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Phoebe, 40

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About Me

Simply put, I'm complicated. I have two teenagers, full time, and both have very busy lives. I have a full time job, as a preschool teacher for special needs children... :) I have several pets, a house, a car, and commitments.... The pictures are current. What you see is what you get. I'm not thin, drop dead gorgeous, or rich... But I'm happy.Dad wanted a boy, but was blessed with two daughters, so I've been raised to take care of myself. I know how to change a flat tire, unclogg a drain, and rewire a lamp (after the cat chews thru the cord). I own tools... and not the creepy pink set they sell at Walmart. I love puzzles, reading, and lots of other stuff, just ask.I'm a fighter. I've survived cancer, a bad marriage, and an even worse divorce. I refuse to judge you based on my ex. There are good men out there. I know, my dad's living proof. And through all this, I've discovered that I'm stronger than anyone gave me credit for, including myself....I enjoy my life, but I miss having someone to share things with. I don't need you to complete me... I'm fine the way I am. I'm finally happy, and just looking for someone to add to that happiness. You don't have to impress me. I can hold my own in just about any social situation, but I prefer "simple"...). Rocking chairs, porch swings, sweet tea, ice cream, holding hands, counting stars, catching fireflies.... Simple.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Patrice

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm fierce, loyal, silly, sensitive, creative, irreverent, with an incredible sense of humor..... I love to laugh and be happy;WHO I'D LIKE TO MEET: You're funny, passionate, affectionate,intellectual, you love animals, you're grounded with no current severe addictions, afflictions of the heart or mental *** need prompt medical attention. You're honest with your emotions but don't wear them on your sleeve. You can keep up with me and perhaps slow me down when needed. LASTLY, I want an intelligent best friend that can endlessly list what they want; and I want to be one on that list? I think it’s intoxicating when somebody is so unapologetically who they are!I'm a lover of beauty, in all its forms... art, in all its forms... I'm a lover of life and its colossal potential... I love the simple things in life...coffee, my dogs, the smell of suntan lotion , fast cars, good friends, music, quantum physics, weekend trips, boxing, intelligent conversation, concerts....I just want to be happy and share my life with someone that can enhance not "complete" me..I'm really good at Sniffing out bullshit..(so don't even try it), singing, throwing a party, and living life to the fullest....The truth is that the most important day you will experience is today. Making today your masterpiece is the key to success. Everyone has the power to impact their life. The way to do it is to focus on today. Today is the only time you have. It's too late for yesterday and you can't depend on tomorrow. So seize the day...I'm looking for someone that knows how to have a good time and will enliven my life with that vital force of what the ancient significantly called "Amor Fati" (the love of challenge).UPDATE~..Someone got into my account and changed my geographical location a couple of times apparently...sorry for any confusion... Somewhere with a great escape route...;)

  • Eleanor

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Young, attractive, intelligent professional who loves to laugh and still believes in true love. Looking to actually go out, make friends first have a little fun and see what happens..No time for DRAMA....looking to enjoy all the wonderful things this life has to offer. Optimistic in nature. After all life is way to short not to! Let's be honest we all want to be loved, accepted and appreciated by that special someone When the chemistry is present I love affection...holding hands, hugs, snuggling and kissing..I am independent, own my own home and car...have a great job and don't need someone to pay my bills nor am I looking to pay yoursCheers!Happy fishing!MARRIED, SEPARATED, OR ATTACHED MEN, please don't even bother!***update You don't have to be in church every Sunday but, I would prefer someone with Christian values. Would also like to find someone who enjoys country music and either knows how or is willing to learn to dance...cheers' Lunch, ice tea or a glass of wine somewhere we can get to know one another...and see if there is chemistry

  • Earline

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    SORRY..........UPDATE!!! I just HAVE to put this..................RACE IS IMPORTANT to ME......maybe not to others........but didn't want you sweet gentleman to waste your time writing...............ONLY WHITE/Caucasian PLEASE!!! NOW on to bigger and more important stuff! OOOHH just had to add one more thing....Please lordy if you have a belly that sticks out and looks like you need to lose a "few" pounds and Im just being nice about that....good golly Miss Molly....you need to NOT put Average.....what in the world........LOOKIN TO MEET A REALLY SWEET GUY WHOs In SHAPE ......I repeat IN SHAPE....or at least has one....Man there are some huge dudes on this site who think they are AVERAGE.........if you see that a lady is in shape and small why would a big fat ugly bald guy write to her.......good gracious.......Im sorry but I love taking GOOD care of myself and staying FIT ....people ....come on....... Cant change the age on here....My Girlfriends put "71".......I was born in "61"........sorry!! I have a great life and had a great upbringing. HONESTY, compassion, and kindness were strongly taught! I have a strong passion for living and a deep love for family!! I am ready in my life to find that special person and enjoy some adult communication with, and just have someone to enjoy some time with. I am looking for a really great guy who loves life like I do!! I am a very hard worker and have always strived to maintain a good life. I have always had great jobs that led me to be more financially stable and only depending on myself. I really want to meet someone who has had a little bit of the same way of living that I have. Work hard to have good things! I also take really good care of myself and stay active an healthy love being fit............I hope this next paragraph doesn offend................but here goes...............I usually like chatting with all who write...........but if u are bald, OVERWEIGHT, UNEMPLOYED, LAZY..hello then you probably are not compatible with me. WE ALL know what we want and dont want.. ....I hope u understand! ==) First dates are usually awkward............so talking on the phone and communicating a little before the first meet would be kewl! After that................lets see! =)

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