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First of all, I did not select anything for Body Type because none of the choices are descriptive of me. I am Curvy!Also, I put that I don't smoke, but I smoked in the past and have switched to e-cigs! LOVE THEM!Ok now that business is out of the way...Ultimately, I am looking for My Soul Mate! (as described below) However, I've been doing a lot of thinking lately about my life and my future. And when I am free of this situation, my Acting Career will be my main focus!Plus, I've never been a fan of living in the cold weather up here; and I would like to live in a place where I can have flowers blooming in my yard all year around...rather than having them destroyed each year by winter.Then again, my family & I guess I will wait until the time comes to make that decision. It will mostly depend on where the majority of movies are being filmed at the time!So where does that leave me in my search for My Soul Mate???I want to go out on dates and have fun and enjoy life, but am I still looking for My Soul Mate? Is it wise to start a "relationship" with someone here if I may be leaving in a few years? I certainly don't want to hurt anyone by my leaving, including myself.However, if he IS My Soul Mate, wouldn't he want to move with me? Or should I not even be looking for him here? It couldn't be someone who has children here because I would never expect anyone to move so far away from his child/ren for me.So anyway, there's some random ramblings from my mind! L! I guess I'm not sure what I'm looking for here/now.But I do know that I would like to go out on dates! I don't want to put that part of my life on hold for years, regardless of future plans.Plus, this woman has needs!)So I guess if you don't mind going out with someone who is as confused as I am...I'm available! L!And here's what I had on my profile before:I cannot be summed up in a paragraph...I am multi-faceted...like a Diamond!I am looking for my Sun to Shine on me and reflect all of my beautiful colors!!! =8)I am a Movie Actress, a Fashion Designer, an Artist!I am looking for a meaningful relationship.I am looking for My Soul Mate---THE ONE to love who loves me. THE ONE to live my life with, laugh with, play with...I am focused on finding THE ONE!In an effort to save myself time and anyone who is reading this both time and possible hurt feelings, I have included below a description of My Soul Mate.If you meet this description, I would love to hear from you! We can then get to know each other better and find out if we are indeed Soul Mates!If you do not meet this description, you are not the one I am looking for. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I am just being honest. I wish you the very best of luck and hope you find what/who you are looking for! =:)Now for the description (and explanations, if necessary)...MALEMy Soul Mate is a man. However, I am bi-sexual and attracted to women as well. I am willing to be with only one man (if you are into men too, that's cool with me), but I would like to occasionally include women in our sex life. If we find someone that we are both attracted to and that person is interested in us, that would be perfect! If another woman (or man) is included, it would have to be a situation with all of us. If I am not included, I feel it is cheating, and I would NOT be ok with that. We can discuss this further in person if you make it past here and the rest of my description... Also, please know that Bret Michaels (should the opportunity arise) is MY "clause in the contract"! L!AGEAge is just a number! No one can change when they were born! Age is not important. I have dated people my own age, people younger and people older. What IS important is maturity! Age and maturity have ABSOLUTELY *NOTHING* to do with each other. I have known young people who are mature and older people who are immature. My Soul Mate will be mature...regardless of age!LONG HAIRWhile I certainly know there are plenty of good looking guys with short hair and even some with their heads completely shaved, I have ALWAYS been attracted to long haired men! Basically, if you look like you were in an 80s Hair Band...YES! If you WERE in an 80s Hair Band...HELL YES!! If you look like Bret Michaels...PERFECT!!! If you ARE Bret Michaels...F**KING PERFECT!!!!!!!!! (And what took you so long? I've met you many times! L!) All joking aside, my Soul Mate will have long hair! It can even be past your a**! I promise I won't even be jealous if yours is longer than mine! L! Hair color is not important (though I mostly find myself attracted to blondes) as long as it's long! L!*UPDATE*I may have to forgo this requirement as apparently, there are no long haired men left on the planet!I guess if I see a guy who has long hair, I'll know he's THE ONE...cuz he's the ONLY one with long hair! L!*********THE INSIDE STUFFThis is the hardest part... I could probably go on FOREVER listing attributes I'm looking for... I'm not even sure where to start... I guess I'm looking for the male version of me! Plus some extra stuff I might want and need in my life!Here goes...Intelligent (LOVE having deep intellectual and philosophical discussions!), Kind, Caring, Considerate, Thoughtful, Romantic, Spontaneous, Adventurous, Wild, Imaginative, Creative, (Love Musicians...must be the Actress in me!), HONEST, Open, Communicative, Ambitious, Sweet, Silly, Funny, Comical, Crazy (in a FUN way, NOT psycho), Hard Working, Takes Pride in Self and Work and Everything...I guess that's a start! If I think of anything else, I'll add it...All of these things are just like ME!Like I said, I'm looking for the male version of me!I also want to add that I am an EXTREMELY *HONEST* person. I am straightforward and *NOT AT ALL* into lies and games and bullshit. I expect the same from anyone who contacts me. If you cannot be COMPLETELY HONEST, keep moving on because you are NOT for me! (Not trying to be mean...just being honest!) I would like our first date to be going out to dinner, having drinks and talking and getting to know each other better.From there, I am open to whatever--a movie or dancing or...whatever we decide!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Colette

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I like the simple things in life and am ready for new exciting adventures. Fun, loving and full of life with the right person. I have a huge heart. I'm getting more involved in volunteering with my navy league in my area. I am very family oriented and treasure when we're all together!I love being outdoors in the summer only. I play any sports. I keep myself in shape and workout at home. Life isn't about the image, it's about the heart in the body. I would love to find a friend that could turn into more. Taking things slow. Do what you say. Treat me like you would like to be treated also. If you're looking for just a "fling" don't even message me. I'm at an age where I'm looking to hopefully get into a great relationship and not just get drinks and have a good night. If thats your intention keep fishing!!!. Don't be with me also until the next best thing comes along! Get to know me for who I am! Just being honest about things! Gotta put it out there! and please post pictures of you "NOW" not years ago Tired of 50 first dates lol Don't take advantage of my heart! I'm a very nurturing kind of person. I don't want another child. I'm looking for a partner. So lets get on this new path and see where it takes us Love is a risk, do it anyway! First DateFor a first date I would say meet for a drink. Get to know someone and what they're all about. Chemistry is very important as well as communication. Simple! Lets have lots of laughs and great company! Communication isn't a hard thing to do! Keeps from having drama and I think it makes people appreciate one another more :)

  • Therese

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    My friends & family would describe me as outgoing and funny. I absolutley love to laugh, and find so many things in life funny. I am told I am very easy to talk to & fun to be around. I am very close to my family. My mother and father have been married for over 52 years. I feel they are a terrific example of what a good relationship should be. I have an older sister, who has 2 children. My niece is 14 and my nephew is 11. You will often find me, at one of their many sporting events, being the "doting" aunt. I do love attending pretty much any sporting event. I just don't understand guys who do not like sports. I like my guy.... to be a guy.:) I have been a Dental Hygienist at the same practice for over 17 years. I have seen it all and heard it all. Since I have been there for 17 years, I am very close to so many of my patients, and that is one of the best parts of my job. Although, much to my parents dismay, I didn't do much with that degree. LOL Absolutley love the summertime, and love being anywhere near the water. But, I can also hang in any good dive bar, with the right guy. My taste in music, is all over the place. My ipod, could be that of a teenage girl or a 65 year old man LOL. I love old school 70's,( still have my 45's ), 80's, Sinatra, And the list goes on and on. Anything else, all you have to do is ask. Going for a drink. Does not matter what the venue is, as long as you are with the right person, anywhere is fun.

  • Clara

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a die hard Cubs and Bears fan. I am not into drama or playing games. I am the kind of girl that likes hang out and have a few laughs. I enjoy doing things outdoors, going to see a good movie, and going to sporting events. Surprise me. You make the plans.

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