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Aisha, 44
United States, California, Norwalk

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....and this is the type of mate that I am seeking, first and foremost (tall, dark, and handsome would be icing on the cake)! Are you kind to /mindful of others, the environment, and yourself? If so, then please read on...Seriously....the fact that someone hacked my account and posted HER pictures up *** mine (and proceeded to talk completely trashy and dirty to men posing as me) is more than just bit scary, but I have a few loose ends to tie up here before exiting this web-site forever . I had a very well-thought out and detailed profile written....exactly what I am looking for and what I can give in return, but the thought of re-submitting that kind of energy to possibly get hacked AGAIN is beyond me at this point, so here is the short version: I am a loyal, honest, lovely, poised woman seeking an HONEST, kind man. Tall would be wonderful, as I am 5'***and like to wear heels. Bonus points of you are a great cook:) Love anything outdoors , but also enjoy snuggling and smooching with a movie indoors. Looking for someone local to SB county and VERY respectful with high integrity. Thanks!Happy fishingNamastePs. Here is an excerpt from the creator of POF's greeting message. Just had to share (LOL) , see below :The more effort you put into finding someone, the more likely you are to find someone. On average it takes about 7 dates with different people until you find your match. If you are lucky you will meet your perfect match on the first date, but for most people it will be by about the 7th date. Now there are of course ways to speed this up. If you are actively looking to meet someone, go on dates with people who say they want a relationship. Most people who don't want a relationship will actually put it in their profile. Update* ***...Please don't take this personally, but I'm not interested in a chat/text/e-mail relationship. I am sure that every man (or woman, keeping this gender neutral) who IS interested in this type of arrangement has plenty of valuable things to say, but I am an "eyes are the mirrors of the soul" type of person and believe that chemistry can only be gauged by meeting face to face. I am seeking SERIOUS inquiries only, meaning that if you can't forsee taking ***hour out of your life to meet for coffee after a BRIEF amount of logistical/ practical banter, then I'm probably not your gal ....thank you in advance for respecting (see first date description). Coffee, tea, a drink....even if we don't "click" on a romantic level, I've had the opportunity to meet someone new and unique, so never a waste of time from where I'm standing;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Jazz Rap Adult Adventure Romance Baseball Golf
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    I recently perfected walking and chewing gum at the same time, took years of practice but it was worth it. I enjoy repeatedly lifting heavy objects... if I have to translate you can stop reading here... I love the gym, I am there most days. You don't need to be cut or shredded, but you'd better know your way around the weight room. If I can curl more than you, it's a deal breaker. Oh, by the way, if you tell me you are Mr. Sensitive, into philosophy, pilates and a vegetarian, I will puke. I don't want to puke, I just ate. You are a man, you think about one thing, how to get it, when to get it and where to get it. All women know that, you're not fooling any of us. Obviously, I need sarcasm and a smartass personality to keep up with me. :-) I like hiking, camping, skiing, movies, cooking, board games. I can go from tiling a bathroom floor to wearing heels and little black dress for a night out. I have kids who keep me busy as well, but you won't meet them anyway because you might be a psycho stalker, so don't even ask. I like most kinds of music, live music at local bar is always fun. I also like a night in just relaxing and watching movies, almost anything from Tommy Boy to The Notebook... yup, you might have to watch a bunch of chick flicks, but we can watch Caddyshack, too... once... see, it's all about the give and take.I'm supposed to talk about my goals and aspirations... not sure what other major task to tackle after that walking and chewing gum thing, that kind of exhausted me. I think I'll rest for a while. If I have to tell you what to plan for a first date then we are already off to a bad start ... for Pete's sake just google first date ideas and surprise me. Not too complicated. That's why google was invented, well... that and the one thing you guys think about, but that's a 4th or 5th date topic.

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    A few things from the get go, to save us both time......if your not taller than 5'9...and/or if you're just looking for a quick encounter, I AM NOT the woman for you. This isn't personal, I just know me. I could go on about all my likes and dislikes, but when it comes down to it, all of that will not tell you what meeting each other will.....if there is chemistry. Besides, if you look at all the different "chemistry tests" on the site you're bound to get a good idea if there's an interest or not. If there's a mutual "first" attraction between us then let's meet and take it from there. Life is too short! Meet for a drink and see where it takes us.

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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