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Bright eyed and bubbly nature girl seeks her masculine match!It's a Wonderful Life! That's my favorite movie and (most of the time) that's truly how I feel about my life. I am blessed with work that I enjoy and that supports me, family and friends who I cherish, and a house and garden that I love. I think my friends would describe me as a good listener, who is also very well spoken, a confident, upbeat person, and a caring and giving friend.A typical Capricorn, I am ambitious, hard working, cautious and practical. I have high standards and I love the finer things in life, but I also love to cut loose and have fun! I feel as comfortable in an evening gown on a cruise ship as I do in muddy jeans in my garden, and have been in both this past year! I feel in life that Attitude is (almost) Everything, and hard work goes a long way. I strive to be positive and kind in thought and action every day.I am a strong, modern, independent woman who loves old things - antiques, old houses and old fashioned respectful people. I expect to be treated with respect and like a lady always and won't accept any less. Although I'm a strong woman who can and does support and take care of myself, it doesn't mean I don't want a strong man in my life who can and will be there for me and take care of me too. I love the outdoors and am passionate about birds and gardening. I own a charming old house, that is actually in pretty good shape, that I am constantly working on, or having work done to. When I am in "my happy place", that usually means I'm in Lowe's buying something for my latest home or garden project. Other activities that I love include Cross Country Skiing and Kayaking. I bought new touring ski's several years ago, and I also bought a Kayak that I can lift and transport to the lakes by myself. So, as you can probably tell, I am no couch potato and I'm not looking for a partner who is. That's not to say I don't enjoy a quiet evening inside watching a movie, or sitting in front of a fire with a glass of wine, but I am generally a person who likes to get out and do things.My other passions are music and travel. I love many different kinds of music from Rock to Country, Alternative to Ska and Reggae to Jazz. I recently started taking drum lessons once a week. I love it and look forward to practicing and hopefully getting better and better.I love the Finger Lakes Region, and I really enjoy spending time at the lakes kayaking at a friends cottage, or going to the wineries. I love cooking, (and being cooked for!), eating, and trying different wines and even different beers! Traveling is another passion and I try to take several trips per year. (So if I don't respond right away I might be away!) I am looking for a partner who has similar passions and a compatible lifestyle. Eating healthy is very important to me. My partner must be healthy in mind, body, and spirit. I have no room for negativity, addictions, or any type of controlling, dishonest or bad behavior in my life. The only type of drama I enjoy is on the screen or stage. I would love to find a strong, confident man who has his act together and who isn't all about himself. Someone who loves to be active outdoors, but who also appreciates the arts and enjoys some of the finer things in life. Someone who is genuinely interested in me and my life. He should be smart, funny, adventurous, spontaneous, and thoughtful with a generous spirit. I am looking for someone who is physically and emotionally available. Above all, he must be honest, positive, respectful and kind to myself and to others. Is it too much to hope for? Being the positive-minded person that I am, I don't think so! Could you be the one I'm looking for? The first date could be anything, anywhere, but it should be low key. Coffee, lunch, drinks after work, a stroll on Market Street, etc. It should be somewhere that we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lana

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Life is rich and beautiful, and I think enjoyed best shared. Although I do well with alone time, I'm a pretty outgoing, social creature. I have lots of friends who are super nice, deep folk. I love community. I hail from the East and miss my family and friends residing there. I'm interested in wellness, nutrition, and fitness in all areas, including emotional and mental fitness. My rivers run deep and I don't fear the shadow. And still, I like to have fun, and would love to be with a man who makes me laugh :)I'm interested in the environment, personal growth and spirituality, basing in beauty, being peaceful, community, friends and family and having fun!update: Just saw Jason Mraz at the SB Bowl! He's my new fav. Have you listened? First meeting or first date? Are they one in the same? Let's go with first date... so many options! Maybe an outdoor cafe for coffee or vino. Head to the lake and rent a kayak. We could go to Farmer's Market and sip lattes. Go for a little forest walk or walk on the beach. Take a dance class together and laugh a lot! Go to a lecture or workshop on spirituality/personal growth. Or a kirtan. Or a yoga class. Go get pedicures or foot rubs. An outdoor concert. Or volunteer together somewhere. Or a new, fun idea you have :)

  • Wanda

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    High energy lady looking for my knight in shinning armor. I love riding: horses, Harley's, bikes etc. Anything we do outdoors is good for me. If it involves water, snow, or sand......bonus points. I am very grounded, centered and caring. I refer to myself as a lady because that's what I am. I practice "do no harm" on a daily basis. Don't get me wrong....I can and will get down & dirty if the need should arise. Have skills too! Absolute honesty is a MUST for me, no slack in this department. Can't construct a solid foundation when you are using bricks of bs & untruths.......just sayin....that's where I'm *** I also mentioned: high energy.....been referred to as a hurricane before. But not in the destructive bad way....more like can accomplish amazing feats for one woman! Nothing is more important than my kids; so please understand that from the get go. Not likely to change. MUSIC: very important element of my life. Gotta have it! I'm a believer that music can heal your soul and dancing helps it soar to the stars! I like all kinds of music, except rap (is that really music anyways? sorry! rappers....its only an opinion). My favorite: reggae/world, least: jazz. I like gardening, lawn care & generally growing things. Don't like talking about myself or photo's. I'd rather listen and take the pics! ;-) Hope that's enough for now. Thanks for stopping by.; Good Morning. I just wanna say that while I have met a few really nice men on this site......I am not into a texting relationship. If all you wanna do is send texts back and forth for days on end without meeting face to face......you're not the one for me. I need to hear your voice, see your face, feel your vibe. Pretty simple. Mahalo easy! coffee, a drink, a walk along the beach. as you wish!

  • Gabrielle

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Greetings,First, I would like you to know I am pretty much an open book! I enjoy great conversation with good down to earth people. Nothing fake about me, I pretty much say it like it is. I have a AAS Degree and I am working on my BA. I have 2 dogs, both female labs that are spoiled and I have some cool hobbies. Music of all sorts is wonderful... it just makes the world a better place! I have some really great friends in my life and I enjoy keeping busy. I am a people person and judge no-one... I find that people do that for me! I am not a shallow or inconsiderate person. I am a curvy woman... so if you have issues with curves (it is exactly that... 'your' issue). I am NOT a skinny/thin girl; but I have it in all the right places! I have had a total knee replacement not long ago and I am looking forward to getting back in shape! As a result of that I sold my motorcycles and I am certainly looking forward to next season to purchase and ride again! I am very outgoing and enjoy life! I am confident! I want a passionate man, a man with out games/drama, an honest man, a man who knows what he wants and has goals. PLEASE be man who is EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE and HONEST! I am looking for friendship before anything else. A relationship (in my vision) starts by being friends and finding like interests. Let's have coffee or maybe a drink.Hey... you can never have to many friends if nothing else. A relationship with the right person is certainly an option for me... I am not a needy person and wanting to rush in to anything. This is why I list myself as casual dating for now. I want to take the time to find someone who can bring 50% to my world... so I can bring the other 50%. Working on a long term relationship must be with a person who is worthy of the effort (hey, it works both ways... I will need to bring it too!)Please note that I am not in to married men, or men that are currently in a relationship. If you are currently seperated, I will be asking questions, only because I need to make sure you are currently emotionally available. Hey, I have walked down that road myself and it is a hard path to get down. I am not a player and I refuse drama of any sorts. I do not tolerate lying, disrespect, users or DRAMA! (did I mention I don't do drama...lol) I don't need it and it is to much energy to waste when energy can be put in to enjoying the good things in life! I am a confident person and really seem to connect with most people. I am just looking for that 1 special connection. I desire a person who WANTS to be around me, who WANTS to talk, WANTS to engage in activities.... not a person who NEEDS me for any of these things... but WANTS me to compliment them as a whole... not NEEDS me to get them through there day... I understand a bad day...or even a bad week; I know these things happen and I can help with these things.. I am an excellent listener and want to hear how your day went... and I do understand that everyone has a bad day from time to time... but everyday can't be so negitive... so find something positive to talk about once in awhile. A person who is comfortable with being around the things I enjoy... my friends and family, my dogs and sharing my world too. I am an awesome person to get to know and even more so once you get to know me. I will never be formed into something people want me to be... I will always be who I am... creative, spontanous, outgoing, outspoken woman who just wants to enjoy the positive things that life has to offer... after all... it is what you make it. Thank you for reviewing my message and photos, I am a fun girl and available. Enjoy!

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