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Luella, 42

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About Me

Well for starters, I'm a nurse, a Christian, and a single mom of 2 (almost grown) kids. The older they get, the more time I have and I would like to find someone to do things with and have fun. I am looking for long term and would eventually like to get married, however, those things take time and I'm in no hurry. I want to take my time getting to know someone, what they like, and how we click. I'm very laid back, optimistic, drug / addiction free, outgoing, attentive (like to give and receive), happy, responsible, funny, and I like to enjoy life. I don't need someone to complete me, but I want someone to compliment me and enjoy life with me. I'm not interested in anyone who is just looking for hook-ups or casual sex (although sex is very enjoyable with the right person). In addition to this, I'm not interested in anyone who is jobless, married, separated, addicted to anything, depressed, Bipolar, and is not seeking the same type of relationship I am. Life is short, I know what I want, and I won't settle. I love to conversate w/ someone who is intelligent and has a sense of humor, I like to do most outdoor things, grilling with friends / family, movies (in or out), anything involving the water (I am scuba certified and would love to do that more), hot tub w/ a glass of wine, most music, walking / hiking, dancing, singing (didn't say I was good ) kissing w/ someone who enjoys it, and I'm always open to new ideas. Other questions? Ask, I'll tell anything ya want to know :) Somewhere quiet with a glass or two of wine where we can talk and really get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    What I'm looking for... I would love to meet someone who is honest, kind, considerate of others and can really make me laugh. Someone that loves to travel, stay busy, and has a love for children. I love the outdoors (camping, fishing, hiking, beach, swimming scalloping, anything outdoors!) and being spontaneous, staying active, playing volleyball, going to sporting events and catching a movie every now and then... There are also days I look forward to just staying home, cooking an amazing dinner and cuddling up on the couch with a glass of wine. (Even better with good company!) I do have children and find myself being very protective and particular about who will have the honor of meeting them. But I don't want to keep them from growing up without the experience of what real love is supposed to be like. So, yeah, I guess I'm looking for someone who's tired of playing the dating game and is ready to settle down with the right woman. (even if she does already have children) I have a lot of great, wonderful friends that would describe me as a wonderful mother, an honest, trustworthy, fun loving, God fearing woman. I guess you'll have to be the judge! I love to laugh at myself although I can recognize there are times to be serious. God has a plan for each and every one of us... And through my divorce I've come to realize that he is in control of everything and I have so much to be thankful for... If I've sparked your interest give us a chance to meet in person and I promise not to disappoint. Hope to meet you soon.***I feel like, at this point, it's time to add a little bit more information about myself to help eliminate waisting any of your (or my) time. I do have five children, all from my ex husband. So, if this deters you in the slightest, this probably isn't going to work. They are absolute blessings and will one day be able to share their bright personalities with the one lucky enough to meet them. I'm back in college full time studying for my RN now. I'm also running a little jewelry business on the side so I can continue my education, make ends meet and take care of my kids. I drive an old van but it gets me from point A to point B. A brand new vehicle just isn't on my priority list at the moment. So, to wrap things up, I don't have a lot of money but I have a big heart, I have my priorities straight, I accomplish my goals, I have a great sense of a humor, I know what I'm looking for and what I want out of life. And most importantly, I won't disrespect you so please show me a little respect and move on if a relationship isn't what you're looking for. I understand that it will take trial and error to find the right person but fitting one night stands into that equation just isn't my style. Okay! With all that said, I hope this gets a little bit easier!! :)No secrets here and I have nothing to hide... Diving into each other's personalities is the most important part of any first date, in my opinion... If there's no immediate connection there shouldn't be a huge waste of time or money. If we can make it to date TWO, then maybe we can discuss our options!!!

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am definitely looking for the one in my life that God has sent to me. I am looking for someone who will not judge me on my past because I have one. I am not that person anymore and am a much better person because of my past!!! I am spontaneous, out going, funny, etc. I am very open minded and want someone the same. I am looking to meet someone on a social, emotional, mental, and physical level. Communication is a must!!! I have to say that I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a very giving person. I want someone who will not take advantage of me or take me for granted. I do not want a one night stand!!!! So if you are looking for a hook-up pass me by. Also, I do smoke but not a lot. I am trying to stop smoking. Maybe all I need is that special someone to help me to quit!!!

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm not really sure what I'm looking for but know what I'm not looking for. Have opinions but value others. Responsible and sassy. Have lived, loved, laughed and learned. If you want to know more, ***

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