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Mercedes, 47

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To start things off here i would like to mention...If your pics are a more than 6 months old...( meaning if you LOOK in the mirror right now and look at your most recent pic on here and YOU can see a change, like we all do change lol ) or your currently separated ..or frequent the bar scene...Or nurse on an alcoholic beverage ***and yes guys i know there are women who possess these characteristics too lol ) just pass me on by please!!! LOL i do love to go dancing from time to time (bar) but im not a barfly (which has led me here to see whats out there)... :)....I'm just a good woman trying to weed out the bad to get to the good just like my grandma told me i would have to do yearssss ago when i was a little girl lol...so if this offends anyone..well YOU must be ONE OF THOSE IM REFERRING TO :):):). .now..if you have read all that and are still reading...Here's more about me :)I am an open minded person. (Really i am lol ) I'm an animal lover. I'm quick witted with a hint of fun loving sarcasm. Never beyond hurting anyones feelings. I'm compassionate and headstrong....and yet feel giddy when i see an old couple walking with canes on either side of them but in the middle they hold hands and laugh like best friends :) I'm an honest friend even when the truth hurts (when advice is asked).I'm passionate about life with a hint of being fiesty (maybe its the irish in me lol )..yet have had life experiences that have humbled me to my knees and put me in the perfect position to pray.. I am a woman of Faith and my OWN spirituality is important to me...God is first in my life. I pride myself on all these things and more.... I do consider myself a well rounded person enough i can fit and dress for any occassion that would arise....and don't mind if that occassion consist of playing in the dirt :) (ex. fourwheelers and such).... i am a single mom...( even though my kids are older) , i believe kids keep it real...and keep a person very young at heart.. I have been blessed with great friends and family..and most of all kids. I couldnt have done a better job had God let me pick them out myself :-) And i enjoy getting out and traveling..or cooking it up with friends...or a movie night on the couch with that special person :-) I enjoy people that are themselves..And yet have high regards to honesty and integrity.... I work in the health care industry...so im professional at work...but at home...im having fun always. I enjoy intelligent conversations..and feel if a man communicates WELL (and i do know its not in a man's DNA to communicate like women do..however the effort speaks VOLUMES :) ..i think that is sexy in a man and yet communication (in alot of different aspects) is the VERY BASES of a friendship and anything else that MIGHT follow.I dont feel that a person has to be muscle bound...but physical attraction is the first thing that happens...so i do like someone who takes care of themselves. I do "prefer" non smokers..for i am a non smoker as well..and some may think its harsh..but hey..health is very important to me :-) It's not so much WHAT you do...... cause if you have chemistry with that person, you have fun no matter what you do :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Angelita

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Sailing is my passion and I look forward to meeting someone who is interested in sharing some new adventures at sea. I keep busy on land as well, whether it be tennis ,aerobics, hiking, golf, skiing or just snuggling in reading a great novel. I have a collection of cookbooks from around the world....because I love cooking a meal that challenges my culinary skills. Hopefully, one day I can visit some of these countries & experience the "real thing".I find solace gazing up at the sky on a clear night....contemplating my place amongst the stars!Attitude is what defines a person ....it's not what happens to us... but how we deal with it. I try to see the glass "half full" and tend to take setbacks as opportunities to either learn or grow from. They say.."When one door closes....if you're looking clearly...in a positive way....another one opens." I am looking to open the door with someone who has a passion for living and the right attitude to find enjoyment in the things... that really matter!!

  • Gabrielle

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Greetings,First, I would like you to know I am pretty much an open book! I enjoy great conversation with good down to earth people. Nothing fake about me, I pretty much say it like it is. I have a AAS Degree and I am working on my BA. I have 2 dogs, both female labs that are spoiled and I have some cool hobbies. Music of all sorts is wonderful... it just makes the world a better place! I have some really great friends in my life and I enjoy keeping busy. I am a people person and judge no-one... I find that people do that for me! I am not a shallow or inconsiderate person. I am a curvy woman... so if you have issues with curves (it is exactly that... 'your' issue). I am NOT a skinny/thin girl; but I have it in all the right places! I have had a total knee replacement not long ago and I am looking forward to getting back in shape! As a result of that I sold my motorcycles and I am certainly looking forward to next season to purchase and ride again! I am very outgoing and enjoy life! I am confident! I want a passionate man, a man with out games/drama, an honest man, a man who knows what he wants and has goals. PLEASE be man who is EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE and HONEST! I am looking for friendship before anything else. A relationship (in my vision) starts by being friends and finding like interests. Let's have coffee or maybe a drink.Hey... you can never have to many friends if nothing else. A relationship with the right person is certainly an option for me... I am not a needy person and wanting to rush in to anything. This is why I list myself as casual dating for now. I want to take the time to find someone who can bring 50% to my world... so I can bring the other 50%. Working on a long term relationship must be with a person who is worthy of the effort (hey, it works both ways... I will need to bring it too!)Please note that I am not in to married men, or men that are currently in a relationship. If you are currently seperated, I will be asking questions, only because I need to make sure you are currently emotionally available. Hey, I have walked down that road myself and it is a hard path to get down. I am not a player and I refuse drama of any sorts. I do not tolerate lying, disrespect, users or DRAMA! (did I mention I don't do drama...lol) I don't need it and it is to much energy to waste when energy can be put in to enjoying the good things in life! I am a confident person and really seem to connect with most people. I am just looking for that 1 special connection. I desire a person who WANTS to be around me, who WANTS to talk, WANTS to engage in activities.... not a person who NEEDS me for any of these things... but WANTS me to compliment them as a whole... not NEEDS me to get them through there day... I understand a bad day...or even a bad week; I know these things happen and I can help with these things.. I am an excellent listener and want to hear how your day went... and I do understand that everyone has a bad day from time to time... but everyday can't be so negitive... so find something positive to talk about once in awhile. A person who is comfortable with being around the things I enjoy... my friends and family, my dogs and sharing my world too. I am an awesome person to get to know and even more so once you get to know me. I will never be formed into something people want me to be... I will always be who I am... creative, spontanous, outgoing, outspoken woman who just wants to enjoy the positive things that life has to offer... after all... it is what you make it. Thank you for reviewing my message and photos, I am a fun girl and available. Enjoy!

  • Deanne

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Bright eyed and bubbly nature girl seeks her masculine match!It's a Wonderful Life! That's my favorite movie and (most of the time) that's truly how I feel about my life. I am blessed with work that I enjoy and that supports me, family and friends who I cherish, and a house and garden that I love. I think my friends would describe me as a good listener, who is also very well spoken, a confident, upbeat person, and a caring and giving friend.A typical Capricorn, I am ambitious, hard working, cautious and practical. I have high standards and I love the finer things in life, but I also love to cut loose and have fun! I feel as comfortable in an evening gown on a cruise ship as I do in muddy jeans in my garden, and have been in both this past year! I feel in life that Attitude is (almost) Everything, and hard work goes a long way. I strive to be positive and kind in thought and action every day.I am a strong, modern, independent woman who loves old things - antiques, old houses and old fashioned respectful people. I expect to be treated with respect and like a lady always and won't accept any less. Although I'm a strong woman who can and does support and take care of myself, it doesn't mean I don't want a strong man in my life who can and will be there for me and take care of me too. I love the outdoors and am passionate about birds and gardening. I own a charming old house, that is actually in pretty good shape, that I am constantly working on, or having work done to. When I am in "my happy place", that usually means I'm in Lowe's buying something for my latest home or garden project. Other activities that I love include Cross Country Skiing and Kayaking. I bought new touring ski's several years ago, and I also bought a Kayak that I can lift and transport to the lakes by myself. So, as you can probably tell, I am no couch potato and I'm not looking for a partner who is. That's not to say I don't enjoy a quiet evening inside watching a movie, or sitting in front of a fire with a glass of wine, but I am generally a person who likes to get out and do things.My other passions are music and travel. I love many different kinds of music from Rock to Country, Alternative to Ska and Reggae to Jazz. I recently started taking drum lessons once a week. I love it and look forward to practicing and hopefully getting better and better.I love the Finger Lakes Region, and I really enjoy spending time at the lakes kayaking at a friends cottage, or going to the wineries. I love cooking, (and being cooked for!), eating, and trying different wines and even different beers! Traveling is another passion and I try to take several trips per year. (So if I don't respond right away I might be away!) I am looking for a partner who has similar passions and a compatible lifestyle. Eating healthy is very important to me. My partner must be healthy in mind, body, and spirit. I have no room for negativity, addictions, or any type of controlling, dishonest or bad behavior in my life. The only type of drama I enjoy is on the screen or stage. I would love to find a strong, confident man who has his act together and who isn't all about himself. Someone who loves to be active outdoors, but who also appreciates the arts and enjoys some of the finer things in life. Someone who is genuinely interested in me and my life. He should be smart, funny, adventurous, spontaneous, and thoughtful with a generous spirit. I am looking for someone who is physically and emotionally available. Above all, he must be honest, positive, respectful and kind to myself and to others. Is it too much to hope for? Being the positive-minded person that I am, I don't think so! Could you be the one I'm looking for? The first date could be anything, anywhere, but it should be low key. Coffee, lunch, drinks after work, a stroll on Market Street, etc. It should be somewhere that we can talk and get to know each other.

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