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Shawna, 49
United States, Puerto Rico, Mayaguez

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Aha, caught you looking! This is a long profile, but hopefully it will prove useful to you.(I feel like a bit of a yo- How soon, I really couldn't say.)The *** I have a lot of passions. My steady sense of wonder and awe is what makes me feel alive. I like hearing a good bass line on the highway with the top down, I talk to my cats (who couldn't care less), and I live for good cackles with good friends. I love the look of a trim man in a t-shirt and jeans. I like letting a salamander climb up my arm (but can you be the one to take the spiders outside?), and I tend to jump in the ocean when I spot any dolphins. I dig discussions/Scrabble in diners, but prefer to read books and write letters outside. I have a huge music library and love something from most every genre (ok, no yodeling, sorry). I've got a nice evening gown...got a tux, anyone?In terms of how I am in relationships, I'm open, and I do talk about stuff when it comes up, cause I'm no mind reader and I don't expect you to be! But I don't want "the talk" every five minutes, either (yikes!). I'm emotionally vital but am analytical and philosophical about things. Shy underneath, I have an extroverted style, and I put people at ease. I try my best to understand rather than judge others. It just seems to work better to accept and be curious about others rather than to wait for them to meet our personal expectations, right? I'm holding out for the right intellectual, emotional and physical chemistry. I'd love to meet someone who's observant and curious and can find the humor in most situations. He's healthy and fit, understands himself very well, sees the value of sharing his feelings, and has a sound moral compass that jives with my own. Like me, he likes his space and doesn't require someone to complete him or to "always be loving life" (I keep seeing this here: do people really expect this? Are we all living on the same planet? Life is complicated!). A love of nature and innate kindness are also way up there for me. Oh, and I want an equal who gives a great foot massage (don't we all?).Please have recent photos, and only contact me if you are single, widowed or fully divorced, having had enough time to heal...please do your own thing, but we will not be a match. Also, if you are looking for "your princess" or someone to spoil, well let's just say I am not right for you at all! First, I tend to prefer a couple of ***, then to speak on the phone and see whether we want to meet. Then maybe something casual, non-pressured, maybe a walk by the water, coffee...no etchings right away, though, please >:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Salsa Museums Caribbean Italian South American Spanish Drag Racing Golf
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