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Janet, 46
United States, Puerto Rico, Mayaguez

Offline, last seen Sat, 21 Mar 2026 09:53:04

About Me

I do have photos and hide them from time to time. My friends would say that I am loyal ,honest,giving,very outgoing ,fun loving,humorous,spiritual and big- hearted woman. A people person. I am a Big Kid and I hope to stay that way until my last breath. I am not afraid to speak my mind and do believe in Karma. God gave me a voice and I am not afraid to use it. You only live once so why not make the best of the one you have. My children are my greatest accomplishments in life and make me smile daily. I am very blessed. Not to mention the fresh breeze,sunsets,smell ,fresh seafood and sand beneath my feet,.. I have been told that I am a very strong and deep women . However, I also have a very sensitive side as well. I Love to laugh and feel that laughter is truly the best medicine.I haven't really dated much and this is very new to me, I will not ***!I am not in any rush to be with someone it will happen when it happens. Essentially I am looking for a friend first and then who knows what God has in his plan.I am a lover of all music except Hard Rock . I am not really into the night club scene however, I love to dance.. I enjoy exercising regularly ,dancing, going to see the Braves and the Falcons,sitting next to a crackling fire indoors or out, The water, nature,the rain,a good thunderstorm ,candles ,the sun, music, red wine, baking, cooking, playing in the kitchen and getting my hands dirty in the yard. I am just as comfortable in a dress as a pair of jeans. I enjoy the finer things in life as well as the simple ones. I believe everything is beautiful in its own way. I am me and that is all I can be, I love the rain and nature and all it's beauty. Physical attraction and chemistry is important.It would be nice to meet someone who knows how to treat a Lady , is fun , humorous,active and a lover of the outdoors is a plus. Someone who knows how to treat a women . Someone who takes care of themselves and is not insecure with who they are, is debt free ( but not mandatory)with no games or drama would be nice as well.! Someone who means what they say and says what they mean. No players,games ,drama or insecure men need apply. I would like to find my best friend ,lover and soul mate. A confident man with a since of humor who is outgoing ,loving and giving..I guess you could say that I want it all .. Hmmm... I once thought I had found this, but I was so wrong. He thought the grass was greener on the other side . With that being said, Communication and honesty is very important to me! Without it in any relationship you have nothing! I am me and that is all I can be.. I am not a mind reader and don't pretend to be... To old for head games and Life is to short!! I would like to meet someone who can come take my breath away and be my Happily ever after. I love this... HONESTY AND COMMUNICATION IS A MUST!!! THE PURPOSE OF RELATIONSHIP is not about finding someone to play house with. It is not about satisfying a social agenda of adulthood and getting a ring on your finger because it is what is expected of you. It is not about hoping to find that mythical someone who will show up to fix everything that is wrong in your life. It is not even about avoiding loneliness. It is about finding someone you can truly RELATE to, GROW with, MAKE MISTAKES with, COMMUNICATE with, SHARE common values and ideals with, and LOVE unconditionally."The purpose of relationship is not to find completion, but to share your completion. Not to find joy, but to share your joy. Not to find happiness, but to share your happiness. If you are in your 20's or 30's and I am old enough to me your mother or if you are looking for another notch in your belt, Please don't waste my time. I have met a few selective men on this site and have seen a few of my male friends on here as well,they are not at all who they portrayed themselves to be... I have noticed that they are seeking exactly what they have let go of with a few of my friends. I don't get it!! So Please Be Real, I Am!! IF YOU HAVE MADE ME A FAVORITE, Could you please send me a few lines and let me know why..Being a single parent I tend to be a bit cautious, if you know what I mean. "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the number of moments that take our breath away."Life is about trusting your feelings and taking chances, losing and finding happiness, appreciating the memories, learning from the past, and realizing people change."If you would like to know more..Ask me If you try to IM me and get know answer, don't get your feelings hurt...Just because it shows I am on line doesn't mean I am... I have a smart phone and it is not always so smart. Thank you for taking the time to read my small novel. hahahahahaPS. I do not need, nor do I want photos of anyone half naked or indecent!If you want to meet me then you have to talk to me. ;)****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Greek Indian Irish Vietnamese Comedy Family & Kids History Bowling Tennis
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