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Josefina, 45
United States, California, Redwood City

Offline, last seen Mon, 05 May 2025 04:13:21

About Me

So, they say that you have to meet ***people to find the one. I am up for the challenge but hoping that it doesn't take that long. Please go back & reread that first line, I did say MEET, and not SLEEP WITH . . . I am not looking for a "friend with benefits." Don't get me wrong, I love affection, cuddling and PDAs, but when it comes to intimacy, I would rather share it with someone that I care for, love & respect. I would hope that you would want the same. What ever happened to good old-fashioned dating & actually getting to know someone?I don't think that looks are everything; however, I do feel that there needs to be an initial attraction to each other. Those far away pictures or with a group of friends that I can't figure out which one you are don't cut it, and I definitely will not respond to a profile that doesn't have a picture. I also believe that a good personality and a great sense of humor can make an average guy very handsome; so no, it's not all about looks. Not everyone has a type, but I do have a preference for someone that is taller than me with darker features (hair color/eyes, not ethnicity).--I have a Drink Passport, Bucky Book & Entertainment Book so there are plenty of new places (& old favorites) to try. I'm not looking for anything serious unless, of course, there is an undeniable chemistry, then I'm willing to take a chance to see where it goes. All great relationships must start as a great friendship first!I am more of a homebody than a bar fly and consider myself very low-maintenance since I prefer to wear jeans, comfortable shoes, and very little makeup. If you are looking for a barbie doll that paints on her face, wears high heels, short skirts & low-cut shirts, you'll need to look at other profiles because that is not who I am. I have a quick-witted sense of humor & like to laugh.; Molly, Rules of Engagement, & They make relationships look so fun & easy. Oh, yeah, and I haven't missed a season of the Bachelor/Bachelorette. I'm not sure why I watch since they rarely stay together, but I get a kick out of all the drama--women can be so catty. I'm very close to being "catty", but it's not what you think. Just ask me, then I know that you continued reading my profile even after being shut down in the first paragraph . . . I'm so proud of you! ;; UW sporting events (boys & girls basketball, volleyball, football). Growing up, I played sports year round: volleyball, basketball, track & field, softball. Now, after a few sports injuries (ok maybe they are aging ailments, but sports injuries sounds so much better, right?), it's more about socializing & getting out to meet new people and maybe some day "the one". First meeting: Meet for a drink & a game of darts, cribbage at the Union? First date: Dinner. I like just about anything: Chinese, Italian, American, Mexican.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Nascar
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