Having said that, be assured in an established relationship that passion is very important to me. It makes tolerating all the other BS in life that we know comes up….all the easier to go through. Something casual, low pressure, committing to a limited amount of time since most of us know within minutes if there is a connection or not. A cold one and an appetizer after work sounds good.

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