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Aisha, 44

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About Me

....and this is the type of mate that I am seeking, first and foremost (tall, dark, and handsome would be icing on the cake)! Are you kind to /mindful of others, the environment, and yourself? If so, then please read on...Seriously....the fact that someone hacked my account and posted HER pictures up *** mine (and proceeded to talk completely trashy and dirty to men posing as me) is more than just bit scary, but I have a few loose ends to tie up here before exiting this web-site forever . I had a very well-thought out and detailed profile written....exactly what I am looking for and what I can give in return, but the thought of re-submitting that kind of energy to possibly get hacked AGAIN is beyond me at this point, so here is the short version: I am a loyal, honest, lovely, poised woman seeking an HONEST, kind man. Tall would be wonderful, as I am 5'***and like to wear heels. Bonus points of you are a great cook:) Love anything outdoors , but also enjoy snuggling and smooching with a movie indoors. Looking for someone local to SB county and VERY respectful with high integrity. Thanks!Happy fishingNamastePs. Here is an excerpt from the creator of POF's greeting message. Just had to share (LOL) , see below :The more effort you put into finding someone, the more likely you are to find someone. On average it takes about 7 dates with different people until you find your match. If you are lucky you will meet your perfect match on the first date, but for most people it will be by about the 7th date. Now there are of course ways to speed this up. If you are actively looking to meet someone, go on dates with people who say they want a relationship. Most people who don't want a relationship will actually put it in their profile. Update* ***...Please don't take this personally, but I'm not interested in a chat/text/e-mail relationship. I am sure that every man (or woman, keeping this gender neutral) who IS interested in this type of arrangement has plenty of valuable things to say, but I am an "eyes are the mirrors of the soul" type of person and believe that chemistry can only be gauged by meeting face to face. I am seeking SERIOUS inquiries only, meaning that if you can't forsee taking ***hour out of your life to meet for coffee after a BRIEF amount of logistical/ practical banter, then I'm probably not your gal ....thank you in advance for respecting (see first date description). Coffee, tea, a drink....even if we don't "click" on a romantic level, I've had the opportunity to meet someone new and unique, so never a waste of time from where I'm standing;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I like spending quality time with my lady, I believe in trust, I\'m not the jealous type. I\'m looking for someone who will not hurt me. I promise to enjoy everything about the person.

  • Monique

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hi welcome to my profile. i have done this before and am back so i must be doing things wrong so i thought a little change would be nice.I have 4 amazing kids who are my world. The youngest is with me all the time.I enjoy playing soccer and I also coach. I lead a fairly active life and try to stay fit with walking and exercising. I have a wide variety of interests including photography, music and the outdoors.What i am NOT looking for is: -a one night stand-someone to move in (that takes time)-drama, games or control freaksWhat i AM looking for is: -a GENTLEman (don't confuse with gentleman)-preferably has children-only drinks on special occasions- does not do drugs of any kind-is active and fit or at least tries his best-has their own interests and may share some of mineWhat you will get in me is: -strength-independance (with a hint of stubborn)-a great BS filter (I am a mom)-great morals and values-sarcasm and humourI am an open book so if anything has caught your attention please send me a message. If I don't respond its because i don't believe we are compatable. A nice walk would be nice. Something that gives us a chance to talk and learn about each other.

  • Krista

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am down to earth, honest, kind, trustworthy, easy going, motivated, silly and helpful.I believe that relationships are built on mutual trust, commonalities, respect and equality. There must be passion, honesty, compassion, understanding and compromise. I love classic rock, new rock music, classic cars and bikes. (not yr typical woman) I'm intelligent, cool, cute, fun, and adventurous also love to please the one I love.Love a great sense of humour, people that are creative and like conversations. Looking for someone unique who appreciates the small things in life, and realizes their importance in a relationship. I'm low maintenance and no drama looking for the same. As a Libra/Tiger I do like the finer things and need order and balance. Inwardly and out. Interested in taking things slow, getting to know a person before jumping into anything heavy. Not too into partying or drinking, once a weekend is enough for me ;-)work out at the Y, walking, dancing, gardening, and helping others get things done. UPDATE: K I didn't want to do this... seems I must, interested in Caucasian men, between 5'5" min. and 6 something, in good physical shape, with teeth and hair lol... If you send a message and I don't reply in a few days then I probably won't, seems that saying your not "my type" seems to piss some off and if I don't reply then guys get pissed off too... so damned if I do and damned if I don't... sorry If I have added you as a favorite then means I am interested and hoping you will say HI .. if not after a week then I will delete u and not bother u again. CHEERS & HAPPY FISHING"Players only love you when they are playing"... so stay away players!! Been in this big pond a few years ago, hoping to find my soul mate, (some of u guys need to update yr pic's, you know who u r... lol) First meeting is not a date, just a meeting, coffee or a drink, perhaps a walk by the waterfront.The date can be arranged once we both agree to see each other again, figure out the first date arrangements together. lol

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