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Alfreda, 45

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Ok hobbies? Hmm...well..finding as many moments of joy as I can in a day, that’s my full time hobby....Love creativity and creative thinking!!! Love the water..swimming, scuba diving, body surfing...esp love warm tropically water! Love running, dancing, yoga!, skiing, horseback riding, hikingetc....just playing outside!I looove movies! Love art...soo appreciate most any unique artistic expression.Im a big sucker for love...that i see or witness anywhere.One of my main goals for this life is to learn to love REALLY well. And Love love LOVE laughing...Ok.. Here it is- If laughing and cuddling with someonethat I love were a hobby, THAT would be my favorite! :))! I find most people and things interesting and love an adventure--.. or just going along for the ride to the grocery store (not sure why that feels like an adventure to me...but somehow..like a puppy, it does :)I'm a happy person and feel tremendously grateful for so much... for the people...and events and Grace in my life.I am blown away by the grace that continually, so lovingly, guides my life.I love God and that love fills my heart and guides my life daily, but I am much more spiritual than religious.Yes, it's true I am a yogini but I eat meat and love a good BBQ! :)Love just hanging out with and being playful with friends and family.Love working with friends, creating projects that have the potential of reaching and uplifting millions of people. I seem to be forever coming up with a new idea or invention and have patented two of them. Must be the blond thing… maybe we have thinner noggins.... ideas floating around just might permeate more easily.? :)I adore children and animals and if you have them or want them, that's a plus. With those I love, I am completely devoted and loyal, very caring and very affectionate. Love to hold hands, snuggle and caress and just be 'in touch'. Music?...Love all kinds..(love to dance!!) hip hop, rock, pop, mo-town, country, jazz, classical and music of other cultures.But I think my favorite music of all are the sounds of nature....sounds a little corney as I read that back..but it's true!I am not sure what makes me unique?.. Well , my friends tell me thry love me cuz I'm fun, witty, "sweet as pie", caring, and extremely devoted. People close to me often say they feel completely "seen" and loved by me (That makes me happy). I think I'm pretty quick, perceptive and wise... and yet rediculously silly with the heart of a child. The qualities I most admire in men are first and foremost, kindness… towards everyone... Even when no one is watching. Kindness is my favorite quality in anyone actually. Kindness and courage...especially courage of the heart...Love can be scary... a man who is strong enough to reveal his heart...melts me.I respect and admire a man who is generous and a protective provider A man who knows what he wants and goes after his dreams..and of course, I love a man who is romantic, attentive and devoted. I love to be receptive and appreciative and available to the man I love.Day in and day out...I'm happiest with a man with whom i can laugh easily with, who can be playful and have fun doing just about anything or nothing together.All this being said, I cannot Believe! the number of sentences that I began with 'I'....this thing is waaaaay too long and reads like a fifth grader!Are there editors for this sort of thing? Help!!! I, I, I need one! :)*****Hugely important-I need to add to this a disclaimer: I am not 45, I am 52, and very happily so. This profile was set up several years ago.. then I was in a relationship ..and then icame back. My pictures are all current, however you cannot change/ update your age on this site?! I apologize for the misrepresentation. At some pt. I'll set up a whole new profile..just don't like spending more time on a computer than I have to. Also.. I am looking for someone close to my own age as ultimately, I think that would feel more fun and comfortable.**added note: the lovely men I've met from this site say that I am prettier in person than these photos.... I guess thats better than it being the other way around. :)**ps- If I don't return your message, it's not that I don't think you seem like a wonderful man, it's just that I don't feel we would be a 'fit'Thanks for visiting!:)I wish you the Best life ever!!Wendy The first date... Really anything.. a tea or a walk ..just an easy way to say 'hi'. If we knew each other more and liked each other! :)... .. a fun date would be a tucked away cozy little spot where we could snuggle in a booth... a picnic under a tree...or driving to a little country town, having lunch and walking around laughing and kissing.I like a guy that likes to be physical and athletic during the day and then dress to go for a lovely dinner and evening out.That being said, probably what I love most are the nights in...curled up watching a movie with you. (That's where the "best friend I love to kiss" part comes in.)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Irishred

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-49

    We spend so much time wondering if we are good enough to meet someone great or have a friend that both could enrich our lives. If you know who you are for sure then, you know your own worth and never compromise those things who make you who you are. It is called character. I am not interested in games, scammers, or anything that is demeaning to me. So, you you want a real conversation with someone who is genuine then let's chat.

  • Lawanda

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    .No I don't spend every hour of the day on this web site, I have the app on my phone and I don't log out..lol..Yes I am separated , have been for a few years ... i am 44 yrs old i have 2 girls who live primarily with me, they are ***. Now that they are getting older they don't need mom around as much so i get to get out more..AHHHH! I work out a few times a week, really like taking that time for myself. I enjoy a night out listening to live music,I listen to all types of music, have recently found that i really like country music :), meeting up with friends for a drink, going out for some good food and hopefully alot of laughs. I am not someone who needs to be on the go all the time, i am just as happy to spend the night watching a movie or curled up on the couch with a good book. I would love to meet someone who is honest, caring ,affectionate, someone who can make me smile, and hopefully i can make you smile :) I love a harley, what better way to spend a sunday..riding out east to Claudios. camping(tent) . have always wanted to go tubing down river in PA. Have bungee jumped..have been in a glider 2x..want to experience life. I am not looking to date a bunch of people, really just want to find 1 nice guy. Please if you are married don't message me and if you are under 35 yrs old i am not the 1 for you. Have a Great Summer :)

  • Lakeisha

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Describing myself….ok...here I go!I think that if you were to ask my close family and friends, they would most likely tell you that I'm a very sweet, genuine and caring individual, full of mercy and compassion (which probably can be a disadvantage at times...yeah, I have a hard time even killing an ant!). But overall, I would consider myself to be a very warm and outgoing individual - always trying to be considerate of people’s thoughts and feelings, making them feel welcome and comfortable in my presence. I can't say I'm a very guarded individual when it comes to getting to know someone, but I’m more of an open book - I’m not afraid to share my thoughts or feelings, my strengths and weaknesses, successes and failures, as I believe openness and honesty are the keys to success in any relationship, whether old or new.I've learned too that it's important to give thanks in ALL things. While life can sometimes throw some serious punches, and I’ve experienced a few, I believe we were created to overcome them all. Life-changing events can ultimately set us on a path that we may otherwise never have taken, and I’ve found that it's in those times that we need to trust that there's a greater purpose ***where we are awakened, in a sense, to endless possibilities - good ones, if we choose to believe!I love the outdoors and welcome fun adventures – whether it be biking, hiking, sight-seeing, traveling to unfamiliar places or going for a Sunday drive. I love walking my dogs, working out, hanging at the pool, barbequing, playing cards or corn hole with my friends, and I absolutely LOVE the beach (any place with water, sand and sun = fun in my book). I love the holidays too ....something about the closeness it brings between people of all faithsAs far as what I’m looking for in a mate: my desire is to be with someone who keeps a positive outlook on life, one who can carry an intelligent conversation, someone who loves to laugh and doesn’t take themselves too seriously and can find humor even in tough times. Someone who is emotionally grounded in who they are as an individual and can accept others for who and where they are in life. I've learned that you can't give what you haven't got, so if you haven't got love, you certainly can't give it away. I desire a man of faith who lives a life of integrity, who actions are congruent with his beliefs and who won’t sacrifice his values in order to meet "the need." I want a man who is patient, responsible, loving, kind and affectionate, and not afraid to show it! But above all these things, I desire someone whom I can share my walk of faith with, as I believe that when God is at the center of any relationship, everything flows as it should.Hoping to find that special someone to journey through life with as two is definitely better than one! Coffee. Lunch...let's make it simple!

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