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I recognize that I alone hold the key to my own happiness. But life is sweeter when you have someone to share your adventures with.A little about me:If I could, I would stay in school indefinately because I love learning. I have three degrees (two in environmental studies and one teaching degree) I love to be active. I like the element of play in my physical pursuits. Some of my activities that I love most dearly are, rock climbing, skiing, scuba diving, cycling, dancing(ballroom and Latin), and camping. Of course its not practical to pursue all of these activities all the time, so I spend quite a bit of time at the gym near my house as well to maintain a base level of fitness. I struggle to take interest in television, but I really appreciate a great movie. I love to travel. I travel to Europe(I have family there) and the Carribean most frequently, but I would like to travel out of my comfort zone some time in the next few years.I'm vegetarian, but I realize this is a personal choice. I dont want to push my views on anyoneI play classical and acoustic guitar, flute and love to sing, although I haven't been putting as much energy in those pursuits as my heart asks for lately. I have an underused baby grand piano in my living room that would love to have more attention. I classify myself as spiritual but not religious, as I find myself at home both on retreat in a monastary and during Zen Buddhist meditation practice. I literally do both. I believe there are as many valid spiritual paths as there are people.I'm comfortable dressed up for a night of dancing in heels, but I equally feel comfortable dressed down for a day of hiking. The last two books I have read were "The Wise Heart" by Jack Kornfield, and Eckart Tolle's "The Power of Now", however I appreciate great fiction too. The last fictional book I read was "Not wanted on the Voyage" by Timothy Findley. I am happily and amicably separated, and well on our way to an amicable divorce. We get along well, and we coparent our children effectively - this is something I am very proud of. I have fabulous children who live mostly with me. Two are at university, so essentially I have two left at home part time.What am I looking for? Someone with enough common interests to bond over, and with enough difference that we can learn from each other. Someone who values family, in all its diverse expressions. I would happily date someone who has children and is actively involved with their lives - I think the quality of a man can be seen in how he treats his children. In summary, someone who reads the above description and feels like we would be a great fit.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shay

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-56

    Hi! My name is Shay. I am never married agnostic caucasian woman without kids from Denton, Texas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    What am I looking for?? Seems to be the number one question. So that u dont have to ask or wonder...I'm looking for that guy!!!!!I have two great kids. ***I love to travel. I work hard and play hardThis is my second time on here so let me clear up a few things. First things first if ur in here to get "action" pass me by not gonna happen til i know we have a connection and its giung someplaceSecond. If ur not over ur ex or not ready to be in a real relationship making time to see each other again pass me by.Third and most important..I don't do drama..I'm not one of these crazy chicks who use mean or line them up one for each night of the week. I like my free time and guys should have there own time but if urbtime is so limited that all u can do is text me everyday again not interested.Real relationships take time and effort and if u put effort into it. I will give back twice as much to you. But don't be fooled I know wjat real and what's not.I'd u skipped reading th above. Ill sum it up..I'm a greatt girl looking for a great guy who knows what he wants and isn't affraid of loving and being loved.Good luck on here. .there r plenty of fish in the sea but don't settle for less then u want and deserve!!! Coffee or dinner. I like a man to make the move

  • Deann

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am a bubbly person. Like to laugh and act crazy bcuz life is too short to not be yourself. I like singing, love all kinds of music and like to do things outdoors. I don't like to be bossed around bcuz I am a very independent girl and don't need another dad, I need a friend to have fun with and hang out with.

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