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Shelia, 43
United States, Michigan, Livonia

Offline, last seen Wed, 08 Jul 2026 17:57:13

About Me

I'm currently a full-time student, mother, and employee. My life is full - but, one thing is missing - my soulmate. Yes, I believe he's out there somewhere.In my closet, Harley boots, Cowboy boots, Heels, Flats, Flip Flops - I like almost everything. My iPod is the same - a little bit of everything. However, my favorites are Pink and Sugarland. I couldn't find my soul-mate, so I bought my car.:) I don't have to worry about fitting the car-seat in the back (I tried when kids were little - it didn't work). I read on here somewhere - "when you find the one, it will be like breathing" - it will come naturally. I hope I find that one day!I come off shy and "reserved (so I'm told)" at first. I'm not the talk your head off type - I like to have fun and just take a little time to get to know me. I'm a bit old-fashioned, I like for the guy to make the first move. That doesn't mean I won't - just sayin'...I don't like shirtless pictures. If you're in a swimsuit being normal that's one thing, if you're in the bathroom posing, that's another. I am not here for a hook up, so if that's what you're looking for - keep looking. Really, I'm surprised at all the guys that are here just for that.I really try not to judge people because I've only walked in MY shoes. I'm just looking for someone who does the best they can with what they have and wants to be the best they can. For people who require no drama - I've never met anyone like that. I have friends who have all the $ they could wish for and people who live one day at a time - everyone has drama - it's called life. However, choosing to participate in drama is sometimes a choice.Today, I am content with being single. I don't prefer it, but I'm okay with it. Happy hunting. Of course, public place. Dinner, coffee...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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