SIMILAR PEOPLE
on 377 reviews
-
VirginiaOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
At this point, just want to hang out and have some fun. If it becomes more, great, if not, no big deal. Just to be clear though,; I want to be in a real, committed, loving, long-term relationship but I understand, you must have chemistry and "date first" to see, if they're the right one before taking the next step into a relationship. I don't believe in using people or leading them on and don't want any man that would be willing to do that to me either. We are not children and honesty should be a given. I'm ready to enjoy life with someone and hopefully find that rare, special love, that everyone dreams about. I'm willing to give it my all, you must be too! Not here for FWB's....you can find that anywhere, nothing special about that. Please be upfront about your thoughts and/or feelings. I will respect you for it. Even if you tell me, "Thanks but you're not what I'm looking for in a relationship"....I will appreciate it. You just saved us both a lot of valuable time. I'm not snobbish or rude but I don't have time to reply to every message and when I did reply with a polite, "No thank you", I started receiving hate mail and men wanting to argue their point. FYI: If I wasn't interested before, I'm definitely not, after something crazy like that...I don't understand the concept of convincing someone you are right for them. I respond to those profiles or messages that capture my interest and ONLY I KNOW WHAT CATCHES MY ATTENTION. Of course, physical attraction is first but it requires a lot more to keep my attention. Looking for my own perfect combination...not perfection, because none of us are! Which includes; chemistry, looks, respectful, sense of humor, personality, morals/values, substance too. I prefer to keep a SMILE on my face and enjoy life! I am mostly a fun, loving, very social & outgoing, kind-hearted, sweet, strong, happy and down-to-earth woman with the intent to keep as much drama, away from my life, as possible. My life is not perfect and I've had my share of issues over the years so I worked very hard to cut out drama-filled people from my life. Don't get me wrong, I am very supportive of my loved ones and I know that in today's World, a lot of us have to deal with the Ex's concerning children, etc. I understand that but If you have continuous drama with Ex's/old girlfriends who are constantly calling and texting with all their issues or acting as if you're still together....Stop right here. I'm not the one for you. I raised my 3 children as a single parent; 2 are adults and out living their lives, and I have 1 teen son still at home. Also have 3 grandchildren. Yes, I'm a Grandma (still sounds odd but I love every minute of it, haha!). ***I can NOT have more children but have no issues being with a man who has children and treating them as my own. I love kids and family is extremely important to me. Family is always first! How a man interacts with his family is VERY important to me. My family is very close including parents, siblings, kids, cousins, etc. Although I have a big heart, I am not a pushover and have a very stubborn side too. I was raised as an Army Brat so I've experienced a lot of the world and I'm very adaptable in most situations and settings. You will probably never see my mean side but I assure you, it exists, lol! I'm definitely an outspoken and opinionated woman so if you prefer the quiet, soft type...we are probably not a good match.I spend most of my time working and with my family. My youngest is at the age, where it's not much fun to hang out with Mom anymore, so I find my free time has increased. When I have free time away, I'm out and about with my friends enjoying lots of things like; dining out, local hotspots, dancing, riding on the back of a Harley, live music, movies, shopping, shooting pool, museums, concerts, festivals, the parks, the lake or beaches in FL, etc. I love flowers, yard work (it's very relaxing and peaceful), hiking, bicycling, picnics, camping, cooking out, canoeing or even just sitting outside on the porch late at night watching the lightening bugs (aka fireflies, haha), Vacationing at the Beach, the lake, the pool...definitely a warm weather person and enjoy Spring thru Fall. Not much on Winter months, except for the Holidays with family and friends, but it is a great time to snuggle up :-) I am focusing on self-improvement and a healthier lifestyle. I'm making great progress, so far; getting ready to start back to College (again) to finish my degree, eliminating negative things/people out of my life, eating better, lost weight and working out..still some things to work on but I'm much happier now and I have my goals set on moving forward from here. I want someone who has some focus on improving their life too. Feel free to message and ask questions, only way to know if we might be a good match. Depends, very open on this, just treat me with respect, make me laugh and let's have a great time and get to know one another. Usually something short and sweet, like lunch, drinks, ice cream, etc. is a great way to start and then go from there. If no connection then we don't have to spend hours together but if we like one another, we can always extend the date or plan the next :)
-
LaurelOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I will keep this pretty simple. I like to go out and have fun. I like to spend time with my friends and family on a regular basis. I have plenty of time for the right guy, if and when he happens to come along. I want to find a nice guy that I have things in common with, that can keep me smiling and knows how to have a good time. Whatever we don't have in common we can learn new & different things from each other. I'm looking for something long term, but I am not in any rush to get there. I have a great sense of humor, I'll keep you smiling! I am honest, playful, and a bit sarcastic. I haven't even started to scratch the surface, so if you want to know more just ask.***Honesty and communication are key*** IF I DON'T RESPOND I'M NOT BEING MEAN, its because as amazing as you may be, you might not be my type thats all. No hard feelings. We are all grown ups, Thank you for understanding. Out for Coffee and /or drinks... I don't think dinner is necessary on the first date...... Conversation is key, doesn't matter where we wind up as long as the company is right!
-
TonyaOnline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Well, I'm here because I'm single, enjoying life, but relized that I have been single for awhile, and now Im looking to share all the fun that life decides to throw my way. Fine wines, good food and coffee - taste better with a nice man enjoying them with you. I go on long runs in the park, and work out 3- I spend my evenings either working out, dinning out or enjoying a good indie flick.I am looking for a tall, financially secure, mature,rugged, humorous, kind and considerate man with some kind of interesting job.My coworkers and friends describe me as caring,empathetic, and a loyal friend. At the same time I am extremely ambitious and dedicated to whatever challenges are thrown at me. Luckily, I am still able to lead a balanced social life.TIME WILL TELL If its a casual date I would love to meet for****ails or coffee and get to know one another. For the man out there who enjoys more a more formal date, going to a nice restaurant is one my favorite things to do.