Total users: 57,567,548 Online users: 207,051
Della, 54
United States, California, Napa

Offline, last seen Wed, 18 Jun 2025 18:27:10

About Me

I am excited about life, the beautiful things it has to offer, and look for the positives in everything. I'm not a couch potato. I want to have fun, with fun people, and enjoy everyday! My guy will have to have the same outlook. Be outgoing, respectful, and make me proud to be with him. My world is "drama free" and yours should be also...or it just won't work.The type of man I want will be single/divorced, employed, and capable of handling his own affairs. My goal isn't to raise yet another child. I'm not interested in boys, not interested in professional meetville daters. I'm interested in that rare segment called "a normal man", who has time for me, has similar interests, and willing to start out as friends and let things naturally go where they're supposed to go.As far as looks.. Guys...c'mon now.. As nice and wonderful as overweight, bald, greezy, toothless men are...I just don't prefer to meet one. I personally care about how I look and you will need to care about yourself also. If that sounds crude or rude...unfortunately it needs to be said. It's also fact! Not looking to date "my dad", nor am I about to teach "a boy" the facts of life.. Again... I want a NORMAL man, in my age group, and sadly I must add...takes a shower when needed.. If I can smell you before I see you...it's not happening!If this sounds like you...then we should talk. IN THE ALTERNATIVE...if you are married, separated, engaged or have a girlfriend...then we shouldn't. Move along, hit your back button, exit stage left! Also...my kids are grown and I'm now free to explore life, so I'm not looking to help raise your little ones. I love kids, but... If you're a Creep just looking for a toy to play with or if you're a serial dater...beat it. I'm not the woman for you. Update.... At this point I am looking for a friend first.... I would like to get to know you.... I do not care to have a guy around that all he thinks about is getting you into bed and touching me in a inappropriate manner....I do not need to be analyzed head to toe be yourself please and I will do the same.... Let life flow naturally.... I honestly think the first time we meet it should be a meeting, not a date. If the magic is there...together we'll figure out our first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Classical American Chinese Irish Turkish Drama Thriller Dirt Bike Racing Tennis
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Hallie from Napa | Woman | 52 years old | Leo
    Hallie

    Offline

    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I'm done with the stupidity. Crossing your arms doesn't make you look like you have big biceps. Glamour pics are fake and airbrushed. I take care of my looks, if you don't, I probably won't find you attractive. So, please, move on. What is up with the sideways pics, and you from 10 years ago? If your main profile pic is you on ANY motorcycle, or in a cabriolet.. I probably am not your girl. I like bikes, but not what defines you I Hope! I really don't want to sound negative, because I have met some really nice men. But please do not contact me if you have extremely negative views about relationships. We have all had our share of bad experiences, but I really don't have the energy for immature attitudes and behaviors, and those who don't realize that a relationship takes time and nurturing. If communication is not your thing...move on. I am not a mind reader and don't expect you to be either! And I know you guys have met some crazy women...but I have met some PSYCHOTIC men as well! And we have all met people who make us feel like we are losing OUR minds! I would like to avoid that if at all possible. If you don't take care of yourself, please move on. I take care of myself and am very active.I enjoy a wide range of music, from classical to rock, but lean towards jazz and R&B. Am an animal lover and like ethnic festivals, warm weather and the ocean, a great glass of wine while listening to live music. An avid NFL fan, Thoroughbred racing, Italian food and great books. I like to think I have a very good sense of humor, and a caring heart. I can be very professional, but also have a playful side where the little girl in me shows, and try not not to take things too seriously. Men have been described me as extremely passionate and sensual. I have a very busy work schedule, and ask that you be patient as I can be very hard to pin down. Absolutely not into game players, so if that's you..please move on. Physical and mental attraction are quite important, I need both and hope you do as well. If I am not intellectually stimulated...well...the rest isn't going to work! I believe I am extremely open and try not to judge, but please try to at least spell check your entries! I am not looking for perfection by any means, but like someone who cares enough to watch their spelling and grammar. I think we can all appreciate the finer things in life, but a BMW or Harley certainly is not an indication of who you are as a person, and unfortunately, may be what defines you. Hopefully, you follow where I am going with this! It is important to me to make the person I am with feel special, and I think of myself as a giver. I believe that what you give will always come back to you tenfold. Oh, one more thing. I will *** picture if you ask, and promise that it is recent, and truthful. I am not fat, and am not going to send you a pic of me twenty years ago! Not into wasting time, mine or yours! Meet for a drink somewhere?

    Chat
  • Blanca from Napa | Woman | 53 years old | Libra
    Blanca

    Offline

    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    "If you like making love at Midnight, in the dunes of the Cape...write to me & escape." Enjoy being outside as much as possible...listening to live music, blues, jazz, R&B, dancing, ethnic food, boating, Home Depot, Motorcycle riding, jogging. Enjoy preparing gourmet meals together, at home with someone special & a fine bottle of Wine...~ If you are Tall, Attractive, HONEST, Affectionate and have a great sense of Humour... and YOU would like to meet an Honest, Affectionate, easy going lady, I'd love to hear from you. BTW: my age was a "typo"...unable to edit age on profiIe...not a liar, I am older..."60ish" (photos are current) I look, feel & act younger! (A lot of men I've met have lied about their age!) I am an artist, looking for inspiration to paint again...My glass is always half full...PS: Mustache or beard preferred...but NOT necessary (~; Animal Lovers welcome! Must be interested in a Monogomous relationship... If You are a "normal"...and fun guy, please contact me!Friend, Lover, Partner... First meeting decisions should be made mutually...probably someplace comfortable and casual, for a drink or cup of coffee...overlooking River or Ocean would be great...and good conversation a must!

    Chat
  • Leonor from Napa | Woman | 55 years old | Libra
    Leonor

    Online

    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    This is my first shot at internet dating and it's kind of scary, but I thought I would give it a whirl. Who knows? My one and only might be right around the corner. I am not very good at talking about myself, but here goes. I am easy going and have a big heart. My close friends would say that I am a little guarded and it takes a while to really open me up. I love the sun and water and anything that goes with it. I am down to earth and you will rarely find me in anything but jeans and shorts. I am pretty much game for just about anything. Who doesn't like a new adventure?I am just looking for someone who likes the things I do and we will see where it goes from there. Maybe meet for a drink (soda or margarita) in a public place of course, some place casual, to get to know one another.Probably going to need a magarita for this.....lol

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: