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Lucile, 49

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About Me

I would love to find that special someone who gives you that butterfly feeling. Someone with no baggage or drama. He must enjoy PDA and be a great kisser. I am very attracted to more of a metrosexual guy...just my thing. I don't cook (might as well tell you that right away) but would enjoy cooking together. I don't have pets but like dogs. I have 2 boys aged 19 and 18 that live with me every other week but pretty much have a life of their own. I have an amicable relationship with their Dad hence no drama in my life. Well this is a start so if you'd like to know more send me a message. Please note I do not reply to anyone without a picture. Only fair!?? I DON'T GET IT! OR PICS WITH SUNGLASSES AND HATS ON...WOWUpdate #2: I will not reply if you don't have a picture so please don't msg me without one. A drink on a patio if weather permits. Italian restaurant is my fav so maybe meet for dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Brooke

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm looking for someone that I can share my thoughts and ideas but who has thoughts and ideas of their own...agreeing to disagree is a good thing in a relationship. I'm looking for someone with humor, wit, brains and true real life experiences….. I'm looking for someone that would be thrilled when I run home early to be with them, then can laugh and giggle about the silly things we've done....style, class, sophistication and grace comes in so many different venues and I like them all….as someone said…the 3 A’s in a relationship are vital.. Attention, Appreciation and Affection….I couldn’t agree more. I'm a very romantic person who loves giving my all to the person who I'm committed to and like so many others, a person who hasn't given up on the physical side of a relationship....Communication, commitment, respect and trust are the foundation of the relationship I'm looking for and won't except anything less.....holding hands, touching, exploring and talking all ranks high on my list in a relationship.....I still believe that holding a door for a woman is the right thing to do, yet accepts ones individuality to be themselves. I'll close with the thought that describing oneself can be difficult...as some one told me..." you can't describe him you have to experience him"...no truer words have been spoken. Now, let me know your thoughts and ideas A quiet place to be alone & just talk!

  • Milagros

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Can we talk? Seriously, I don't know why this is so difficult! I use to meet men at the deli, driving, baseball games etc. So have men changed? I do see men looking at me, but they seem "sheepish" about approaching...? Why is that? Except for recently, when this guy walked by me a few times, and then actually stopped and talked to me! Unfortunately, no attraction. But at least he "took a shot"! Love that! I am a happy person, and I do believe it shows. I have a very open honest personality, a positive attitude, and good sense of humor. I get along with basically everybody I meet. I have strong values, but not the kind of person which will force them on others. I believe in "live and let live". I am the kind of person who enjoys learning about other people's cultures, languages and faith. I believe that life is so much more than about yourself. If given the chance to chat with someone from another country, religion, or culture, do it. You will be amazed how much we are all actually alike. I hope to find someone who is just as adventurous and open minded.I am very loyal, loving and compassionate. I have learned through experience "nothing is forever"...good or bad. Time keeps moving forward regardless. If you can find someone to "stand still with" for a long period of time, it makes you feel as if you have been able to "stop time". It's a wonderful feeling!! You cannot "fake" chemistry. I am a bit of a "domestic goddess"...lol!! I cook, clean, wash and will massage the soreness out of you. I am very into "taking care of my sweetheart". If you are good to me, I am very good to you. All I require is a man who is respectful, hardworking, healthy, compassionate with a good temperament. I'm not looking for a health nut/gym rat. But if you are a man with weight issues (have a gut, etc), I probably am not the woman for you. Since my cooking will push you closer to being on the "Biggest Loser"...lol...sorry! I would prefer to have a man who is in shape, outgoing, funny, social, full of energy and generous emotionally more than anything else. I'm a bit "old school". By that I mean, I love a man who opens the door for me. Whether it's to a restaurant or car door. Because it's how they were raised, not because they are on "good behavior" for the evening and it's an "act". Trust me, I know the difference. Men who are authentically well mannered, kind, protective and affectionate is a turn-on. Turn-Offs-living with your parents (or not your own residence), not divorced/not single, pushy, demanding, overly aggressive, no personality!I also believe a man should pick-up the phone, and call a woman to go out on a date (women fall in love between their ears!! By hearing your voice!! Not reading your endless texts msgs, and being asked out in yet another text msg!) I know texting is convenient, but it should not be the vehicle for 95% of the communication. Take the initiative (show interest) to discuss the details of the date (where to go, what I like, time, day). If you are chewing food, watching T.V.(loudly), playing a musical ***, guitar etc.), while talking to me, this does not convey I have your undivided attention nor your interest in me is sincere. Either is scheduling/putting off our meeting around a sports event, or favorite T.V. show! If your work, family, kids & friends dominate your life, to the point where it seems like you do not have time for a relationship, then why are you on here? A sense of humor, personality, depth, kindness, and a heart of gold TRUMPS any degree, lack of social skills, shallow, cold, distant, self involved, any day of the week! Yes, a "blue collar" man often is more of a front runner in my book, in comparison to his "white collar" counterparts!! BTW - I have heard stories from some of you, about meeting women who are overweight and don't look anything like their picture. Which I feel is misleading and unfair. With that said, I am more than happy to state I am 5'5", slender, with dark green eyes, and if we meet...you will know it is me...LOL! I still have a Southern drawl...not as strong as it use to be, but it is still present. It's noticeable...LOL! I am very proud of my age, and believe that a mature woman with experience is very sexy! Although most people guess/think I am 10 yrs younger. Which makes me giggle... Whatever is comfortable for both of us. I do love a man "with a plan" though..LOL! If you have a fun and interesting personality (like myself), then we will have a good date no matter where we are!! Here is some other info if you got to this point...1. I don't live with my ex2. I have a car & it runs3. I do laundry4. I like to watch sports5. I own what I have6. I love animals - especially dogs!7. I love cars and engines8. I can stay up past 10pm9. I like discovering new places and people10. I make awesome beef stew!11. I like to take day trips12. I'm not on an anti-depressant13. I will not put you in jail!14. You don't have to block your number from my ex when you call15. I take very good care of my body and mind16. I'm extremely fun!17. I don't do drugs18. I only drink a cup of coffee in the morning19. I have a brain and soul20. I like boats, the ocean, and swimming21. I don't deal with BS (if you are still fighting with your ex, indecisiveness, lack of proper behavior)22. I am known to make people laugh and be thoroughly entertaining!23. Not into "HEAD BANGER" music, long hair, bikers, gang members, or former rock stars (or still trying!!)24. I don't have a crazy ex stalking me25. I like HGTV and the Food Network26. I play well with others27. I have nice everything!28. I like ";29. I don't bring my girlfriends on my date30. I have dimples...on my face not my backside!31. My parents don't live with me32.33. I have morals/values34. I have class and manners35. I have not dated every man in the Tri State!36. I like the Yankees37. I haven't spent time in a rehab38. I am loyal and truthful39. I forgive quickly40. I am very interesting and social

  • Brandie

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Howdy, Here I go again...my heart will not give up or give in. I know true love is out there. I will not settle for anything less than what I deserve! Ive been "thrown back" into the dating scene. I have a few things that I need to make very clear. I am a christian lady and am looking for a christian man! What I mean by that is we have the same values and morals. I do believe in God and attend church regularly (Church of Christ) and want someone who will with me! I am a lady who respects herself. I do not bed hop and am not into free sex. If thats what your after then please move on. I do not care for a man who cusses in front of a woman....yes I know men do that "talk", but leave it with the men. I know that I am different, but also know there is a real man out there who will respect that too! Wow! If you have made it to this point, Im really impressed!!! I am attracted to men of all shapes and sizes. I seem to like the big and tall..teddy bears! I love facial hair and a sexy smile. I tend to look at the heart more than appearances. I think inward beauty out ranks outter beauty. Appearances change over time...we both will grow old! I think its more of how they treat you than looks!!! No smokers . I tend to be shy and timid at first. Look out, when Im comfortable with you its a whole new ball game. I will tease and throw sarcasim your way. I love making that special one happy and smile. If we arent lauighing together or at each other...there is a problem . I am a fun lovin crazy go girl, Laughter is an every daily requirement for me!! HUMOR is a must! Ive been told Im crazy, silly or a goof ball..but I believe if we didnt have crazy then this world wouldnt turn. I am very giving and considerate. I always give of myself first and take care of myself last. (that needs to change) I've always spoiled the one Im with. Im looking to be spoiled! I enjoy laughing, being silly and living life to the fullest. I have 3 grown children. I am 1st grade teacher which suits my silly personality. I am a breast cancer survivor...off with the old and got me some new perky ones. (ask me how they make the nipples)! :)........ I continue to wear wigs..long, short, medium...what ever the mood strikes!I Love romance...what woman doesnt? I love affection and soft slow kisses. Ive been told Im an awesome kisser. Cuddling, holding hands and big bear hugs!!! Sending special notes/text, flowers , or sending a random Im thinking of you....yes I feel thats a daily requirement for a relationship to survive, Yes, Ive sent flowers to my man too! I am an animal lover..dogs especially. I have 2 cats and an Akita. If you dont like pets then we wont work! My pets are my babies! As far as music goes I enjoy country, rock, and 80's. I love live concerts. I enjoy area bands, My favorite is A 70 DISCO band Le Freaki and Spazmatics 80's music. I like watching movies either at home cuddling on the couch or at the theatre. Im not really into the scary movies....yes, I get scared! love most others. I LOVE TO CW DANCE!!!! If you dont we can always work on learning! LOL Ive been divorced now for several years...not by choice. ( Im not real keen on my man having a girlfriend ) Its important to have a "friendship" to where we know each other and can communicate anything we may need to discuss. I think the best of relationships start out as friendships; and when I am ready..... I hope to find a man that can commit; understand and know what a "marriage" is suppose to be. Who will be trustworthy, honest, open, can communicate as well as listern.In other words ..talk it out!!! There is no fairy tale marriage..it takes work...not lets give up and move on, but lets look at what we can do to fix it and continue loving each other. NOT A QUITER! I hope I can find not only a friend, but a dance partner one day for life. I want what most every person in this world wants; to be accepted and loved for the person I am. I want the happy ever after, never ending love.....He is our there in this big"'ocean"! Ya just have to take that chance...... Happy Fishing! I guess thats something we can discuss...

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