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Luella, 42
United States, California, Redwood City

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About Me

Well for starters, I'm a nurse, a Christian, and a single mom of 2 (almost grown) kids. The older they get, the more time I have and I would like to find someone to do things with and have fun. I am looking for long term and would eventually like to get married, however, those things take time and I'm in no hurry. I want to take my time getting to know someone, what they like, and how we click. I'm very laid back, optimistic, drug / addiction free, outgoing, attentive (like to give and receive), happy, responsible, funny, and I like to enjoy life. I don't need someone to complete me, but I want someone to compliment me and enjoy life with me. I'm not interested in anyone who is just looking for hook-ups or casual sex (although sex is very enjoyable with the right person). In addition to this, I'm not interested in anyone who is jobless, married, separated, addicted to anything, depressed, Bipolar, and is not seeking the same type of relationship I am. Life is short, I know what I want, and I won't settle. I love to conversate w/ someone who is intelligent and has a sense of humor, I like to do most outdoor things, grilling with friends / family, movies (in or out), anything involving the water (I am scuba certified and would love to do that more), hot tub w/ a glass of wine, most music, walking / hiking, dancing, singing (didn't say I was good ) kissing w/ someone who enjoys it, and I'm always open to new ideas. Other questions? Ask, I'll tell anything ya want to know :) Somewhere quiet with a glass or two of wine where we can talk and really get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Metal Cycling Watching Movies English French Greek Italian Korean Drama Martial Arts Mystery Watching Sports
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