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Marian, 48

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About Me

I like art, poetry, exercising my brain but most importantly I love to spend as much time with my two "grown" sons as they will tolerate! lol. I enjoy all types of music except bluegrass and heavy metal. The movies I enjoy watching are comedies, suspense/thrillers, some action adventures and of course chick flicks. I don't really care very much for science fiction movies or musicals but I will watch one once in awhile. I'm searching for an intelligent man who can stimulate my mind. I do maintain my own thoughts, dreams, desires and opinions. I was given a very good brain and I do intend to use it until the dementia finally sets in! Lol. I am seeking a good, HONEST man with an open mind and an open heart! I would really also prefer someone with a positive attitude!! I think a man with a great sense of humor is so sexy! I'm actually here looking for a TRUE friend first. If that friendship grows into something else then thats great if not at least I have a good friend. I'm a very loving, caring and passionate person and I miss having that special man in my life. I want to look at the man I'm with and know that he cares for me for who I am. I am NOT looking for a man to pay my bills or take care of me, I can do that myself. I don't have to HAVE a man in my life but I do WANT a man to share my life with. Most importantly I am a grown woman and I know how to treat my man! So if you aren't intimidated by a strong, independent and extremely passionate woman let's have fun together with no pressure from either side, just enjoy one another's company and see where it takes us. We can start with open, HONEST COMMUNICATION and build on MUTUAL RESPECT and GENUINE CARING for one another. "Sometimes the night seems so long...When you lying in bed all alone...And tomorrow seems so far away...I don't want to live another day this way...Scared to let someone in...Can't bear to get hurt again...But my body needs to feel a touch...Someone come and wake me up...I just want somebody to love me...I just need somebody to hold me...Somebody to love me"..."Don't want to let life pass me by...Never knowing what it's like...To be as real as real can be...To share my life and all my dreams...I just want somebody to love me...I just need somebody to hold me...Somebody to love me""Cause I'm hurt and I'm scared and I'm lonely...All that I want is somebody to want me...Cause I've got so much to give...I just want somebody to love me...I just need somebody to hold me...Somebody to love me"***I AM HUMAN! I have made MISTAKES! I will probably make more before I die. I do at least TRY to learn from them and TRY very hard not to repeat them! I think the reason why we make mistakes is to teach us the important lessons in life that we need to learn. Maybe I'm wrong maybe it's just *** stupidity but I'd like to think my suffering has been or will be for some greater purpose. ***I am NOT looking for one night stands nor am I looking to get married tomorrow! Can't we just start as friends and see where it goes? Just be HONEST about what you want! Is that really too much to ask? *** RACE ISN'T AN ISSUE! However, LACK of substance IS an issue! I don't deal well with NARCISSITIC people!*** PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME IF ANY OF THE FOLLOW APPLIES: • If you are a Convicted Felon • If you have NO Job (At least be looking for a job!) • If you have NO Car • If you have a drug/alcohol dependency • If you are ALWAYS broke • If you have an ISSUE with NOT being able to tell the TRUTH • If you have NO Cell Phone # To Give out • If there is ALWAYS going to be a reason why I can NEVER come to YOUR place • If you Just want a piece of ASS • If you are Into PLAYING mind games • If you LIVE with your "momma" • If you are NOT man enough to handle your OWN business • If you Have double standards when it comes to SEX! Come on guys get it together!!!***QUOTE TO LIVE BY: "It's easy to take off all your clothes and have sex. People do it all the time. But opening up your soul to someone, letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hopes, dreams......That's being naked!" Anonymous***People even if you consider yourself extremely good-looking YOU still need to possess a personality (preferably just one)! Multiple personalities are a little difficult to get to know when starting a new relationship. It would be difficult to discern which one you're dealing with at any given moment. Same goes for someone with any other uncontrolled mental disorders. If you are currently under the care of a psychiatrist and its not going well, it probably is not the best time to be starting a new relationship! Just saying!***Please! Please! Please! STOP with ALL the GAMES people! Just say what you are REALLY about from the beginning! We are all adults here and are too old to waste time with stupid games! Dating really shouldn't be so difficult! Meet for coffee or drinks and have an intelligent conversation and hopefully a few laughs! Get to know each other and see where it takes us. If the chemistry is there hopefully plan date #2!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Kikid

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 21-41

    Hi! My name is *** am never married spiritual but not religious caucasian woman with kids from Wichita Falls, Texas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Lucile

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I would love to find that special someone who gives you that butterfly feeling. Someone with no baggage or drama. He must enjoy PDA and be a great kisser. I am very attracted to more of a metrosexual guy...just my thing. I don't cook (might as well tell you that right away) but would enjoy cooking together. I don't have pets but like dogs. I have 2 boys aged 19 and 18 that live with me every other week but pretty much have a life of their own. I have an amicable relationship with their Dad hence no drama in my life. Well this is a start so if you'd like to know more send me a message. Please note I do not reply to anyone without a picture. Only fair!?? I DON'T GET IT! OR PICS WITH SUNGLASSES AND HATS ON...WOWUpdate #2: I will not reply if you don't have a picture so please don't msg me without one. A drink on a patio if weather permits. Italian restaurant is my fav so maybe meet for dinner.

  • Francisca

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    A work in progress... Love dorks, geeks, logical thinkers. SMART is sexy to me.I’m attracted to ‘extreme’ men.; the ‘now’ is required. I’m attracted to men who open doors, communicate with their family, are happy with the routine of a relationship, VP’s, Officers, Masters degree, boxing professionals, world travelers, professional speakers, amazing race contestants, big dog lovers, vulnerable, flag flying Patriots… Not average. I’m that girl who mails thank you cards, calls friends just ‘cause, volunteers at the shelter, wears heels and a suit to work, jeans at the ballgame, plans romantic weekends, packs a bathing suit for vacation, says “I love you” to my parents, reads a lot, learns every day, creates a Zen environment, stands up for the weak. Is feisty, passionate, strong libido, silly, goofy, is learning fencing and taking ballet, loves real plants, attends the arts. I’m first to work but know balance, LOVE mornings, HATE coffee, the color red is my favorite, singing loudly in the car, a leader, field hockey. I tell strangers if their behavior is bad, all the little things do matter, my east coast and Portuguese nature cause me to tell it like it is, perhaps explode, and move on. You want my attention, call me or meet me. Texting or *** my communication style. I’m into pictures and memories not jewelry. I’d prefer a simple meal but appreciate the work at Thanksgiving.I don't have kids, I don't want to make kids. Should your child(ren) cause you to rearrange an important date/event that we had set up... I'm not your girl. I'm in the belief that relationships with adults come first and relationships with kids come second. However, I LOVE kids, they love me. Auntie 22 times.Good luck in your journey.... Do not fear the Lestrygonians and the Cyclopes and the angry Poseidon. You will never meet such as these on your path, if your thoughts remain lofty, if a fine emotion touches your body and your spirit. You will never meet the Lestrygonians, the Cyclopes and the fierce Poseidon, if you do not carry them within your soul, if your soul does not raise them up before you.Then pray that the road is long. That the summer mornings are many, that you will enter ports seen for the first time with such pleasure, with such joy! Stop at Phoenician markets, and purchase fine merchandise, mother-of-; visit hosts of Egyptian cities, to learn and learn from those who have knowledge. To arrive there is your ultimate goal. But do not hurry the voyage at all. It is better to let it last for long years; Without her you would never have taken the road. But she has nothing more to give you. With the great wisdom you have gained, with so much experience, you must surely have understood by then what Ithacas mean.-K. P. Kavafis (C. P. Cavafy) Watching the sunset

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