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KennardOnline
Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46
Tuning up the profile…I had the routine stuff and decided to devote some time writing something with substance…something real…What I want in a relationship…Someone who can’t wait for me to come over…Someone I can’t wait to get too see…Someone who wants a relationship based on trust, openness, communication, honesty, and responsibility to one another and to our goals as a couple.Common interests are a plus and make meeting more comfortable though they should not be the deciding factor when determining a good match. I prefer to meet someone who has varied interests from my own. I like new experiences. I hope to share my friends, family and experiences with you and wish for you to do the same with me. I like being just a bit out of my comfort zone. What better way is there to keep broadening your horizons?I wish to meet someone who has or wishes to develop a strong connection to family, community and church. At 38 I have just now realized how focusing on these elements have made me a better person in all regards. I wish to continue growing in all these areas and would be happiest doing so with someone like minded.I wish to meet someone who pushes me to excel personally and professionally, someone who encourages and is not afraid to speak their mind or criticize me if I do something they don’t agree with. In return I will do the same for them. We can enjoy the result of our collaboration (or perhaps suffer the consequences), either way the efforts and decisions will be shared. I want to meet someone who understands grown adults can disagree and still be completely civil. Someone who is totally committed to getting a relationship right and who realizes doing so requires effort and devotion.Looks are only important in the regard that two people are attracted to one another. Beauty is where you find it. I’m no 10…not even close. You don’t have to be either. As long as we are attracted to one another little else matters. Attraction is not exclusive to the physical sense.Have kids? No problem. Of course then there is much more at risk should Mom and her boyfriend having a falling out. I trust you will know better than I when and if meeting the little ones makes sense. I grew up in a home that saw divorce. Better to find out as two grown adults if things are or are not a match than for a bond to be formed that may serve to hurt your kids should things not work between us. I love kids and I am a kid at heart in so many ways.I have undecided/open describing my desire for children only because it is a choice to be made within a relationship between two people who have considered all the angles and agree as a couple. I love kids and would love to have a child (or children). The decision to have children cannot be made by just one person though. It takes a rock solid relationship and careful consideration by Mom and Dad. Not just one person who won’t have it any other way. As for me, I’m a simple guy. I’m not rich and I don’t live in some estate on the hill. My bills are paid and I save more than I spend. I like meeting my commitments and responsibilities and always do what I can to provide more than what is expected in all my dealings with others. I am completely honest, always smiling and I love to laugh. I’m a joker and always have something to say to liven up the party. I enjoy reading and learning. I am steadfastly devoted to family and to whoever I am (or who is) lucky enough to meet me. I have awesome friends, loving family and a job I look forward to going to every day. All that is missing is someone to share all these great things with.That’s the best I can do within the confines of an internet dating site…There is so much more to find out about me should you decide to take a risk and respond. I wish whoever read this the best of luck in your search and hope we can all find “The One”. First date...whatever we decide...walk in the city, concert, ball game, museum...
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SchuylerOnline
Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45
So how do you sum yourself up? Going through the process of writing and rewriting this took allot of thought and soul searching. What do I say to accuratelyr represent myself? To represent what I am looking for, there are so many things I could say about myself. The many success's in my life, as well as the failures. Do our failures in life not say as much about us as our success's. Anyone can sit here and tell you how great they are. Though to not acknowledge my failures as well as my success's would make me a fraud and a hypocrite. If you fail, at least you tried. So yes I have failed in love and at times in life. I guess that is what makes me the man I am. When I failed, I immediately got back up to try again. That is what I am doing now. As I have said I have failed , or at least not had much luck at love. I have wondered why, and have tried to improve in those areas. So about me. I guess first and foremost I am a father, brother, son and uncle. I am very spontaneous, adventurous, loyal, dedicated, a survivor, passionate lover, fiercely protective, outspoken, hard headed, (at times) and am not afraid to show my feelings. I enjoy being around people, hanging out with my friends and family is one of my favorite things to do. I like to get out and enjoy life, though I can also be happy at home with the family. I do not do drugs, but I do drink on occasion. I try to never judge anyone, but try to accept them for who they are. I love being outdoors, try to go to the Ozarks as often as possible. I love concerts, dive bars, canoeing, bar-b-que's, or just sitting on the patio listening to the world. As for music? I like country, classic rock, rock and some R&B. I am not into any type of games or drama. Life is entirely too short for it, and I am definately not getting any younger. Though I don't feel my age there is definately no denying it. Are we all not looking for something real. Someone we can talk to, be open with, tell all of our fears, triumphs and heartaches. I know I am. When I think about what I want, the movie "The Notebook" comes to mind. I want a love like that, one that will stand the test of time and endure. So many people have separated because they have "grown apart". What is that? How do you grow apart? If you truly love someone dont you grow together? If we were meant to be exactly the same would we not have been made that way? Isn't it our differences that make life interesting? We ask ourselves, what is it that first attracted us to that special someone? Was it their eyes, their smile, their body, the way they could make you smile or laugh? Then as time moves on you find out the deeper things. Though it is our differences that make it interesting and exciting. It is like taking a vacation somewhere you have never been, you get to see all the things you have never seen. The same is true for a relationship, it is the excitement of the unknown. I revel in my differences, embrace them and accept them. They make me stronger, happier, and more enthusiastic for life. They make me unique. As for what I am looking for in a partner. First and foremost please do not mistake the fact that I am looking for a partner in life. I am not looking for a casual sex partner, a hanger on, or someone who wants something for nothing. I want someone who knows what they want out of life, Someone who is okay with a family. Someone who takes care of themselves, is spontaneous, adventurous, fun filled, has her own mind and is not afraid to speak it. Someone who is ambitious, loyal, honest, trustworthy, a woman who is not afraid to show her affections and emotions. I could go on and on. Though I refuse to settle, I also do not need perfect. I just need you to be you. If you have got this far, then maybe you like what you have heard. So would you like to know more? Then take a minute and send me an *** am not into neverending ***, so if you are not wanting to get together and take a chance, then I may not be for you. If on the other hand you are ready for life and all the possibilities, then maybe I am for you. So what do you say are you brave enough to give me a try? Hope to hear from you. I will respond to everyone, either way. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. Something fun, that we will both enjoy. We can decide together
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DeshaunOnline
Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45
I am a confident, attractive and spontaneous gentleman looking to meet my match. I do stunt work. Have you ever seen a movie where a hot actor has to reveal his naked ass? That’s my job.In all seriousness, my perception of an ideal relationship is complete comfort. I can be myself around you and you the same. You can sit in the room working on the computer while I do a crossword and I'm entirely content. I only have eyes for you, you only have eyes for me and we communicate this verbally and physically and often. Fights are rare and when we do get into it, we don't stop talking until we've reached some sort of peace. Unparalleled companionship, unprecedented generosity and unconditional love grant us the foundation for a lasting long-term relationshipWhat I've Learned from Past Relationships:Flossing is important. Laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, I'll work for it; if it's not, I won't. I don't say anything I'll regret because you can't take it back. Finally, you must expose yourself emotionally -- it's the only way to reap love's greatest rewardsYou should message me if you are: Sexy, smart, fit and fun. My girl’s gotta have a sense of style, the ability to run in heels, a spark in her eye, and a killer smile.