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Ursula, 47
United States, Virginia, Springfield

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About Me

I actually am content and happy with my life. I have a great job...well...actually two great jobs. I work full time in health care...and teach at a local community college two evenings each week. Teaching is one thing I do to 'give back'. I had an amazing professor during my undergrad who made an huge impact on my life. In return, I am hoping to inspire someone else to achieve what they thought they couldn't and to hopefully make a difference in the life of another. I am looking for that one great guy. You know the one....he is kind and compassionate, honest, faithful, funny, adventurous. He loves to debate the issues of the day...stays up on current events....and has a soft spot in his heart for the issues that face our world. He cares about others.. lacks prejudice and arrogance. He is strong...gentle...educated....insightful. He loves to travel...from fast paced cities to secluded beaches to ancient ruins. He enjoys a great burger.....and a fine wine. He loves Indian's baseball...and hopefully OSU football.I'm going to get a little specific here and state that I am looking for a man who is a professional and who is financially stable. Simply because....I am both successful professionally and financially. I have found in the past that when I have been involved with men who do not have the same values/work ethic/education as I... the outcome has not been positive. It may simply be due to cultural issues and the concept that the man feels he s supposed to be the provider. I am well educated and am thankful for that. I work hard. I am the only provider for my family. I save. I invest. I spend and I travel. I fell blessed for all I have: my family, my education, my career, my home - the life I have been given.....As I said....I am really content with where I am in life. My hopes are to find a man to be my partner...my confidant...my friend...someone who will still be holding my hand and telling me he loves me when we are 90 years old. But the key for me is balance. Balance in my personal and professional life. I'm not looking for someone to 'complete me'...to be my 'knight in shining armor'....I'm looking for someone to come along side me...and walk with me thru life. All cliche....I know. But for someone to really be a part of my life...then allowing me to be who I am is really important... showing mutual respect for each other...equality...tenderness...all those things. I also know for a relationship to truly be successful...each partner has to make compromises....its a give and take. I've always stepped up to the plate and played the game fairly and with all my heart. I am looking for someone to do the same...the real deal...the love of my life....a true romance. I have no desire to settle for anything different.So...if you think you are that great guy....send me an ***'s chat! I can't wait to meet you!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Drawing / Painting Caribbean German Mexican Documentary Drama Golf Soccer / Football Collecting Spirituality
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  • Rhea from Springfield | Woman | 46 years old | Taurus
    Rhea

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    A REAL woman can make it on her own, but a REAL man won't let her.!!!!!I'd like to think I'm not your typical divorced Female.... I really do like/enjoy the married life..For One To Judge A Book By The Cover...Is To Be The FoolLife is short. Break the rules. Forgive quickly. Kiss slowly. Love truly. Laugh uncontrollablyNo interest in Comedy Clubs, I actually fell asleep in one. once... who does that!!!! And No, I wasn't drunk.. ;-))Hi Guys.... Let me start by saying Im 5'7 and I wear ***heels often!! So therefore im pretty tall. With that said I feel most comfortbale with a male that is min 5'***' Im sorry, I dont mean to be rude. I did not ask to be this height... you think its easy?. :-)).. now that I got that off my Chest... GUYS PLEASE NO PUCKER/DUCK MOUTH PHOTOS ..what is this world coming too.. Revised :; Please if you are going to do the infamous bathroom shot please make sure you clean your mirrors of all water and toothpaste grunge.. gross... Do you really think a girl is going to get back to you . First sign of a dirty messy guy.. not cool.. ;***also im not looking for a penpal nor do i have time to be chitchatting , texting amd *** day long.. and if thats what you like to do, then you are definitly not for me, because MEN/Gentelmen, dont behave like that,And I like Men not boys. And if you have that much time on your hands to play all day long thats not a good sign go find a job. Im just saying..Its nonsense.. dont be a hater.. Ok here we go.. Huge Heart, Great sense of humor, very caring, funny, Witty, Enjoys life, Enjoys family ..Oh did I forget to mention that I'm a GREAT cook and I live for good food, as well as entertaining guests.....Summer is my favorite season. Love Boats,love to ride horses..As for my Ideal match. ahhh ....I would like a real man not a boy!!!!one with a great sense of humor,LOYAL, huge heart, kind, fun, not to serious, can take a joke , and LIVES LARGE...One that takes pride in his appearance , dresses well, smells good..Takes care of his teeth. (FLOSS) These are some of the small things I look for But the most important thing is.. ONe that truely knows how to treat a Lady..as well as appreciates a female.. Oh yes one more thing, one that doesnt live by texing all day long.. ******PLEASE DONT ASK ME...what are you doing on this site? Im here... just like you are... thats all that matters. And I hope to meet someone wonderful, loyal and my best friend..I love to smile/laugh and watch others be happy.. "child like" zest for life type of Gal..I'm not going to sit here and say what every other person says when they join an on linedating site.. . I cannot believe I'm doing this... It's not me to do something like this. Well listen here we are and I guess we are all looking for somewhat of the same thing. Dating and hopefully to meet Mr or Mrs Right.. Its something to try so here I am. Of course you will learn the real me once we start talking .All this nonsense of describing yourself in words ahh its ok. But I like the real deal.. SO BRING IT ON Till we meet!!!! Enjoy and Good Luck .:PPlease please PLEASE for the Love of God.. Photos with your cat or dog kissing really dont do it for me..AND I DO LOVE DOGS....ALSO PLEASE KEEP YOUR SHIRT ON... And no, I don't have any tats!! Just a little nose ring... A date to me is not a walk on the beach, holding hands, under the sunset with a complete stranger.. Lets be real here.. come on.. ;-) Maybe meet a greet in the library...

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  • Patricia from Springfield | Woman | 49 years old | Gemini
    Patricia

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I have been blessed with 2 beautiful children who are grown and out of the house. Now I find myself looking for my other half. I am a positive person who believes a great relationship requires honesty, open communication, respect, adventure and passion!!! It's so important to let that special person know your thinking of them. It doesn't have to be in a big way. It can be in a note, a glance when you know what they are thinking ;) ...making their favorite dish, doing something for them that you know they don't want to do... etc...I think it keeps the love alive. I am a spontaneous person and have been know to plan last minute trips for fun...why not, you're not here to let life pass you by! So take a chance and let me know you're interested! ;o) I think first dates should be kept simple. I don't believe the guy should have to take you to a fine dining restaurant when neither of you really know if there is a spark. That's for date two!!! lol...Something fun where you both can engage in conversation to get to know eachother better.

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  • Shana from Springfield | Woman | 46 years old | Capricorn
    Shana

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I live by myself. I\'m a confident, attractive & comedic person. I do stunt work. I love food, movies: exercise. You should message me if you are: sexy, smart, fit and fun, we’ll find what to talk about!

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