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Mattie, 47

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About Me

Hi! Thanks for taking the time to read my profile. I am new back to the whole dating thing again. I'm looking to keep it slow, maybe just talk, see where our interests lie and take it from there. If a quick good time is what you are looking for then please just softly close the door on your way out.I am a professional who works hard and maybe works more than I should. But I like to be successful and am able to take care of myself. I am someone who likes just about everyone and likes to help people out. If you need something I am probably the first person who will jump in and help you out. I've been known to say "The Inn is Full" meaning I have had many "strays" at my house. I like to laugh and have fun. I do not like people who are grumpy all the time and sweat the small stuff. I hardly sweat the big stuff either as there is more in this life that you have no control over. However, if you have control you should do what you can to make things right. I have no patience for people who do not take working hard seriously. I don't care if you are rich but I do care that you at least try hard enough to live a good life and be able not to struggle on purpose. Or rely on someone else to support you. Honesty & Integrity is a must. I do not tolerate people who lie. That is the worst thing you could ever do to me.My favorite things are the smell of salt air and campfires - at the same time!!!! I love living near the ocean.. I love all types of music except rap. Lynyrd Skynyrd to Hootie and the Blowfish.I would love to meet someone who can bring out the best in me - make me laugh until there are tears in my eyes - or caring enough to wipe away those tears when they are sad - realize how much I need someone to help me be who I really am and be willing to help me get back to that fun person, and know I would always do the same for you. A man that is both in jeans and work boots one day but then can get cleaned up and dressed in a nice suit the next. Someone who cares I am on the other end of the phone, or text in the middle of the day that just says xoxo to let you know I am thinking about you. Someone you can just snuggle with for hours, kissing and nibbling, in front of a fire with a great bottle of wine, not needing to even say a word because you feel all that needs to be said. I am a hopeless romantic and love to romance and spoil someone.I love to give something to someone, a surprise, just because I know it will make them happy. That's just the type of person I am. Whatever.....whenever that happens..... It shouldn't matter

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rhonda

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hello, I have a full life, a huge family, friends and a career that i love. Just one thing is missing....I would like to meet a man who is passionate, self sufficient, fiscally responsible, and takes pride in his appearance, family, job and home. A team player...be driven, want to always do better, see things as possibilities, be positive and upbeat, as life is to short.I also like the simple things in life, skiing, walking on the beach, sunday mornings, riding quads, being silly, listening to my music and dancing like no one is watching.I am determined to be cheerful and happy, in whatever situation i may be: for i have also learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances........

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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  • Tracy

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    We are all pretty much looking for the same thing in a person.... Fun, romantic, humorous, open minded, responsible, fit, affectionate, nice looking etc... The difference being our individual definitions of these things we want and how they match up to you. Sometimes it boils down to just chemistry too. I am young at heart and looking for the same. I want to find my playmate in life. Once the newness has worn off and daily life starts to get in the way I still want to enjoy doing things with the person I am with. I am outgoing and sociable. I love a good gathering with friends and family, wherever it may be. I make the most of any situation I am in. I do like to workout and try to do so about 4 times a week... eating healthy is on the agenda but it doesn't always happen.Love a cold glass of reisling and like to try interesting sounding****ails. I am a total 80s girl when it comes to music.... With a little country thrown in. I'm affectionate. I will want to hold your hand.... Rub and scratch your back.... Hug and kiss you for no reason. I don't have kids of my own but am happy to accept and support yours and your relationship with them. I am very close to my siblings and their families. My two nieces are like my daughters. We spend a lot of time together enjoying ourselves. We are all flirts in some manner. I am sweet and tease. You may be witty and charming I love a good prank and can laugh at myself. A guy who can make me laugh is a big bonus. I love the great outdoors but hate spiders and will expect you to slay them for me I have a few quirks. When I chew gum I like to chew two pieces. I am not judgemental and I am open minded enough to accept your quirks. I have a professional job I enjoy. I have a happy work/life balance Things I find sexy... A guy in a ball cap..... Someone who calls you baby and knows why he is saying it... If you want to kiss me, just kiss me... I am more than this profile and my pictures. Would love to hear from you. I think a first date should be simple. Drinks... a get to know you and see if there is a connection and take it from there.

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