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James, 39
United States, Florida, Port Saint Lucie

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I have three kids. My boys are 13 and 11. My daughter is 6 and I have full custody.You want to meet me then you need to be able to handle my lifestyle of me being a full time mom. If not.... well thanks for viewing my profile, but move on by. I am full of spunk! I love to have fun! I can be sarcastic and I can be sweet! I am looking for a long term relationship with a guy who believes in honesty, trust, faithfullness, and being a team! I believe in full respect for each other and each others feelings! Being able to compromise! Always willing to talk about whats on your mind! Do not keep things inside for I can not fix what I do not know is wrong! Discover the similarities and respect the differences! If you make a promise...keep it! If you give your word... do not go back on it! If you mess up... admit it and accept the consequences! If you must lie... lie next to me every night! If you must steal... steal my heart! If you must cheat... cheat death every chance you get! Always cuddle and be affectionate! Never walk away mad and never go to bed mad! Always work out your arguments and never *** other! Give compliments, laugh, joke, wrestle, and play! Comfort each other in sickness and in hardships! Stay a team no matter what challenges life throws at you! Things are not always going to be perfect! It will be one hell of a roller coaster ride! You will go through things to make you scream and cry! And things that will make you laugh and smile! But hand in hand and heart to heart you will make it through! So link arms with me and let's enjoy the journey! let's grow old and grey together looking back on every moment with laughter and a smile and say.... WE MADE IT! Soul mates are those one in a million people who have the perfect chemistry. They know what makes their partner cry and they know what makes their partner smile. They bring joy to each others life because they see the best in each other. They are each others voice and strength. They have immense faith in their relationship and they stand firmly together in the toughest of times! The beauty of arelationship is that although you don’t agree on many things you still crave to be together. Despite all your fights on silly things you are so crazy about each other. You have different tastes for everything but you are so utterly passionate about each other. You are two different personalities but so in love with each others soul! I truly believe you find someone who can completely turn your world around, You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more, You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you, When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement, They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself, Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful, There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around, You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they truely love you for who you are! Love is about being firmly together for many reasons and through various seasons. Love is giving everything to your relationship to strengthen the bond. Love is not just about dating and having fun together. Love is all about saving your relationship from rough patches of life and standing tall through all the tough times!It is so easy to take off your clothes and have sex!People do it all the time! But opening up your soul to someone, letting them in your spirit, , your thoughts, your fears, your future, your hopes and dreams! That is being naked! I want somebody to share the rest of my life with.! To share my innermost thoughts and my intimate secrets. Somebody who will be by my side to support me and in return get my support. Somebody who will care for me passionately with every thought and every breath. Who is not afraid to admit they miss me! Who knows I am not perfect but treats me as I am! Somebody who couldn't imagine losing me and gives me their heart completely! Who says I LOVE YOU everyday and proves it! Who would not mind waking up to me every morning and see my wrinkles and grey hair but still falls in love with me all over again! A lot of relationships fail because physical appearance is priority and not the character of the individual! Meet out for Dinner or drinks and see if we have a connection!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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